My VERY soon to be ex-husband believes he did all he could in our marriage because he never went out to hang out with his friends or go to clubs, bars etc. His undying defense is I was a good husband, I went to work and came home and thats all! Women/Men correct me if I'm wrong but doesn't a marriage take more than JUST BEING THERE? I begged for more dates, more excitement something to keep us "alive" after 15 yrs & two kids. I bought lingerie, danced for him, lit the candles planned get-aways but sometimes I wanted to be the one who sat back and enjoyed HIS plans. He refused to keep a cell phones cuz he didn't want ANYONE to have tabs on him and I begged for him to get one even got him one and he gave it to our son. Oh but now he has one, now going to parties, lost all this weight... I just need a little validation here please, just being there isn't ENOUGH RIGHT?
2007-06-14
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