why is it that when i want to go to the movies with some of my friends and i ask my mom permission about she has to go too?!?!
i already proved to them how responsible i can be by asking them and going to the movies with my friends?
i mean sure there was a parent there but she didn't watch the same movie
she let us have friend time
and i don't want my mom to come but it either watch the movie and have her nearby and say things about me ( embarassing things as she usually does) and asking me to get her food or drinks and not letting me enjoy my time with my friends or don't go at all!
>.<~
and to make things worse she will probably asking this guy i like questions and make him uncomfortable around me!
Everyone says that me and the guy i like make a cute couple and for all i know my mom may ask him if he likes me!
she does that all the time with my guy friends
its not fair
i don't want to agree to got with her
she will just embarass me like she does in all different kinds of places!
2007-06-14 14:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by Cheryy Blossoms 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am no longer in need of any help
we have come to a compromise
2007-06-14 18:11:39 · update #1
This is quite the sticky situation but here's what I suggest -
It really seems like your mom cares about you a lot. So, talk to her beforehand and just let her know that you really like going to these things and that you're not going to fight her on her on not going to the movies with you (this shows maturity and respect for your mother! It WILL come in handy down the road). Also tell her that you understand how she feels, but gently ask that she just not say anything embarrassing about you and to keep the chatter with your friends down to a minimum, because after all, they are YOUR friends. Suggest that she bring a friend of her own along! That way she can chit-chat with them and not as much with your friends. Hope all goes well!
2007-06-14 15:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Post_It_Notes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you? that would be the first question. if your about 15 or older i think it would be fine to go by yourself. maybe your mom feels left out. try and include her on things in your life so she doesnt feel like she has to push her way into your life. you are her kid and she probably feels like shes loosing you more and more every day so try and make time for her and not make her take time. just because your responsible doesnt mean she has to let you do it by yourself. she just wants to be with her little girl. so try and think from her shoes... how many times do you talk to her about your day in depth? problems you have had that day.. do you ask for her advice? just try and let her be a friend to you and maybe she will stop forceing it on you. i think i should take my advice to lol but yea... good luck... just be nice.
2007-06-14 22:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Zachary F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you really hate your mom for trying to help you? I've seen parents that don't give a dang and just worry about themselves. At least your mom is trying. Even if you don't agree with her, can't you at least respect that she's trying to do what she thinks is best?
2007-06-14 22:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Locke_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she liked having her parent come along when she went out with her friends when she was your age. All adults were your age once, but many forget how difficult that age is.
2007-06-14 21:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ashamed of her. She loves you. You can't blame a person for protecting you. At least you can go. Many kids can't.
2007-06-14 21:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks
but she cares for you, be thankful for that
just give some logical reasons why she shouldnt go and stuff and maybe she wont go
2007-06-14 22:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by anicd5225 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋