I'm falling in love with this girl (who happens to be kinda close to me). I want to feel closer and closer to her, and I want to be with her. How should do I do this?
2007-06-14 14:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first think would you rather have a romantic relationship with her than the one you have now, if you do try to plan somthing together that might put you two in a situation where you two could share your feelings, like a scary movie at your house or hers or even just a game of some sort, or be sarcastic about likeing her and see if she goes along with it, if she does she may like you back
2007-06-14 14:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really like her, that things will just kind of happen. talk to her and let her know how you feel. be open about things because thats what relationships take. dont be afraid to compliment her or tell her what you think. ask her how her day was and listen to her because some women really like a guy who isnt so self centered or addicted to sports. Just let things flow naturally, but dont let time waste away too long.
2007-06-14 21:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously NOT TO BE MEAN AT ALL but you are not in Love;love is a HUGE word..and for somebody who is just a friend you are not in love you just have deep feelings for her!
And to get closer to her throw out some hints..and ask her out on "friendly" dates
2007-06-14 21:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by BeautyQueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and tell her you would like to be closer to her. Honesty and communication are very important in any relationship.
2007-06-14 21:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One step at a time, and be sure she feels the same for you before you fall head over heels. It'll hurt you if you push her for a relationship and she isn't ready.
2007-06-14 21:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test the waters. Do you think she is falling for you also? Ask her to go someplace as friends, and then if the timing is right, ask her what she thinks. I know you may be nervous, but sometimes you need to just blurt it out to get it off your chest.
2007-06-14 21:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her on a date. Spend time with her as much as you can, compliment her, try to be interested in what she's interested in and show her that you care and that you're there for her. Be honest and open, and maybe she'll understand that you're interested.
Good luck!
2007-06-14 21:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask her yet, i mean, if your close friends then try to be her friend something like that and then try to make her feel that you like her. get to know her better...then ask her if she has a boyfriend and then ask her out. there's a lot of steps but at least try.....
2007-06-14 21:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by beatrice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should proboly tell her how you feel and if she likes you back it will be a happy ending if not ask her not to tell anyone and leave it be
2007-06-14 21:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyday keep walking closer to her until you touch her
2007-06-14 21:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by poopman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋