A boy just asked me out on a date. What should I expect? What does he expect?

Question

I have never been on a real date before. Please don't suggest sex bc that ain't going to happen.

I am 16. He is 17. We are going to dinner (nothing too expensive - neither of us have a lot of money) and maybe a movie

Answer 1

You two will be fine I'm sure, just don't let him show up at your house unexpected or early and see you in the pool nude, sleeping in the nude or going from your room to the bathroom in the nude, ok? otherwise he might start to get other ideas.

Answer 2

Hey....deep breaths girl. You are going to be fine. I don't know where he is taking so so I can't tell you want to expect other then the two of you will make small talk and giggle and such.

He isn't going to expect anything except great conversation! If you go for dinner and he pays...over to get the tip if you can. If he says no I got it, just say are you sure?

If the night goes well and you want to give him a little kiss then go for it if it feels right. If not don't.

Don't stress yourself out. YOu will end up making it harder then it really is!

good luck, have fun, dress cute, and don't forget to smile

Answer 3

It is difficult to tell you what to expect. Every first date is different, because each person is different.

Hopefully, he expects nothing more than to enjoy your company and get to know you personally, not sexually.

Think about things in advance to talk about. Examples: music, books, movies, vacations, and dreams/goals. Ask him questions about himself. Make sure they require more than yes or no answers. This is a great way to get to know him better. Maybe you can make some comparisons between his experiences and yours.

Caution: be careful not to wear anything that could be considered provocative. The reasons are it may give him different ideas than what you are hoping for and that it may distract his attention from what you are thinking and feeling.

Good luck and may your first date be special and enjoyable.

Answer 4

Dates are mainly to get to know each other. Good thing you can do is try to get info about him. There are several other sources, friends, relatives, ex girlfriends, people around him, activities he does, what he likes and dislikes, so much to find out and if you have that info up front you are with a big advantage.

Answer 5

Go out with him and just be you, i am sure that's why he asked you out, because of the way you are, and yes.. no sex, its never good to have sex or do stuff in the first couple dates. Good luck =) !

Answer 6

he'll probably try to kiss you and if not don't be surprised because he may be nervous or unsure of how far you want to go. Let him know your limits if he tries anything don't do anything you aren't ok with! he wont stop liking you just because you don't go as far as he wants and chances are he just wants to see how far you'll let him go if he tries to go farther than you'd like. Think of things to say at dinner in case there's an awkward silence.

Answer 7

Expect to be scoped out.. From all my past experiences first dates are important. Word of advice Do Not fake the funk....

Answer 8

It is up to you to set your limits, and enforce them. All you have to do is say "no." when the boundary has been met.

Otherwise, have a good time. Try to learn a bit about what interests him to keep the conversation going. He will handle the rest!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

Just be yourself!
No expectation, just be yourself and have a great time. Hopefully he is good company, you have fun and you will want to go out with him again.

Answer 10

he's probobly just as nervous as you are!! sex is not going to happen, you probobly will just have a good night, maybe even kiss, but thats about it...

good luck!!