Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

My brother signed a mail that we weren't supposed to get from my dad because it's like this big law thingy. But my brother signed it so my mom is going to the post office, but is there any way to give back the mail?? We're not supposed to get it!!!

2007-06-14 06:57:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work security at a very small office building. I was watching on camera when I spotted a man laying outside on a picnic bench stripped down to a very flimsy pair of shorts. At first I thought that it was a homeless person that had wondered onto our property but upon further inspection I noticed that it was an employee. I was shocked. I thought that I was back at work, not on the beach. Some of the employees walking past me saw him on camera as well and one even went outside to scold him. My question is was this innapropriate behavior or if you are on your lunch break should be allowed to do whatever you want?? Input please!

2007-06-14 06:56:38 · 25 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was WONDERING whether ....?
I always keep my physical interests and emotional interests apart so when I told my friend that I had major crushes on many guys and wanted to go out them but thought about other HOT guys on the physical level she called me a big jerk.
Now that I think I think I will get really bored with my husband ( when I have that ) after say 8 - 13 times. Because then he is going to be old and then there is going to be nothing new. I think I might like other guys physically the although I won't bew tangled in a extra marital affair though.
ARE THESE SORTS OF FEELING NORMAL ???

2007-06-14 06:55:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a friend and I were driving..his eyes are always on a lady that walks by and he goes "ohhh who's that?" oh never mind she has a big belly...wtf?

2007-06-14 06:53:47 · 23 answers · asked by Renee P 1 in Singles & Dating

She is my best friend that cant think for her self! She copies me at everything! I got a new bike she got a new bike! I got the pink razor she got the pink razor I got the sidekick3 she got the sidkick2 (used) I am so over it! I am on the edge of saying I dont want you to be my friend because your to much of a COPYCAT!

2007-06-14 06:51:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-14 06:51:18 · 28 answers · asked by RaMrOd 1 in Singles & Dating

My hot neighbor is always in the backyard with the bikini thongs? She's always asking me if I want any lemonade in her house when her husband is out. Does she want to talk or something?

2007-06-14 06:50:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We're getting married in October, and since both of us like to just hop in the car and discover new places, that's what we're going to do! I'm from upstate NY, near the Adirondacks, and we're just going to see what we can find in NY and NJ - shops, bed & breakfasts, hiking trails, you name it. What are some of the places you're going to for your honeymoons?

2007-06-14 06:50:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im in a relationship and it would be a pretty good one if it wasnt for the baby momma drama. Whats the one thing i can ask him to get an idea of how he feels about me without coming out and asking him does he love me. I was thinking about asking him if me and his baby momma get into a fight that she started would he have my back with me being your girl or would you have hers because shes the mother of your kids and your afraid shell put you on child support. That might not even get a answer that might start a argurment any advice?

2007-06-14 06:49:39 · 5 answers · asked by meka g 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 06:47:56 · 21 answers · asked by C Lo 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my wife are deciding to get separated but we dont plan on divorcing for a few years , i am about to buy a property in the state of Florida what can i do to protect my property in case she decided to fight me on day for it , she has told me that she has no problem signing a paper that states that she has no rights to the home i buy in Florida , is there a such paper that i am able to get for her to sign to protect myself

2007-06-14 06:45:43 · 18 answers · asked by lee s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew that woman, she never had at least five men at once, cheated on them all, made them all give her presents and pay her bills. Some of the men found her out later. She gave some STDs, and yet those men who found her out, still want her, and ask her back, and are ready to forgive everything, even STDs and other men, why?

2007-06-14 06:45:24 · 21 answers · asked by ppt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 06:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 06:42:58 · 22 answers · asked by Matt G 2 in Weddings

My STB Ex-Husband left me for another girl 6 weeks ago. They have since moved to NC together (she 2 weeks ago, he 2 days ago). 3 weeks ago, he BEGGED me not to get him for Adultery, & we worked out what would be in the separation papers on MY terms if I didn't. Now, he's begging me TO get him for adultery! he keeps saying "I HAVE to divorce you now. you NEED to file on grounds of adultery so I can get this over w/as soon as possible". Last night, when i talked to him on the phone, I could hear him shaking in his voice. when i asked him what was wrong, he said "i just have some things i have to deal with". the ONLY think that comes to my mind is that his gf is pregnant! In the last 6 weeks, she has slept with my husband, her ex-husband, & possibly another guy. so even if she is, it may not be him. (please see aditional details below ...)

2007-06-14 06:38:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I had to break up because my mom didn't want us going out. But for a stupid reason.... she says I am only allowed to date people that are white. We broke up but remained friends, which was still really hard because we both still wanted to be together so badly. We still talk and text everday, and I keep getting in more and more trouble. I still live under my parents' roof, so they pay all of the bills and can make life miserable. He said he was willing to wait until we graduated (3 years) if that's what it took. But basically it came down to high school relationship or tearing apart my family. Either way someone is going to get hurt. I can't imagine life without him, but I had to make a choice. I am going to try and temporarily just cut off all contact with him until this blows over. Is this the right thing to do? What are my other options? Please help me!!

2007-06-14 06:36:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

forgive your father that you admire and love after finding out that he had an affair? How would you feel knowing after he apologized, he asked you to forget what he done and move forward? Does a father knows that it will not be that easy? He acts like he didn't ruined my life as well as my sister and brother..why??

2007-06-14 06:33:58 · 19 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and just recently lost our son due to SIDS less than a year ago. Well, I found out about 2 motnhs ago that my husband had a great emotional relationship that was leading elsewhere with my bestfreind. After finding out he continued to talk to her. Now come to find out he has been talking with women online and on the phone for almost a year (that I know of). Why is he doing this. What am i doing wrong. I feel like I dont know my husband anymore. I am confused on what to do or how to approch this situation. He knows that I know and wants me to blow if off and get over it. To be honsest I am not mentally ready to take in all of this after the passing of my son. I am hurt and confused please help!

2007-06-14 06:32:33 · 21 answers · asked by Princess22 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 06:31:43 · 4 answers · asked by Questioner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 3 years and my husband has been ignoring me for the past 2 years. I have tried talking to him but, things arent what they used to be.

Last year i have been seeing someone until now. I just found out yesterday that I was pregnant and it's my boyfriend's child. I never told him that I was married until yesterday. He never suspected anything because I have been coming over to his place for a year now. He is hurt and i don't know what to do. I love him dearly.

I don't want to get an abortion but, scared of getting a divorce because of the unknown. What should I do? What can I do?

I made my mistakes and now I have to face the consequences. My boyfriend is a great guy, he loves me and I love him. But, now we are having a baby together. I just want to know how I can make things right.

2007-06-14 06:28:51 · 26 answers · asked by Aileen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a good relationship, but this question stems from something that happened to my friend.

Why is it that men will date certain women, but not marry them? For example, a couple will date for 5 years and then all of a sudden just break up one day. I'm not talking cheating or anything, just one day call it quits.

Than, maybe 6 months or a year later, they meet another girl. Just as nice as the other, and marry her. What is it about some women being more marriageable material?

Why is it that men date some women, but would never consider marrying them. And why are some women instant marriage material?

Lots of men say, they knew they'd marry their wife from the first moment they meet. Some what makes those women, fit the marriage catergory so quickly?

2007-06-14 06:28:21 · 24 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I was just on the phone discussing Celebrity Fit Club on VH1, with my boyfriend and he mentioned that although one of the women on the show had lost weight, that her weight was still "pretty thick" for her height. (I believe she was 5'5" and 130lbs.) It hurt my feelings because I'm 5'4" and about 120-125lbs. I am very active, I work out all the time, and only look like I weigh around 105-110. I don't know how to discuss this with him, because I am uncomfortable with my own weight, and feel if I tell him how much I actually weigh, he will think I'm fat. I always lie and say I weigh less because I look like I do, but it hurts when he calls people thick who are close to my actual weight. What should I do?

2007-06-14 06:28:09 · 17 answers · asked by Amanda W 2 in Singles & Dating

If you knew a girl liked you and you liked her and that you knew she was really shy but she made a move to talk to you then you made a move to talk to her and you sort of hinted about the movies but she didn't get it and then ignored you the next day....(out of shyness) would you give up and feel rejected?

and would you find it weird if she emailed you asking you to go see that movie you were talking about? a couple of days later? (even though you had really only talked a couple of times but had a class together?)

2007-06-14 06:27:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is a great volleyball player in the high school and she probably accept an offer in an other town which is far from her family and her friends. She was invited to join a better volleyball team... She will train with them and, of course, she will play with them. I know this is a cool opportunity for her but she said she didn't want to continue this sport after the school. Few of her friends think this isn't a good idea because we love her and we don't want to let her go.
Well...what do you think, it is a good decision to go there?
Or would you leave your family and your friends behind because of a sport you won't continue later?

Sorry about my grammar mistakes. I am not good at English...

2007-06-14 06:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

here ya go... ok i like more than one guy, two guys i knew sense pre-k, and the other two guys i knew for three to four months. i dont know what to do. so i need help.

2007-06-14 06:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO U DO, WHEN U IN LOVE WIT SUMBODY, BUT U KNO THEY ARE NO GUD 4 U? N ITS HARD 2 LET EM GO

2007-06-14 06:23:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And how long have you been together ?

2007-06-14 06:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will be going thru a divorce. How can I forget about him??

2007-06-14 06:23:08 · 7 answers · asked by Judith H 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it cost? What did you wear? Where did you get the marrage license signed? What is normally said?

2007-06-14 06:22:52 · 3 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Marriage & Divorce

leaving those children on there own but my heart does go out for them i pray each day that they will find that dear mite safe and sound GENTLE JESUS MEEK AND MILD LOOK UPON THAT DEAR LITTLE CHILD how can we put this dear child out of the limelite please pray with me that they will find her

2007-06-14 06:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships