Ok here's the situation this gril I'v been dating for 3 years 9 months and one week broke up with me on june 7th. she's been the only girl iv been dating since i was 14 she says it's because i chill with her brother to much( I sleep there all the time with her) and she broke up with me she says we can be friends and possibly go back out in the near future(not to soon).
Did she just say that to make me feel a little better or do you think she means it? should i just give her time?Do u think I still have a shot?
Thank you
2007-06-14 01:27:28 · 12 answers · asked by HUDINI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its over
2007-06-14 01:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by newheartin03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys area bout 18 now. Sometimes thing change. I would think she's tired of you hanging with her brother. Maybe because of that it feels more like friends rather than gf/bf. She may just need a break to figure out things. If she said maybe in the future that sounds like she loves you and really cares about you. I would say give her the space she needs but maybe try to talk to her about it. Simply tell her you love her and you wouls like more of a real reason why she feels she needs this break. I mean after that long you deserve the truth and a maeningful answer. Especially if you've been friends with her brother all along then there shouldn't be anything different. Just talk to her and see what you can work out. If she doesn't want to talk or work things out then give her the space she asked for. OLD SAYING!!!
If you love something let it go and if they loved you they'll come back. So you do love her and you should respect what she wants or needs at this point in life. Good luck and stay strong for the both of you. I hope things work out...
2007-06-14 01:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Laura M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl wont break up with a guy if shes happy with the relationship. You're very young I think you should start doing other things and probably meet other new female friends. Have fun!
2007-06-14 01:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by gapdreambabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has decided she needs something new after dating you through her teens,...and using her bro as an excuse to get out and have a look around for something better....she told you that maybe you both can get back together in the future just in case she doesnt find something better....she's got a "get back into old comfortable relatioship" free card.....move on baby and find a loyal girl that wants to be with you.
2007-06-14 01:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by coolred38 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is get over her. She wants something different. So do you. Take a month to grieve. Don't have contact with her. You'll know when you're ready for another girl and it won't be because you're lonely.
2007-06-14 01:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its over. Up to you but life to short to put on hold for something that may never happen.
2007-06-14 01:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by mark R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea she just needs some time to chill and calm down you two will eventually jump back into a realationship
2007-06-14 01:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by BOOTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says she will, to me that is a promise.. if you feel unsure you should ask her again, just to make sure.. that way you can get on with your life also...
i hope this helps... best of luck
ask her if there is something you may have to change also about yourself...
2007-06-14 01:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by catwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'm sorry to say you got boring and someone else came into her life and she jumped on it.
2007-06-14 01:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over. Find another woman. If she liked you like you like her than she would not have broken it off at all. Sorry.
2007-06-14 01:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by lisa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋