who is daddy?

Question

OK 3 year relationship with my fiancee,I cheated on him sometime toward the end of october 06. Im expecting August 19, could it be who i cheated with or def my fiancee.Serious people only? No childishness. thanks

Answer 1

well if you simply couldnt figure out who was the person who made this baby with you, then you have to wait for it till it comes out.. dna stuffs. be honest with your fiancee. accept whatever will happen, be strong.

Answer 2

if your expected due date is August 19 you probably conceived about mid to late November so if you were still seeing the other guy at this time then you may want to look into a paternity test. Sperm can survive up to 5 days after ejaculation and fertilization can occur up to 10 days before implantation. There is more information on the web page below.
I hope this helps with your main question.

I know that you weren't looking for relationship advice but ...I think you should have a serious talk with your fiancee but first figure out why you cheated. If there was something he wasn't giving you or some insecurity on your part that he might be able to resolve you need to figure that out and discuss it with him. If you really love your fiancee you need to figure out the why so it doesn't happen again. No one deserves to have their trust betrayed like that (and have their health risked like that if you were having unprotected sex). Are you sure you're ready for marriage? Don't just marry him because you are now pregnant, that is not fair to you, him or the baby. Your child needs both a mother and a father but that doesn't have to be in the same house.

Regardless of what you choose to do I wish you luck and a healthy baby. Congrats.

Answer 3

Yes, it could be his.

Get a DNA test to determine who the father is. No matter how hard it is for you to live up to the fact that you don't know who the daddy is, be honest to those around you. You will then at least be able to live your life with dignity from this point on.

Look, you can go through some unpleasentness now and tell everyone what's going on, or you can try to hide it and then spend the rest of your life struggling with this and feeling like a liar and a cheat.

Answer 4

Lord only knows, have a DNA test done after the child is born and why the _____ would you cheat on someone you've been with for three years and on top of that not use some kind of protection to prevent a pregnancy or STD and you are telling us not to be childish.

Answer 5

You'll have to get a DNA test, but I think it's your fiancee's... I'm not a mathematical guy, but according to my rough guesstimation, if you and this other guy did it at the end of October, your child (assuming everything was normal) would be due in July... so I think it's your fiancee's. However, there's no way to know this for certain, so you'll have to get a DNA check once it's born.

Answer 6

DNA test!!!!!!!!!!!!! No way to know besides that, we are not God and don't see the future........... Why did you cheat? No disrespect but you only seem concerned about whos the baby is.Is it because if it isn't you soon to be husbands then he wont be your husband...You don't even seem bothered that you cheated.. If you didn't cheat then there wouldn't be a reason to worry! Sorry but, You just don't seem to care and the man you are supose to marry should know the truth...

Answer 7

Well counting from Nov to Aug is 10 months. A full term pregnancy is 40 weeks. Sounds like a close call but you can ask your doctor approx when you concieved. They can usually narrow it down by a couple to a few days. I don't know but it might be worth asking.

Answer 8

It is hard to tell cause the obgyn always had my due dates off. It is a case of DNA when the baby is born

Answer 9

Honestly how would we know? Did you sleep with your fiancee during this time frame?

Answer 10

If that due date is right your 30 wks, you got pregnant in November. http://www.pregnancy.com/ Use their due date calander.