Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

I have been with my Partner for 12 years this September, but I only found out last year that he could juggle and that he had sailed on a tall ship. Has anyone else had a similar experience where you find out something interesting (not a bad thing, like a criminal record or being abusive in the past or anything) about a partner or spouse that suprises you because you thought you already "knew" them? He, by the way, was unaware that I could ring church bells! (It's not something I go around shouting about!)

2007-06-14 01:36:22 · 10 answers · asked by lululaluau 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok heres the deal - there are 2 guys i like at work and i dont no wot to do im so hung up on them!! We went out last nite on a bit of a pub crawl and 1 of the guys i like was flirting real bad with another girl i work wiv. Then at the end of the nite they got off wiv each other (broken heart No1), then the other guy i like was really touchy feely with me and we were dancing and hugging alot but that was it. I then (stupidly) sent him a txt as i was walking home drunk saying, 'do u see me as just a friend?'. I immediately regretted it and sent another txt saying '4get the last txt i was joking and drunk'. He hasn't replied 2 either. I now feel really pathetic and depressed that the 2 guys i liked dont seem to like me back. Help!! Wot do i do to get over them or wiv them!?!?!

xxxxxxx

2007-06-14 01:35:38 · 2 answers · asked by Whisper 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do women feel they have to lie to me when i'm 100% honest with them. I open my very soul and then they either cant handle it or freak and start lying. Whats the deal with that.?

2007-06-14 01:35:00 · 13 answers · asked by joseph c 2 in Singles & Dating

he makes his hints pretty obvious. when he walks by my office, he always looks in and when i catch his eye, he winks. He just gives me that look you know. he tells me I look beautiful almost everyday, and whatnot.

I'm only 23 and this guy is like 50. what do I do? I am not interested in any scandalous office affairs and I'm not even attracted to him (lol)

this man is married with like 5 kids. ewww, help me?

2007-06-14 01:34:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so yea how do i find people my age on here??

2007-06-14 01:34:23 · 3 answers · asked by † Ðylãn † 1 in Singles & Dating

We've only practiced once when we moved into our new home. I'm sure with little kids they need to know all the right things to do. at our first practice. all the lights were off it was dark. I was with them giving them instructions. once all the fire alarms were set off at the same time. I had the door shut to the kids rooms. told them to feel the door if it was hot. If it was cool then it would be safe to open. they were scared from all the alarms. I told them to stay on their knees and stay calm. we crawled to the front door as quick as possible. It would have been more interesting if we had a fake smoke. it's sad to hear kids or families dieing on house fire. I love to practice any hazard safetly with my children

2007-06-14 01:31:44 · 4 answers · asked by Disney Dreams 1 in Family

2007-06-14 01:31:32 · 24 answers · asked by twisty 1 in Family

2007-06-14 01:29:55 · 26 answers · asked by musiclife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so there's this guy and I'm wondering if i asked him out would he sey yes? I've known him for two years now. He's a total sweetheart and is nice to everyone. He's outgoing too and relaly funny. Last night my frend had a party and he was there. We had so much fun! Me and a couple of my frends (including my crush) got into a water fight and were chasing each other for a long time. He always seed to be finding a reason to chase me, or block me from chasing soeone else. He put his arms around me and was teasing me and everything. After that we were playing truth or dare and he got dared to give me a lap dance (hehe) but it was just like pretend and he dind't actally do it. then I was about to dare him again but he had to go. half an hour later he claled me an asked how everything was going and wut happened after he left. We tlked for a while and then he had to go. Skools out and im afraid ill never see him again. SHould i clal him and ask him out?? or no?? thnx for ur help<333

2007-06-14 01:28:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the situation this gril I'v been dating for 3 years 9 months and one week broke up with me on june 7th. she's been the only girl iv been dating since i was 14 she says it's because i chill with her brother to much( I sleep there all the time with her) and she broke up with me she says we can be friends and possibly go back out in the near future(not to soon).
Did she just say that to make me feel a little better or do you think she means it? should i just give her time?Do u think I still have a shot?
Thank you

2007-06-14 01:27:28 · 12 answers · asked by HUDINI 1 in Singles & Dating

the thing is that I am engaded and this other man is married with 2 kids but hes not happy and here lately neither am I. We are just friends nothing more but I am getting feeling towards him. I actually know he has feelings for me too. I dont know what to do he is a really good guy and I dont want to loose him as a friend. but the more I talk out my problems and he talks about his we grow closer together and I actually relized that my man has been treating me really bad!!!! what should I do????

2007-06-14 01:26:28 · 16 answers · asked by babygirl21 1 in Singles & Dating

If I told you I got spooked? I’ll admit I was a player before I met her and just got spooked when she said “I think I’m falling in love with you.” Maybe I was a little to drunk or still spooked but I didn’t mean to hurt her. How did I hurt her well she came to a party and I had my hand in another girls back pocket. When I seen the look on her face I realized that I was falling for her too but now she won’t talk to me. How can I get texas heart back?

2007-06-14 01:26:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like to please my man to the t.....Pleasing him is a big turn on for me. It all begins with a thought and then the thought turns into a fantasy and the fantasy turns into reality and that's the best part. But it not just about sex, you got to have personality and humour because that last a life time.So guys tell me, what gets you all fired up?

2007-06-14 01:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by Deadlylips 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 01:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by nametso b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 01:19:05 · 17 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 01:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by Ask ME 3 in Family

2007-06-14 01:17:15 · 14 answers · asked by Bela 1 in Friends

When will i get my money for save my husband i got an email and they was 3 winners and i was the third one.

2007-06-14 01:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by ford man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi my boyfriend borrowed my sisters mp3 player with out permission and let someone else listen to it and she left it at the libray and someone else claimed it now he has to write a 3 page essay on why its not good to take without permission. he does think it was his falt.but it is because he took it out the house without permission meaning he was responsible for it...

2007-06-14 01:10:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend says he wants to marry me, but suppose he proposes, then Im engaged right? but is that serious too, or is it only getting married that is the real thing? I mean, are there guys who use an engagement to make their gf happy and then not mean it when it comes to marrying?

2007-06-14 01:08:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She continues to harass me. On the phone she calls me names and threatens me. She tried to bring me to court on every small concern like whether I can take the kids on vacation. Last night I had my daughter's awards ceremony and she had me served in front of my two boys who were with me because she does not want me to take the kids on vacation. She is relentless and wears me out with her actions. I have basically begged her to stop and let's move on in peace. Needless to say she will not even listen to me. It is effecting my kids and my health as well. What else can I do?

2007-06-14 01:04:30 · 17 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its was arranged marriage also their side parents given all wrong information about her studies, her belief in God, her age, their background now we never lived happy life........ our argument never gets end also she was keep on post ponding about kids (means she dont want child for more 1 year) i feel i dont want to continue life and to be separated

2007-06-14 01:01:41 · 11 answers · asked by Vishwa Prasad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 00:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by willow 1 in Singles & Dating

is it wrong to want it twice a day?? i remember my ex used to have to fight me off when we wer together saying it was too much. we were together nearly four years and the sex was good in the first two years and then it slowly died down to 1 time a week. does this happen to all relationships?

2007-06-14 00:54:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my STB Ex-Husband NEVER drinks. in 8 years, i saw him get drunk once when we were 16, and i've seen him have a random beer followed by tea MAYBE 4 times. His dad is an alcoholic, and he always said 1) i HATE the feeling of being drunk, and 2) i never want to be like my dad.

Him and his girlfriend went out of town last weekend, and pictures of them have surfaced, and in them, he is beyond drunk. he looks as if he's ready to puke, he's so drunk.

dont start telling me to not care and to move on. i dont care what anyone thinks, i do still care for him. that's simply my personality, dont put me down for that. I AM concerned as to why he suddenly would drink himself to oblivious after 8 years of hating to drink at all. it wouldn't bother me if he did this from time to time, but he just DOESN'T! why would he suddenly do this? does divorce do this to some people????

2007-06-14 00:52:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how ye all today?? irish girl lonely

2007-06-14 00:48:21 · 22 answers · asked by irish lou x 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather marry a man that is just so sexy you want to completely devour him, but has little money.
or
would you rather marry a ugly geek with lots of money?

2007-06-14 00:44:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 00:41:59 · 23 answers · asked by exotic 2 in Singles & Dating

here we go a trip down memory lane - when you asked your wife /partner/girlfriend out for the first time i bet they said no .
but you wasnt going to give in that easily persistance paid off and in the end they said yes am i correct ??? be honest

i just want to know coz i feel as if im in the same situation

2007-06-14 00:38:49 · 3 answers · asked by sex machine 4 in Singles & Dating

I think i'm in love with a married woman, I never met or felt the way about anyone else but her....we kissed and hanged out a few times for almost a year, she's four years older than me... she has a 1year old daughter..and i know that she's carzy about me! what should i do? it'll be real hard to walk away!

2007-06-14 00:35:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce