Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

In the past year of our 8 year marriage, my husband has been aquiring single female friends. I would not have ans issue with this if I knew the females or he was not secretly contacting them. It started with just females from work...going out for drinks afterwards and phone calls and text messages. This issue caused a huge argument..resulting in him bad talking me to the female...their "friendship" ended after she was fired from the job. More recently he befriended another female...this time far worse than before. He would call her 4-5 times a day for 30 mins a call, and the text message were 20-30(no lie) per day to and from. When confronted, he would say "i only talk to her about our maratial issue"."I need a woman's point of view", when i asked him to end the excessive communication..he began emailing and IM. She would send emails saying she miss him...he swears nothing happened..I know better than that..I even turned the cell phone off..he got a new one and started it up again.

2007-06-14 15:26:09 · 5 answers · asked by lafy tafy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

All he does is sit there.

2007-06-14 15:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by Katyy(: 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents were divorced many years ago and my dad moved out of state and we had no contact with him after that.he died in 1966 and we heard he was buried in an unmarked grave.I didn't know him well but would like to put a marker on his grave .I don't know where he is buried so how can I find him?thanks to everyone.

2007-06-14 15:23:48 · 4 answers · asked by honeypot0214 4 in Family

2007-06-14 15:20:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My first love and I just broke up. We were together for a little over a year, and I was deeply commited to our relationship. We had our problems, but I steadfastly believed that we could work them out. He did not. He asked to take a break from our relationship, and after a week of thinking, trying to call, and being ignored, I wrote him a letter saying to forget the break, and that I couldn't be with someone I couldn't trust. My heart is devastatingly broken, and I truly feel as though I'm never going to be able to trust someone with it again.

For those who have been through it, how long did it take for these feelings of heartache and wreck to subside, and how do you trust another man after the one who you loved so dearly breaks your heart?

2007-06-14 15:19:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 15:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Friends

Ok my dad works for UPS and he drives tractor trailors. He works from noon to midnight and he is sleeping when i wake up to go to school so i really only see him on the weekends. Now i get straight A's and am ranked 53 in my class of 600.Even with that all it seemed to do was make him angry when ever i get average grades. he plays guitar and I taught myself to play. But he really doesnt seem to give a crap. My brother and him get along great they work on cars together and just seem to bond better than me. I know that its almost fathers day but thats not what this question is about. I just want to make him proud of me. Someone please help.

2007-06-14 15:17:03 · 4 answers · asked by Steubs 4 in Family

give me details on how you did yours...where you had it(inside,outside) (day or night)....what all you did things like that!! just interested thought it would be neat to hear others stories on this! getting married march 15,2008! john and brandy!!!!! cant wait!

2007-06-14 15:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

it seems like whoever I love, doesnt love me back. and whoever loves me (mostly my relatives), I don't love. I mean I try to love back those who love me, but you just cant force yourself to love someone you really dont love.

and I'm in love with this girl but she wouldnt give me the time. and I don't care about anyone else. if she loves me back, I could care less if the entire world hates me.

I want it to be a mutal thing, it never is. I love someone and they dont love me. Somebody love me, and I dont love them. Not once in my life have I loved someone who loves me back.

I have never experienced what its like to be loved by someone who I also love. know what? I'm 20 years old, and I've never even HUGGED a girl before. ******* sad

2007-06-14 15:07:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I adress to guys that I'm available? And I would say yes to ANYONE?

2007-06-14 15:06:09 · 12 answers · asked by J 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i do about my boyfriend wanting kids before he turns 18 in oct. im 21 and he wants kids from me already . its really hard to say no to him because we are both vrigins . i want to have kids but im not ready i tryed telling him but he wont listen to me. some one please tell me what to do .

2007-06-14 15:05:04 · 25 answers · asked by jennifer m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat does it mean

2007-06-14 15:04:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends mother had pledged her when she was 3 to an 12 yr.old boy,despite her falling in love with me,her momk forced her to marry this guy.Demeka even told her mom she loved me more and wanted to be with me.I asked her to ask her mom to what purpose did an arranged marriage serve.Her response was it was suppposed to elleviate getting to know someone,well isn"t that why we court and date someone for a period of time prior to marriage?To find common ground?well the guy is 25,and Demeka is 16,i am 48,and Demeka did not break the arranged marriage to me till 4 days b4 marrying the guy.We still love each other and communicate daily by phone and texing.What do yall think bout my question?

2007-06-14 15:04:37 · 6 answers · asked by Eric 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What type of ceremony did you have the second time around? I know this sounds strange. I would still like to have some sort of ceremony with family and friends and perhaps a party after. Nothing fancy perhaps a pastor or JP in the backyard with a party after. Any ideas? I would really love to hear fom any one who has done this or been to one where some one is remarrying not just renewing their vows.

2007-06-14 15:03:53 · 11 answers · asked by htaylor1021 3 in Weddings

so me and my bf hang out with the same people most of the time.. like I've also got other friends from other groups, and so does he ( I'm in grade 11, and he's in grade 10 ) anyways, so he used to have a crush on this one girl like a year ago, and him and her are like always touching other, and I don't mean on the arm or something, like he'll just come up to her a pet her arm or back and say "oo ___ yeah baby " or something, he claims he's jokeing but it bothers me so much, and he also does this with the another girl in our group too. I've done it before, not to the extent he has, but I don't like girls like that, I'm not lez, and sometimes he'll just grab her breast, or she'll grab her hand and put it on her breast. Anyway I'm know he doesn't have a crush on her anymore, and that he's kidding, but it just anoyes me, I've even told him, but he shrugs it off, I really really like him, so breaking up is no option,..please help me, any ideas anyone...

2007-06-14 15:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend lies a lot,(were not realy even best friends anymore because of lying) especially about this one boy, but we have proof that she was lying and she even admitted to it, but the lying gets so annoying, because thats all she does, and everyone knows she lies. or maybe shes just "acting" like shes done when she has been pretending to be friends with someone. what should i do? because this is just getting rediculouse now?

2007-06-14 14:58:19 · 31 answers · asked by Spring time ease 2 in Friends

i am interested in this girl and i want to ask her out to be my first girlfriend. but i have never asked a girl out before, so i do not know the process. do i simply ask do you want to go out with me or do i say a phrase or something?

2007-06-14 14:57:53 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

SO this girl gives me her number, and it's been 1 and a half weeks and I haven't called her, should I call her now even tought it was probably rude of me?..
(high school)

2007-06-14 14:57:07 · 12 answers · asked by Hosgus™ 2 in Singles & Dating

Be honest.

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2007-06-14 14:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by meeko6811 2 in Singles & Dating

She say's she feels the same, but I dont know I'm actually scared to lose her and unsure about meeting her family wondering what will they think, I dont have kid's or anything and my life is very comfortable can this really work?

2007-06-14 14:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by mista 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 5 years, and we have a 18 month old little boy...I just turned 21 and he just turned 22.....and I feel so old! and he's so carefree....he leaves me to worry about things and knows I'll come through with it.....there are bills, our jobs, our sons doctor visits, laundry, housework and a bunch of other stuff.....if something doesn't turn out right....he won't worry too much about it....and he doesn't really help me out with anything....and here I am freaking out, stressing, and losing sleep at night.....there are times when i work overtime and i just wanna come home and chill, but then he'll leave and go off with his friends....and leave me with our son....(yes, he has a job) and strolls in late at night..and I'll be tired for work the next day! how do I put some of the responsibilities on him? and yes, I talk to him about this all the time....it just seems like he's not really listening, I just feel worn out

2007-06-14 14:48:48 · 3 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family

My bf and I both can't dance. Like we can dance to stuff that HAS it's own dance (like the cotton eye joe, macarana, electric slide, cha cha slide) We have been to dances and stuff together but we just hang out and dance to those dances I named above. but we just don't know how to dance to a song that really doesn't have any dance moves. he doesn't know that i really want to dance with him, but when my friends tell me to dance with him (right in front of him) i say i can't dance and he says me neither so he knows i can't dance. i know i'm repeating myself but i really don't know what to do. there's an end of the year dance thursday and i just want to know like how to dance! i know its kinda hard to explain with words...but like just advice like "just let the music flow through u" or "don't let anyone else judge u"

if i just answered my own question tell me!

2007-06-14 14:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by M 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman in college and i also play football. I just found out my girl is pregnant back home. She doesnt go to school. I have been in school and played ball before i met her. She told me that since what i am doing was before her, she said its ok fo me to continue to go away to school and stuff. I also have to pay for school. She also told me that she can handle the baby financially on her own while im away in school. The only thing she said she would really want me to do is when im home from school on my breaks to maybe keep the baby for a night or two to give her a break. Is all this ok? do you think she could set me up to drain me wit childsupport later?

2007-06-14 14:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by bacdafuxup 3 in Singles & Dating

he yells and curses constantly and i met a new boy thats really nice &&& very religious && we met @ church but when he asked me out i said i have a boyfriend but i think i fell in love wit the boy frm church but i still love my current boyfriend but he dont treat good @ all unles hes in front of my parents who should i be with should i stay with my current boyfriend r brake up with him &&& go out wit the boy i met @ church&&& have been talkin to everyday??? HELP!!!

2007-06-14 14:33:34 · 47 answers · asked by marshmellow 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a highschool sophmore
and me and this senior (who is my brother's good friend)
have gotten closer and closer.
i am starting to like him and he hints he likes me too.
he ALWAYS im's my first
and ALWAYS says he wants to hang out.

but then, today, thomas said that his friend, the guy i like, says that i ALWAYS talk to him first and that he doesnt know what to do.

I am so confused, because I don't know if my brother is telling the truth and the guy is using me, or if my brother is just saying that stuff because he is mad i am getting with his friend.

HELP PLEASE.

2007-06-14 14:33:16 · 4 answers · asked by Audriana 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm falling in love with this girl (who happens to be kinda close to me). I want to feel closer and closer to her, and I want to be with her. How should do I do this?

2007-06-14 14:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

why is it that when i want to go to the movies with some of my friends and i ask my mom permission about she has to go too?!?!
i already proved to them how responsible i can be by asking them and going to the movies with my friends?
i mean sure there was a parent there but she didn't watch the same movie
she let us have friend time
and i don't want my mom to come but it either watch the movie and have her nearby and say things about me ( embarassing things as she usually does) and asking me to get her food or drinks and not letting me enjoy my time with my friends or don't go at all!
>.<~
and to make things worse she will probably asking this guy i like questions and make him uncomfortable around me!
Everyone says that me and the guy i like make a cute couple and for all i know my mom may ask him if he likes me!
she does that all the time with my guy friends
its not fair
i don't want to agree to got with her
she will just embarass me like she does in all different kinds of places!

2007-06-14 14:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by Cheryy Blossoms 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been 3 years with my gf she loves me to dead i have been sleeping with her alot of times in the last 3 years and i think about another women when i have it with her, i love her too but i feel guilty. how do you handle this ?

2007-06-14 14:28:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 14:28:53 · 11 answers · asked by terrelsucks 1 in Singles & Dating

ME and my best friend are goign to go to this really nice resturant just a little change up from the reg. movie and dinner and Me and this guy have been friends like forever and we have dated a couple times and it just didnt work but know we are best friends and the other day we were hanging out with alot of people and i gave him a high five and he slipped his fingerse between my fingerse like holding hands and he told said a real quick i love you and than let go and we just went back to what we were doing and he is a really shy guy and so im i and i dont know how to tell him i love him too...and i really want to impress him and look nice and i want to drop the bomb and tell him i love him....Waht should i wear, how should i wear my hair to really really impress him

2007-06-14 14:27:46 · 4 answers · asked by crazitexasgirl05 1 in Singles & Dating