Men and their computer bimbos?

Question

Why is it that men must go online when your not home yet and look at skinny blonde bimbos doing things with other men! What do they get out of that? How is this enjoyable? Especially when your girl is NOT lacking in the bedroom department!(especially when your girl is the one who wants it all the time) It pisses me off that even though its once in a while, when do i get mine! Nothing pisses me off more than when your man goes on the computer behind your back and then falls asleep. Hope that hand sex is great! pathetic. Then tries to clear your computer history, like if that isn't obvious enough. GROW UP!

no jealousy...sorry-not that kind of girl. Im more of the experimental one in the relationship too.

that whole men want to impregnate as many woman as possible i think is BS, u can control yourself. I am more sexual than he is and i only have sex with him, i dont go look at stuff and get myself off, i wait for my husband to come home. Ive tried everything u can think of in the bedroom with him, so his fantasies are definitely fulfilled in that department. So yea i do feel disrespected. Its like nothings ever enough. He is the kind of man who doesn't need sex all the time.

im kind of hoping hes doing it for learning purposes.

Answer 1

Many women will not like answer.

Men and women are difference, and although that is an obvious statement, the difference goes all the way down to our biological and instinctual levels.

Biologically men are built to impregnate as many women as possible. For a man to stay monogamous he is fighting his instincts. A woman’s instinct is to find a man that will be a good father and provider. You may not like these statements, but they have been proven to be true in many studies of the biological triggers of men and women.

However, humans are not mindless beasts of the jungle. We have the ability to rise above our biology. A man can have a happy and successful monogamous relationship and a woman can live a very fulfilled life without a husband or children.

Every man, no matter how loyal or how much in love they are with their wife or girlfriend has desires for other women. We can not help it, it is hard wired into our bodies; it is part of what makes us men.

Pornography is a mostly harmless release for men’s biological fantasies. A man may turn to pornography as an outlet for his biological urges. In a very real way porn has helped many men overcome the temptation of cheating.

Try not to be angry with your man. He probably loves you very much; no doubt he would choose you over any of the women in the pictures he looks at. Try to understand the reasons he looks at porn instead of automatically assuming it has something to do with disrespect for you.

However there is a point where it becomes too much, if he prefers porn over you, his girlfriend (or wife), it may be a sign of a bigger problem. Almost anything taken to far can be a problem, if it is part of a larger problem perhaps the two of you should seek counseling.

Answer 2

Sure must be a terrible blow to one's self when a screen that projects little, tiny dots of light and color wins hands down in the boudoir over you.
Guess that pretty much sums up where you stand in the grand scheme of the relationship.
Plus...touch not the keyboard until sanitized.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

do you think u cant hold up against them it sound's like jealousy to me

Answer 5

Oh! You're referring to porn. Well... what else is porn for? And honestly, no offense to you girls, but i think each person knows how to please themselves better than another person could (generally). So i dunno. maybe we just wanna learn new moves and junk.