Why do women feel they have to lie to me when i'm 100% honest with them. I open my very soul and then they either cant handle it or freak and start lying. Whats the deal with that.?
2007-06-14 01:35:00 · 13 answers · asked by joseph c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The might be insecure about themselves or they might just find it hard to believe that a guy could be that open and honest. You have to understand, just like we have to understand with ya'll, we have been lied to a lot and it is going to be hard to trust a guy again. I know, I am sure that it is hard to do the same thing to a woman if you have been lied to by us. You just have to have some understanding until she trust you to that degree. Some women are more trusting than others. Just give her time and yourself to understand the reasoning behind it.
2007-06-14 01:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was brought up NOT to lie about anything for any reason. I have trouble remembering the truth so I would never remember a lie and who I told it too. It goes back to the "boy who called wolf" Women and men both lie because it has become a habit for them, sometimes just babbling on just because or because they have been "allowed" to lie. Honesty is best hands down...it might hurt but a lie hurts 10 times as bad!
2007-06-14 09:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by lkldnative 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you've just been hanging around the wrong women. I hate to give such a simplistic answer, but the fact is that most women just aren't like that. If it isn't YOU, then it must be the kind of women you are opening up to. Maybe you just need to be more choosy.
2007-06-14 08:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if they have a spouce then id say they have have had problems with their spouces and have to lie alot, even to their so called mates... to fix the solution catch them out and prove it to them and just start lieing to them try to make so big lies they figure them out, they will then ask u to stop lieing, talk about the issue and work from their.
2007-06-14 08:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by craigrose2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have encounter a lot of dishonest guys in their lives or have heard some horror stories from their family or friends.
2007-06-14 08:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by gapdreambabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity. or they are stupid all I now is that I am not a liar. And if a guy fully opened his heart and soul to me I WOULD THROW A PARADE DOWN MAIN STREET.
2007-06-14 08:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by lisa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say it but you might have freaked them out and their brain went on overload and they said the first thing that came to mind
2007-06-14 08:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Katie Noble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They love you and don't want to lose you, so they lie.
Maybe you're just a good guy that everybody wants to keep.
2007-06-14 08:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find the right women, man
2007-06-14 08:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sylvia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to know that one too. i have the same problem with men. really WHY?!
2007-06-14 08:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by looloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋