I think that i should do it, but iam only 14
2007-06-14 18:29:21 · 24 answers · asked by Ibriea J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um, no. you should have sex when you are an adult and ready for such a big step (being in love wouldn't hurt either)
2007-06-14 18:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Christina V 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off you are only 14 years of age why do you think you are ready for it? I believe that you think your ready because this is a boy that you like and if you have sex with him he will like you and you guys will live happy ever after.
Thats not the case here you are 14 and having sex with someone at that age is just a start for many of bad things. Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to, be different and I promise you that all those other girls that are having sex at 14 will realize that they made the biggest mistake in there young life.
2007-06-15 01:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Missy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Let me say that one more time!
NNNOOOOO! You do not want to have sex at 14. Having sex has such responsiblity to it! Please think about what you are doing. Having sex at 14 will make bad rumors for you when you are 16! Stating tha you are easy and such. You probably won't even have the same boyfriend then. Plus you say he's your crush, not even your boyfriend.
You will know in your heart when it's time to have sex. Think about pregnancy, std's, getting fat and having to stay home and take care of a baby, instead of hang out with friends.
Adults have sex....and some adults aren't even mature to have sex. But 14 is too young.
I really hope you put thought into this and realize that it isn't worth it. If you wait....I know you will look back someday and be glad that didn't! I promise you that!
Take Care.
2007-06-15 01:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
14!? Trust me, you are not ready for it. It will ruin your life. How long have you been with this guy? If it's been shorter than 1 year than you definately don't need to do it. Do you want to be pregnant at the age of 14!? Condoms aren't 100% effective, you know.
2007-06-15 01:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by kjcs_angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think your ready for it, don't do it. It's as simple as that. 14 is too young to have sex, because 14 is too young to deal with the consequences of sex, but even if you were 25 and felt you weren't ready, I'd say don't do it. Furthermore, if you tell him you're not ready, and he tries to convince you that you are, he's not looking out for your best interests. Chances are he only cares about what's in his pants, and not about what's best for you. It's your job to look out for yourself.
2007-06-15 01:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by rainchaser77 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your 14!!! dont do it you are way to young and all the things that can happen to you. you are only a kid. you have your whole life ahead and what happens if you get an STD or get pregnat what are you going to tell your mom/dad or bolth and if they find out what are they going to think of you. if you and your bf wants to be intimate makeout or do somthing healthy sex makes everything complicated take it from someone that knows im not trying to sound like just another adult but 2 of my bff's had sex and died of HIV and they were only 16!
hope i helped =]]
2007-06-15 01:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't! If he really cares about you, your relationship will be more than just physical. Plus you're only 14 and you don't want something you'll regret. This happened with one of my friends: her boyfriend was moving way too fast physically and so one day she just sat him down and told him that if he wouldn't wait until she was ready then they should break up.
They've been together for about a year now (happily!) without sleeping together.
2007-06-15 01:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you want to because you have a crush on him, but you need to wait. If you do it, you might get hurt, really hurt. You don't know him that well and you are not old enough to see alot of things that goes on in a relationship to make a decision to have sex or not. I do not suggest you have sex with him.
2007-06-15 01:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by . 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!! Sex is not something to be pushed into. 95% of people who get together with their crushes end up being burned in the end. Save your first time for someone who truely loves you and that you love as well!
2007-06-15 01:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready, and if he cares about you he will respect your wishes. If he keeps pushing you, he just wants booty. Drop him like a hot potato, and move on to a nicer guy. You deserve to be respected. Don't ever let any man force or push you into doing something that you do not feel good about doing!!! If you don't have respect for yourself, no one else will either.
2007-06-15 01:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in having sex that young. You should wait for someone you love. What happens if you get pregnant? If he is pressuring you into sex then you should find someone else. You could probably find some one much better.
2007-06-15 01:35:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋