anny ideas on why some girls are so dificult to understand?

Answer 1

Because women base what they do on how they feel. They are driven by emotional feelings. That is why sometimes they will do the opposite of what they say. They might honestly believe what they say, but when it comes down to it, if it conflicts with how something makes them feel, they will usually go with the emotional feeling. Especially when it involves attraction.

There is good book called "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus", it shows the difference between how men and women think.

Answer 2

Maybe it's because they feel a lot of things, and sometimes they believe that other people should understand what they are feeling or what is happening, since to them it's all too obvious.

So there lies the problem when everyone has their own view on things and understand things differently, such that no one can really tell what each other is truly thinking, right down to the last detail.

It's almost like a mind game.

Answer 3

Well, to be frank, girls are really very emotional and their minds are often cluttered with this and that, making them complex. It kinda depends, really, on how you treat the girl. Some can be really touchy, or easily hurt, so try not to play around with her feelings by "joking" around with insults(especially not insults), like, "Dudeeeee, why'd you look so ugly yesterday?", and stuff. Basically, you get the idea. She might smile bleakly, then walk away with that sinking feeling in her heart. You don't have to go down on your knees, bowing to her and calling her the Almighty God, but all girls expect to have their feelings respected to some point.

Or, you could be dealing with a demanding girl - she expects to go shopping ten times a day, and maybe expect you to tag along without a single complaint, as she checks out those Abercrombie shirts and those Charles&Keith shoes she's always admired. Or, she expects you to listen and agree to everything she says and commands you to do. In that case, I suggest you get another girl.

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Answer 4

That is a great question. Girls and guys are equally difficult to understand. lol.. I am still trying my best to understand guys. How to understand girls? Be in their shoes. But there are many different girls out there and all have their own individual differences. You might be fitting in thousands or maybe more in order to understand each one of them. Good luck! =)

Answer 5

Some girls???? All girls are hard to understand from a man's point of view. That's not a knock, just that women think differently than men. Women think,"If you loved me, you'd know what I'm thinking". Men think, "what the heck is she thinking". Communication and compromise is the solution.

Answer 6

the same goes for all people who are too different from each other. girls led very different lives then boys and so are hard to understand. just the same as it would be hard to understand another boy who grew up in an entirely different life and culture. people will never be able to totally understand each other, so all we can do is move on with our lives.

Answer 7

Okay dude: I'm a girl so I should know. We're way more affectionate and you guys aren't. And that's the difference between us, the different language. If the GUY is too affectionate, we might think you're weird though.!

Answer 8

guys have same issue cant understand men and there difficult also. so also answer yourself same question but it dont help men arent straight up and one way and say and do opposite of what they feel want and thinking and have had time being honest open with feelings and want to be macho and all. and why us females are difficult to understand cause men are also difficult and hard to understand.

Answer 9

When you learn that answer your life will probably be over. The human mind is so full of pitfalls, no one knows it all. I am a man and therefore won't try. You just say 'Yes dear' and go on.

Answer 10

girls are moody and more emotional which means they are always concerned about "feelings". They think with their heart more. Just always remember if you don't understand something just ask. It's better that way so she won't think you don't care.