My ex dumped me 4 mths ago. We were together 8 mths.
I tried to get back with her. She said us being apart was right. She wanted to "stay friends". I said we could not stay totally out of touch but would never be best friends.
We dated other people briefly. I rang her 6 wks ago to suggest we catch up. She said no as she was seeing someone else and it wouldn't be fair on them. I thought this weird considering she wanted to stay friends but acted fine.
I dropped her an e-mail and said I had moved on, was fine with things, now seeing someone else (to test her reaction!!) and happy to be friends. She rang me straight away. The first time she has called me since we split!! She said she wasn't seeing anyone.
We met up for a drink a wk ago.We chatted generally. I ended things & said nice to see her.
I texted on tues saying to call if she was free. She rang straight away.
We agreed to meet for lunch on sunday. Is she interested again??
2007-06-14 03:48:32 · 6 answers · asked by hantsguy1977 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I texted on tues I did it a little bit test how quickly she would call back. She was very talkative on the phone, to the point that it was not unlike when we were together.
Should I read anything into this?
2007-06-14 03:49:28 · update #1
Also, when I e-mailed a mth ago, I said I was seeing someone. She may still think I am though she hasn;t asked. How should I deal with this issue??
2007-06-14 03:50:03 · update #2
Stop playing silly games and ask her straight out what her intentions are.
2007-06-14 04:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that when she broke up with you, she probably just wanted to see other people. When you called her, she was like, oh, he is desperate now. Now you told her, that you are seeing someone else. The reason, she is interested again is because she doesn't want you seeing someone else in her place. She probably thought that you would never see someone else as you saw her. Be careful with your feelings. Be cautious. It's okay to see her again but ask her why the sudden interest?
2007-06-14 10:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by maribella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep hiding the fact that u are seeing someone else, it is making her want you more. Women only want men that they cant have, and she thinks she cant have u cuz u seeing another women, so she is wanting u more now. Thats why women like bad boyz.
2007-06-14 10:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing hard to get. if you have to make her jealous before she comes back, there's something wrong with this woman, and possibly something wrong with you for having to play "her game". I say you skip out on all of this drama and go for a woman who you don't have to try to impress. She'll be worth your time.
2007-06-14 11:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by live*laugh*love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she's interested but she seems like trouble. If you want her back go for it you definately have a chance but she seems like she plays games so be careful.
2007-06-14 10:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by neetiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's interested. Keep doing what you're doing. So far, it's working.
2007-06-14 10:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lexie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋