I was WONDERING whether ....?
I always keep my physical interests and emotional interests apart so when I told my friend that I had major crushes on many guys and wanted to go out them but thought about other HOT guys on the physical level she called me a big jerk.
Now that I think I think I will get really bored with my husband ( when I have that ) after say 8 - 13 times. Because then he is going to be old and then there is going to be nothing new. I think I might like other guys physically the although I won't bew tangled in a extra marital affair though.
ARE THESE SORTS OF FEELING NORMAL ???
2007-06-14 06:55:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think you will be bored with your husband, then don't get married. I don't know if you have one in sight or if you're just talking but obviously you have never been in love. When you meet the right person for you, there's no reason to bored. When you're in love you always find things to do and stuff to talk about. My husband and I have been together for 8 years and we go out all the time, we talked all the time and still have just has much fun as we did when we first met ( by the way I'm 45 and he's 44 ). I think you need to keep on having fun and when you're done with the fun and you're ready to settle down, you will realize that sometimes it's not always about fun, but more about having someone that loves you and someone you can be happy and comfortable with.
Fun lasts for a while, but you will get bored of that too.
good luck
2007-06-14 07:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by johanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everyone a favor and don't get married. If these are truely your thoughts than you should stay single and engage in all the one night stands and uncommitted relationship that you want. This will work out well for you for quite some time.
If you fall in love (which is doesn't really look like you can), then you will not have all of these thoughts. You will not spend all your time thinking about how many hot men you can do. You will think up ways to spend time with your lover.
The way you described it is that you are thinking only of yourself and your needs and can't really see any need to give, but only take. If you get married, this will cause lots of problems and nobody will be happy beyond about 3 months or so.
2007-06-14 07:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're married doesn't mean that other men are not sexy anymore. It's all about how you handle it. Obviously if you got married you knew that you were willing to forgo all other men for your husband.
2007-06-14 06:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are totally normal feelings. You've kind of got this hormonal thing going on, haven't you?
2007-06-14 06:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know...but if you get bored with your husband after 8-13 times he obviously sucks in the sack...you sould take one of those sex classes it'll teach him new ways to touch you, tease you, and please you. if you dont want to to do this in front of strangers then get him a book or something, kama sutra may work.
2007-06-14 06:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by j t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you reach a level of maturity, these thoughts will no longer occupy your thinking.
2007-06-14 06:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Are you married now?
Where did you go to school? (cause they need to restructure their English departments, since they are not teaching kids properly?
2007-06-14 06:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that you are a very shallow person and deserve to be alone for enternity.
2007-06-14 06:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal...some men know what theyre doing
are you really married??
2007-06-14 06:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not normal.
2007-06-14 06:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Schwinn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋