How to tell girlfriend to stop shaving?

Question

I want to politely and delicately ask my girlfriend to stop shaving off all of her hair "down there". It really turns me off when it is all shaved. I do not want to hurt her feelings.

Answer 1

say: "could we do a little experiement? i wanna see what it's like when you don't shave "down there." if it'd be different or something?" (something similar to that.)

Answer 2

If shes like me, and alot of other women, then her maintenance isnt for you, its her own personal preference. Its not only cleaner and tidier, its more comfortable. If that is the case, which I suspect it is, and shes been doing it for a long time, chances are she wont be keen about the idea of going au natural. My advice, if you feel the need to comment, is to ask her to leave an air strip, next time she shaves (thin strip of hair, vertical at the top - catch my drift.) That way her undercarriage is still smooth, soft and hairless, but there is enough hair in that region, that you dont feel turned off.

Answer 3

First of all you have to realize that it is her body. She might not be doing it to turn you on/off. She might just feel more comfortable "smooth". But I would suggest something along the lines of.... Honesty. Tell her that if she is doing the "extra grooming" for you, that you appreciate it, however you would prefer a girl with a more "mature" look. If that doesn't work. Steal all the razors in the house and burn them. (That last part was a joke, don't do that) Of course that's just my opinion. I could be wrong. Good luck.
-Abe

Answer 4

Wow, this is different. Most men I know, myself included, would feel fortunate to have a girlfriend like yours. I haven't heard too many men say they want to "play in the bushes". I suppose you could tell her pubic hair is a major turn-on for you, & see if she gets the hint. Otherwise, you could just ask her to grow it out for you. As long as you aren't rude about it, & tell her something like her baldness is a turn-off to you, she probably won't be offended. However, if she says she doesn't want to sport a bushy muff, respect her wishes. Trust me, if that's your only problem with her, you've got it made.

Answer 5

numerous women our age shave ( i'm 23 too). that's basically yet another one among those issues that our age team has been advised is major in case you want to be pleasing. inspite of the indisputable fact that, in case you want her to offer up, basically verify such as her about it. tell her you want each and every her elements and comprehend that you won't be able to make her do some thing, yet when she is basically shaving for you, she doesn't want to.

Answer 6

ok, lots of guys seem to have problems with this. if it was me, i wouldnt be offended by you asking me to let it grow back out. but if it were the other way around and you were asking me to shave it i might get a little self concience and wonder, you know "does he think its gross, has he felt this way the whole time?" you know stuff like that. but if she does let it grow out dont end up asking her to shave it again. she would probably get really annoyed. i know i would.

Answer 7

Agree with Broz2, communicate with her! You both may get quite a bit of pleasure if you talk.... Friend plus good sex = harmony. Friends talk and aren't worried about hurting feelings. Honesty is better than silent suffering with the lights out..

Answer 8

Just tell her tactfully. I cant imagine getting offended by that.
Just say when you guys are in the mood and getting into it that "you know what I think is really hot? A landing strip/mappa tazzie/mowhawk etc

Answer 9

Just tell her that your really turned on when she's just trimmed down there. I think a lot of girls think that guys just like it that way.

Answer 10

Hide all the razors. This will work unless she waxes .......you are gunna have to tell her she looks like a little girl and that turns you off!!!!!!!!!!