We were together for 4 years.. and been friends since we met when we were 2 y/o we went to school together until college... now we´re both 19... and we broke up 4 weeks ago.. she started dating and holding someone else´s hand 2 weeks after the breakup... do you guys think that new person is in there for real or is it a rebound relationship?
she was the dumper... by the way... she said our flame was over.. and she said she liked this new guy.. which is her classmate.. "he´s not the reason we´re breaking up" she said... and yeah.. i still love her as much as the first day... or even more..
2007-06-14 01:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as far as i know... (which is not much since she lied to me and wasnt honest..) she never cheated on me or dated that guy before we broke up.. they started dating the week after we did broke.. since he´s her classmate they are together like 80% of daytime.. and that gives me the creeps.. she put her friends aside..even common friends.. its like the new guy is even more important than i was... i think she feels guilty bout hurting me.. but thats not good.. i want her to love me again.. and miss me... i was thinking about witchcraft.. lol.. how can a person totally change in bout a week..? i mean.. not even her Friends???
2007-06-14 02:19:37 · update #1
omg pal.. im sorry to hear that.. in my opinion, it was a rebound relationship - well, that's based on the account that you gave. although it may seem to be a rebound relationship, but i believe that there is another possibility.. but i have to ask you a question first, was she already seeing the guy when you guys were still in a relationship? if yes, then im sad to say that probably, it was the real thing, but if not, then my bet is that it is a rebound relationship.
forgive me if i offend you.
2007-06-14 02:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by oliv3r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Madalene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been the rebound-er and the rebound-ee. When I was the rebound-er (the one recently out of one relationship and into something else), I was filling a void and I always knew that the situation was just that - a situation. It was only temporary and it wasn't going to last. Unfortunately the young man that I rebounded with was looking for something more and when I told him what the deal was, he was devastated. So I had to live with that for a while. We were "together" for about six months. That was the one and only time in my life that I was the rebound-er. I've been the rebound-ee a couple of times and I think the longest for me (that I can recall) was about four months before I was dumped by the ex of the rebound-er. Sucked because at that point I was just beginning to develop an attachment. I guess if I had been one more month in I'd have been really devastated.
2016-05-20 00:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure this new guy is a rebound. You may just need to work on getting over her though for yourself. If this is meant to be it will rekindle for the two of you but don't hold your breath counting on that. Go out and find yourself a rebound girl.
2007-06-14 02:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problem is she doesn't feel the same way anymore. It's a bitter pill to swallow but you will have to do it. I'm probably gonna catch hell for this but it's true. The best way to get over a girl is to get under another one. Just make sure your up front with the other one.
2007-06-14 02:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by deniver2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the reason...dont let her tell you otherwise...sounds like she got bored with you(spent all her youth with you) so went looking for something different. If she's all ready holding hands then she may have been in that relatioship before she dumped you(it happens)
dont be miserable and wait for her to come back....why would you want her too....if she can dump you once for something different, she can do it again....grieve and move on
2007-06-14 02:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by coolred38 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally not.
I think your childhood sweetheart has outgrown the puppy love and wants to move on with dating new guys. I think you both deserve to explore and meet other people, i hope you'll start seeing other girls too.
2007-06-14 02:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by gapdreambabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dumped you it isn't a rebound. The guy was on her radar before you two broke up.
2007-06-14 02:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by jon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be its a good move on her part as it will give both of you time and space to decide on your own futures.
2007-06-14 02:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be a rebound, but sometimes those work out for long term
2007-06-14 02:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋