Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

Let me start by saying that I am a happily married woman. I recently ran into my high school boyfriend's mother in the grocery store and she told me he just got married. He and I are still friends and email and phone each other frequently. I have even met his new bride ( they have been together a while). My problem is that I can help but feel a little upset that he didn't tell me he was getting married. Not that I would have went to the wedding ( no matter how close that would just be strange). But we have been friends for 15 yrs and dated for 2 1/2. I don't know why this bother's me but it does. Am I over reacting or am I justified in being a little hurt?

2007-06-14 02:40:33 · 19 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 02:37:34 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-14 02:36:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have fallen for a white man really hard. In recent times i find white guys to be hot. I was never really into them at all.The problem is a have a Black B/friend who i don't feel much for(maybe because i have fallen for another guy).

I know my b/friend will want to fight this guy if i leave him & he finds out the other guy is white. I think it will make matters worse if he know that this white man is 43yrs and i'm 29 yrs . My b/friend is 30yrs.

Even though he is 43 yrs, he is really hot & looks better than most young men.He has the Anderson Cooper look(the CNN News anchor) BUt i think he's even more cuter that Anderson Cooper.

I think it will kill my B/friend to know that this guy runs his own successful company and my b/friend will use that against me.

I know he will try to find this guy to physical fight him. how do i deal with this. I have not slept with my b/friend in 4 months & i once told him it was over but he did not accept it. He said we should work things out.

2007-06-14 02:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband ignores me a lot, is addicted to video games, masterbates/ looks at porn sometimes (and lies about it), only has sex with me maybe once/twice a week, doesn't open up or talk to me. I feel like all I do is complain, or remain silent with all my needs unmet. I'm starting to resent marrying him.

I've given up alot, moved everywhere his job has taken him (even overseas). I have two children 2 yrs and 1 yr. I want them to have a good example for a father and marital relationship. I feel like we are just roommates that have sex once in awhile.

I talk to him about it nicely, and complain, nothing is working. I feel like nothing will change.

By the way- (jerks) I'm not ugly or overweight, or a b*tch

2007-06-14 02:24:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 02:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-14 02:18:40 · 43 answers · asked by annabelle p 7 in Marriage & Divorce

a few weeks ago, there's a rumour that my uncle has second wife. more worst, becoz it happened 4 years ago n they already have 2 children!! i'm feeling sorry for my auntie. my family suggest my auntie to divorce her husband, but i think my auntie didn't want to do it.

2007-06-14 02:17:03 · 1 answers · asked by distiko 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 02:15:52 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me. She always addresses her issues with my husband. I do not like her, she says and does some of the most stupid things. She believes she is the only good parent. I fear that if my husband spends time with her and their kids together he will miss that environment and want to go back to her. We have been married for almost 2 yrs.

2007-06-14 02:15:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need some advice. Maybe I'm over reacting but I feel like my husband doesn't like me anymore. I know he loves me but i just feel like I'm not attracted to him anymore. He still treats me right he's never disrespected me, but he doen't talk to me the same. I feel like he's keeping things from me and i've caught him looking at porn couple times. Also caught him talking and text messaging with one of our neighbors daughters, calling her babe and stuff. We talked about it and nothing ever happened ever since, but i still have these feelings that he keeps things from me. and the sex is not the same anymore; used to be more into it and now we just do it and thats it. Ever since I had my baby(1 yr ago) he hasnt wanted to do oral sex but he still asks for it. I just feel alone and don't know what to do. Everytime he makes me mad leaving him always comes to my mind, but i still want to be with him at the same time because i love him. Do i make sense? Please help only serious advice plz thanks

2007-06-14 02:10:29 · 9 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i already have boyfriend, but in other countries.im trying to be faithful but there's someone that care for me here.what should i do?

2007-06-14 02:08:21 · 9 answers · asked by distiko 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend lives with me. I pay all the rent. I pay all the utilities. Satelite, Phone, DSL, Gas, Electricity and for my motorcycles and child support which add up to about 2150 per month. She is planning on going to Respirtory Therapy School and she asked me if I could help her out financially while she is in school which could add up to around 700 dollars. I told her that I would see what I could do but I explained to her my bills and she got upset with me and said that I was making her feel bad, I make okay money and I could probably afford it but I would have zero money for myself. Am I wrong for telling her that I'm not sure if I could help her out 100%. I really don't want to; am I wrong for feeling this way, people work and go to school all the time.

2007-06-14 02:06:58 · 26 answers · asked by Lewcifer 2 in Singles & Dating

highschool aged people please answer:] Thanks!

2007-06-14 02:05:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-14 02:03:45 · 23 answers · asked by Magalela 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would attract you the most....

2007-06-14 02:03:24 · 15 answers · asked by Moral Kiosk 6 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for a craft idea for a 3 year old that will Melt her daddy's heart when he see's it Father's Day. Something he'll keep forever and make him melt everytime he see's it again Any Idea's

2007-06-14 02:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How many of us can confess that we have either cheated or not on our partners before?

2007-06-14 02:02:14 · 30 answers · asked by Cuz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hurt so many times in life that there is no one in the world for you. Your heart is sour and you don't believe in love. Maybe there is not a soul mate for you .

2007-06-14 02:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by gia00601 3 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 4 years.. and been friends since we met when we were 2 y/o we went to school together until college... now we´re both 19... and we broke up 4 weeks ago.. she started dating and holding someone else´s hand 2 weeks after the breakup... do you guys think that new person is in there for real or is it a rebound relationship?

she was the dumper... by the way... she said our flame was over.. and she said she liked this new guy.. which is her classmate.. "he´s not the reason we´re breaking up" she said... and yeah.. i still love her as much as the first day... or even more..

2007-06-14 01:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been speakin online to a guy for a few months on a daily basis for hours at a time,and also on the phone,we have also exchanged photos,and have spoken via web cam...it semms bizarre but im sure i love him and he has told me he thinks he loves me.....is it possible?we are going to meet up next week,,,

2007-06-14 01:57:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 01:57:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we've been together 12 years married almost 5. have a 3 yr old. For the past 2 years he has been miserable every day. He calls me names and is only nice when he wants sex. nothing i do is good enough. he rewashes the dishes and wipes the counters. if I vacuum he says "you wouldn't know it." same with washing floors. i do 75% of housework and ALL childcare. came home from work after 6 hours chils asleep in clothes with soggy diaper. he has hit me in the past, is very verbally abusive and his moods change from one minute to the next. he's been threatening to kill himself or tells me that I should kill myself. he does all of this in front of child. recently started saying that she was a mistake and he should never have let me talk him into having her. I think he suffers from depression and possibly OCD but refuses to acknowledge a problem and gets angry at the suggestion of getting help. always saying that everyone is the problem especially me. stay or go?

2007-06-14 01:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by deeply troubled 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My buddy Frankie lost his arms in a horrific woodchipping accident a few years ago. We got into a major fight last night because he came over to my apartment and wanted to see the Yankees game. I said "here catch" and gently tossed the remote to him. I forgot about his armlessness and it smacked him in the neck. He got upset and said I was inconsiderate. He said I am insensitive and brought up a story from last year where we went on a road trip to Boston and I told him to drive. He says thats not funny. I feel bad for hurting him, but shouldn't he have more of a sense of humor? Its not like hating the world will help his arms to grow back!

2007-06-14 01:54:03 · 9 answers · asked by brendanwoodson 1 in Friends

2007-06-14 01:49:57 · 13 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 01:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by sanju 1 in Singles & Dating

looking 4 a laugh lol

2007-06-14 01:43:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel in love with some on who is 30 years older than me.

I alaways was interested in friendship with older guys than me because I find young boys stupid.

2007-06-14 01:41:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 01:40:46 · 42 answers · asked by swish 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are going camping in a few weeks and I want to make it special. Any ideas how I can turn it into a romantic and special few days?

2007-06-14 01:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by wateronthered 3 in Singles & Dating