I am married now for 6 ys but I want out I cant take the lies the cheating the im sorry anymore but I keep going back because some how he manges to make me feel guilty that hes changing and if I love him I stay.. Did I mention we have 2 kids together..
2007-06-14 03:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by ktbhlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's hard because you are going to be closing this chapter of your life and moving forward,,Try to keep in mind that you are strong enough to do this.You do not need him nor the crap he has given you and just move forward....Tell yourself it is ok to do it. You will have moment where you feel it is just to hard and want to go back because then you know what to expect..Remind yourself of the reason you left in the first place during these times....My prayers are with you and your children also remember what they see they will become....Be strong for them and yourself...
2007-06-14 03:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by ~Angel~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices...get out before you become a very bitter person, which is what all these lies and the ones that are definitely in your future are going to lead to, (Not to forget the probable STD that he is going to bring home.) or you can continue to let someone erode your self-esteem, sense of worth, and your values and morality, while the good life that could be yours fades from your sight entirely.
Eventually you can find someone worthy.
Nothing makes a repeat offender (such as your husband) change their ways EXCEPT consequences.
Unfortunately, the only thing that might make him change is losing you, the person he loves. But then it will be too late.
2007-06-14 03:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i mention that your children are suffering and you don't even know it. It is obvious you made a mistake 6 years ago or he has become so complacent with you that he is taking you for granted. Send him to the curb once and for all and take care of the kids until a real man comes along
2007-06-14 03:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Frank L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids, schmids.....that has nothing to do with it. Want it put in persepctive and layman's terms. You have no self esteem. You prefer the life of a doormat. Lying there waiting for him to walk up, wipe his feet on you and then carrying on with his infidelities and lies.
You and you alone are the only one who can extricate yourself from this cesspool. However...if you'd rather choose to wallow in self pity and cry "poor me" then so be it.
You can never advnace if you don't learn to put one foot in front of the other.
Now...you also can't say that you were never told.
2007-06-14 03:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you are not able to make a healthy decision, look for help from someonelse. A trusted relative, a church elder or counselor.
If the family is not healthy, the kids will suffer too.
2007-06-14 03:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Stanley W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bizarre and hurtful game in which you have chosen to play. Please stop playing his game. Continuing to play it will result in your children being the game's ultimate losers.
2007-06-14 03:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodbye and Good Riddance!
He is CHEATING on YOU!!!!!!
2007-06-14 03:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋