Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

he hurts me by saying many harsh words like he complains that i waste too much water in washing the dishes by saying you are so stupid. married 4 years, i never love him,no kid. he never respects me,never one word of admiration. we married from internet,and he lied to me about his age,he is 56 and said that 46,but i still married him because i thought of the best. but i really cannot stand any more.

2007-06-14 19:18:17 · 11 answers · asked by Carol H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how to get over being dumped

2007-06-14 19:16:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First if this is too explicit for you do not both answering...I'm Assuming all the kids are asleep..if not it's the parents to blame

I want to do something different for my man.

1) where do you like a girl to keep her lips (mouth) on the tip head or taking it all in.

2) do you like it when a girl kiss and licks you around your butt area

3) do you like it if she puts your b*alls(n*uts) in her mouth

I"M SERIOUS NO JOKES GUYS

when a girl is on top, you want her to bounce just a quarter (1/4) length, more of a tease or her atking all of you in her.

OR maybe tell me What you really enjoy..MAYBE i can do this to my b/friend...I need good and real things about when men like to be done to them during S*ex..

2007-06-14 19:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i told my sister two days after i sad sex with my bf that i lost my virginity to him.

i love him alot
i dont regret it at all.(it was great)
im so happy it was with someone i love!

but she hasnt talked to me since tues. & i did it on sun.


i love her too, and they are not makein me choose, but he doesnt know that my sis knows.


and she knows that i love him and that he loves me.

2007-06-14 19:13:09 · 6 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

How to fix this I got married at 18 and met my husband at 17 he is 8 years older then me . I kinda feel like as I am growing up more i don't like him and i actually see how immature and stupid he is . He does some really dumb things for being a 30 year old man . I know I love him but I fill like I am not fully in love with him anymore . Is this just cause i am growing up or is this something normal that happens in marriage ?

2007-06-14 19:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going to my friend birthday party this weekend and it's celebrate at the beach. I'm just going to go there in the afternoon till around 7pm. I asked him earlier and he said yes, now a few days later he change his mind and said "No, I won't let you go." What! He said that who on earth would have their birthday at the beach...and plus it's too dangerous. We had an argument about this....when ever I try to tell him that I'll be find and that he needs to trust me...yet he wouldn't let me go. What should I do? I'm almost 19 already.

2007-06-14 19:07:40 · 7 answers · asked by ceec 4 in Family

2007-06-14 19:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

A couple months ago I made friends with a neighbor of mine, we'll call her P. As time went by I realized P wasn't exactly...right. She's a drama queen, a compulsive liar, and she can't keep stuff straight in her head. I don't know whether the worst part was when she accused me of cheating on my husband, went psycho when I called the cops because she hit her daughter, or accused my friend of trying to hit a pregnant woman. She's an alcoholic and now she's in rehab, which is good. However, a mutual friend told me that P's husband has been talking smack about how they're going to sue us for slander (it's not slander when it's all true) and get my husband demoted (both hubbies are in the army). He can't do either, it's all bs, but I do worry that they're going to attempt a confrontation when she gets back from rehab. If they come over, any suggestions on what to do?

2007-06-14 19:02:10 · 14 answers · asked by Miraculous 1 in Friends

or are they pretty much just focused on working out?

haha, yea i have a small circle of friends and need/want a boyfriend or something.

2007-06-14 18:56:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents both came from Vietnam, trying to escape during the war. they met in california and married. they now have 5 children (including me). we are a lower class working family and my parents work from like 8 am to 10 pm (mom and dad). i do not see my parents a lot and are usually alone. my parents are always fighting and sometimes my dad is violent. i wish they would stop fighting but i do not know what to do. my mom says that she doesn't love my dad anymore and wants to get a divorce. i barely see my dad though because he is always at work. after work he hangs out at a restaurant with his friends and does not come home. my mom gets very upset and is stressed a lot from the work she has to do. they are not proud of their children. the oldest dropped out of high school and is gay. he has a job but is in credit card debt for spending irresponsibly. the 2nd oldest brother is also a high school drop out, loner, no friends, bad hygeine, internet addict, depressed and irresponsible.

2007-06-14 18:56:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have never been on a real date before. Please don't suggest sex bc that ain't going to happen.

2007-06-14 18:52:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and not even let her go to visit her grandmother?

This is the situation my 14 year old cousin is in because her mother let her get her hair dyed (not even that drastically) knowing that her father would not approve. She only has red streaks throughout her hair, and it's actually rather pretty.

Her dad says "Its not the hair that bothers me, it's the principle of it." But doesn't the punishment of total banishment from friends or anything she wants to do seem a little drastic, esp. during summer? The father and daughter already have a strained relationship and I fear for how this might turn out.

2007-06-14 18:50:29 · 15 answers · asked by pookie 3 in Family

sweating all over each other?

2007-06-14 18:47:32 · 16 answers · asked by LoveSlave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me. and i wan to write him a note with like info in it....like phone # or email address....i dont see him during the summer but i have a couple of ways of getting it to him....i dont know how he would react or anything....im scared but im willing to do it if it means we can get together somehow! plz help me out! im in major need of help! thanx.

2007-06-14 18:47:06 · 10 answers · asked by -:-manda bear-:- 2 in Singles & Dating

Does that really mean
HE"S JUST NOT THAT INTO HER, but he got caught having too much fun?
A few weeks ago he said she needed to go back to her baby's daddy. That was before the announcement of baby #2 and baby daddy #2.

So again, is he just not that into her?
They fight constantly and she's severly domineering!

2007-06-14 18:44:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 18:42:03 · 30 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 18:41:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wants me to tell her everything and be open with her. But today I told her today I dropped a loaf at the bakery today(took a massive dump) and she got mad at me. She said she doesn't want to hear about it. I thought we were being open. Then in bed I farted under the covers and it smelled like an old granny was baking crap cupcakes in my boxers. I came out and admitted it and she got angry about it. I thought we were being honest?

2007-06-14 18:39:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because I do...sigh it's going to be a long summer =/... i'm not the best at meeting guys either..any suggestions on how to meet guys or deal w/ not having a crush? (besides hangin out with my friends) thanks

2007-06-14 18:35:51 · 1 answers · asked by ooh 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going through a divorce, and my wife won't let me go. I love her so much, but she keeps cheating on me. so I left her after 8 months of marriage. I want to move on but she keeps calling me and telling me she wants me so I always jump to be with her I love her so but it just leads to more pain. how can I get over her..

2007-06-14 18:33:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know you cant touch them ..its a fantasy..but isnt the same as it will be to see your neighbor ..getting naked...and just keep starring when ur wife is right there...waht do u all think...?

2007-06-14 18:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by darling 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-14 18:31:17 · 11 answers · asked by tigger72879 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that i should do it, but iam only 14

2007-06-14 18:29:21 · 24 answers · asked by Ibriea J 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so basically i have known him 4 years, and he has always been really rude to me. but then we started going to school with one another, and he was still mean..

After the first year..My parents were getting a divorce, and we had to get out. I broke down infront of him,and he told me he would help me.

he is still kinda mean sometimes, but somepeople say he looks at me for periods of time,and today we were skating, and he was laughing, and he tried to tickle me....

what does this MEAN??

did i mention its one of my brothers friends...

2007-06-14 18:20:52 · 9 answers · asked by Bay 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15 hes 17 im about 5 foot hes about 6 ft. im about 160 hes about 230. physically i can not control him and i have a very difficult time getting threw to him that i have morals. i love him i do. but i have so many fears and he is a fearless person. he trys to make me loosen up but being with such a carefree person i feel i have to be more uptight for the both of us

2007-06-14 18:18:48 · 28 answers · asked by dorkk8531226 1 in Singles & Dating

A boy i met at the subways station . He liked me so we talked on the train. He started staring at me, kissing me on the neck
then about to kiss me but i stoped him. I thought that was totally direspectful. I only knew him for a few minutes. He would not stop. Until i moved away. Then he got off the train

2007-06-14 18:15:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people tell me that i look "pretty" like a girl and that i hav soft features and blah blah.....

2007-06-14 18:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Four Questions: (1) Is it weird to want to be with someone you have never actually met? I really, really have affectionate feelings for a man that I have never had the opportunity to meet in person with. I saw him one day, and I was awestruck. (2) Anyone believe in love at first sight? Am I crazy? I don't stalk him and look at his Myspace everyday or anything freakish like that but, but I will look every now and then and I think about him constantly. I want to meet him soon and try to develop a friendship out of it, but I haven't spoken with him other than a brief email conversation. I am sure he does not even remember it since it was so brief. (3) How can I initiate a meeting without seeming weird or too forward? (4) Does anyone think I should just try to shake the feelings or should I follow my heart? I would appreciate appropriate and honest adult responses.

2007-06-14 18:15:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very happy and married. My males co-workers and I discuss this time to time and alot of them think that the woman should pay half for a dinner date during courtship, etc. I did not have to pay 90% of the time with different dates even though I offered. I am an independent, professional college educated woman, and I appreciate those men who have courted me. I have paid for a birthday dinner, etc for a boyfriend or my husband of course. Is this really the way men and women think?

2007-06-14 18:14:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'm kind of a shy guy and I've been reading some answers on here about how guys should approach girls and getting some good stuff. But one thing kind of strikes me as odd in some peoples responses. People say to just go up to a girl and say, "That's a nice dress you're wearing", or "You look great in those shoes." I thought about saying that to a girl I saw on the train today and I thought for a second and it just really seemed like I'd come off gay or something commenting to a girl like that. It's not really a conversation starter, at least I don't see it as one, and even if it did start a conversation, how do you talk about fashion or something like that... I don't know, I guess my question is, ladies, if a guy came up to you and said you look great in that dress (whether it's on the street randomly or a co-worker/classmate), how does that guy come off sounding? Would you see it as queer? If it doesn't sound gay, where does the conversation go from there?

2007-06-14 18:08:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating