is it wrong to want it twice a day?? i remember my ex used to have to fight me off when we wer together saying it was too much. we were together nearly four years and the sex was good in the first two years and then it slowly died down to 1 time a week. does this happen to all relationships?
2007-06-14 00:54:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 20 and he was 31
2007-06-14 01:05:10 · update #1
most relationships hit rough patches in this area. you can always bring something new to the bedroom. or you can find someone that has a high sexual drive like you do.
2007-06-14 00:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Hitch™ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all,why just twice..? What is wrong with this picture, hmmm "He" had to fight "you" off...? duh, did I miss something here, Question, do you have a twin sister that's not married, an has you same point of view, if so would you please introduce me...? No it "SHOULD NOT" helloo, I don't know but I've always have a problem in this area,an with the saying"I don"t love you no more" well dipsh*t looks like you never did in the first place,...! How do you "TURN" love on/off, if someone could/would answer that one,guess I should ask that huh..? But anyway love between two people,an when you supposedly do love someone,that person should be number one in your life,an you should be willing to do go above an beyond anything that you would do,or want for yourself,sacrifice the same,not because thats what they want you to do,but that what you want to do because of your love for them,your respect,your appreciation.....ok boy don't get me started on that...haha
2007-06-15 00:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ed B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooo it doesn't or shouldn't if you want to be precise.
Why would he fight you off? He should have welcomed you with open arms, age hasn't anything to do with it!. If you had a higher sex drive than him, fair enough but to go from twice a day to one a week is very dire !! It doesn't happen to all relationships - but can see why yours didn't work out. Sex isn't everything but it's a very important part of a relationship xx. Hope you get more soon - Drop me a line !!! xxx
2007-06-14 08:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember being told of a Hindu custom or saying that if you put a grain of rice in a jar every time you make love in the first year of your sexually active (they say marriage but I am adapting!) relationship then start taking one grain out every time after that, you will spend the rest of your life emptying the jar. Something like that anyway.
I guess like everything once you get used to something you get bored and take it for granted. That's why people tend to introduce new things into their love lives to keep the interest there.
Nothing wrong with twice a day IMO. In fact sounds a little low on the horny scale for my taste ;)
BTB
2007-06-14 08:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by BTB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong. With my last gf we were at it 2-5 times a day then it just all of a sudden cut back to 2-5 times a week. It's only natural.
2007-06-14 08:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Karl D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, twice a day is fine. Sometimes its a little quiet in the valleys cariad and you just have to make your own entertainment don't you!
Sex can get a bit less exciting once you know someone so well so you just have to try to keep the spark alive by trying new stuff - positions, locations, toys, whatever you fancy...
2007-06-14 08:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by frenziedmonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if the relationship is based on love or sex. when me and my partner were first together and we had no children then yeah we made love all the time but i think as you get further into a relationship i don't think its the end of the world to go without, and you risk ruining things if all you want is sex all the time and they don't .. buy a toy !
2007-06-14 08:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it happens to a lot of relationships.... But I think if it's the right one, then perhaps not. Too many people settle for familiarity when there could be something wonderful waiting for them if they just looked elsewhere. If it is important to you to have sex so often, then make sure you are actively keeping the spice in the bedroom.... I'm sure the man you snag won't be complaining!
2007-06-14 07:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by rollacoasta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just dont like sex..... I know i do .... but some people think of it more as a chore than as a recreational pursuit ...... It's good fun and make me happy..... =] I would be un happy with twice a day... 4-5 times a day now thats better....
2007-06-14 10:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age but I know that I'm older and my wife and I enjoy it 3-4 times a week. So 1 time a week is mabye okay in your 50-s or 60-s. Besides, you can always have intercourse once and then give your man a bj if he doesn't want it twice.
2007-06-14 08:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Yes it happens in most relationships, Try spicing things up in the bedroom, you never know, you might get it twice a week then
2007-06-14 08:00:19 · answer #11 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋