Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

To all 6 replies I've gotten so far, do you mean to tell me that it's better for him to wait for "true love" doing it when he's not young anymore?


Isn't it harder to enjoy sex when you're 40 years old as opposed to when you're say, 22 years old, because your sexual capabilites decline?

2007-06-14 12:26:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend said that she met this guy online I didn't really worry cause this wasn't the first guy she met and I just kinda roled my eyes.about a few weeks later he was really bothering her and she tried about eveything to get rid of him and then my other friend got into it also and tried to stop him also.and started to bother her too. so I went secretly behind there backs and met the guy talked with him and he was a real perv he would send pics of himself (bodyparts) on my cell...and I wasn't sure how he got my cell # cause I don't give that out. well I kept this a secret and he was scaring me he is legal and I am inlegal in age wise so I was creeped finally I told my friends and they freaked he left us alone till today...and I am stressed out cause he just caused me out for me asking him to please leave my friends alone. and I just had surgery yesterdy and lost a good 5-6hrs worth of blood so I am weak. so my question is should I call the police on him ?I am only 14 he is 18

2007-06-14 12:25:21 · 6 answers · asked by Bri 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a little new at my school. My friends in my science class are like all not virgins. They tell my the minute that I walked into the door my first day of school, they knew that I was a virgin. All most all the students at my school are not virgins. Some of my other friends are virgins and tell me that most of the people that say they're not virgins, really are.I'm a Christian, but have I been waiting too long?

2007-06-14 12:21:56 · 24 answers · asked by Banana 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, it had disturbed me for a while. It was not to long ago when I had called Zak's (home number) to see how he was doing and want to get to know him better. BUT when I was calling I think someone had left the phone off the hook and I had heard him said “It’s Jamila! What should I do what should I do! I don't know what to do mom!" and his mom had said" HOW SHE GOT OUR HOME NUMBER, how she got our home number"? And Zak had said nervously “SHE’S SHE’S stupid mom, she will believe in anything!" and his mom had also said “then just don't answer it."
Then two and a half weeks later I tried to call his home number, since I know he lives here! His mom had answered it and I had asked if Zak was here and she had said "sorry this is the wrong number", and I had said “but who are you? And why you had called me not long ago". And then she had pause and said “this is the teacher!" I said “O...K thanks...bye!"

Why is he doing this?
Why did he say that to HIS MOM!!!?
Why to me!!!?
Please help!!!
Please say (nice things) thanks!

2007-06-14 12:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WAT EYE AND HAIR COLOR DO U LIKE IN A GIRL? JW..AND THANX =]

2007-06-14 12:20:18 · 27 answers · asked by Italyfan 4 in Singles & Dating

So, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and it seems that his parents do not really treat me/view me as a part of their family. I do not get invited to family functions/family vacations and my parents ALWAYS invite my boyfriend to those things. My parents always buy him really nice and personal gifts when it comes to his birthday and christmas. My boyfriends parents just end up buying me something very impersonal such as gift cards. It is very frustratring because i plan on marrying my boyfriend, and it is hard because i want to be apart of his family, but i feel as though i'm not. This weekend they are going to a family member's graduation party, and not only was i not invited, but they asked me to dog-sit for them. Please give me some advice, or let me know if this has happened to you, and if it has, do things change when you're married? thank you!!

2007-06-14 12:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by girlygirl83 1 in Singles & Dating

Define cheating please?

People sleep around all the time before marriage...so why after marriage is it any diffferent?

so called VOWS are just so many words and ideas that are unrealistic.

2007-06-14 12:17:03 · 31 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who would you be in a relationship with or date and why?
...(Ladies only)

2007-06-14 12:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are kind of on a break now because he said he's having a really hard time coping with all of this Iraq stuff ( a few of his close friends were recently killed). He told me he just needed time to think and that he'd call me when he was ready to talk. I promised id be here for him and I still send him emails and care packages to let him know im thinking about him. I'm having such a hard time understanding why he wants time away from me, though. I just want to be there for him and I feel like he's pushing me away. Should I keep waiting for him or do you think its something beyond him just having a hard time coping? I love him to death and just want him to be happy. Any advice would be great thanks!

2007-06-14 12:10:19 · 5 answers · asked by stacyc 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted on here a few days ago about wanting to move in with my boyfriend becasue i wasn't getting along with my paretns and I was told that I should wait until I am 18, i am 17 now, and i was told to grow up and this and that, well what about when my mom hits me? We got in another fight and she hit me across the face,do I have the right to move out!?

2007-06-14 12:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

First of all I'm 27 yrs old, will be 28 in November. I come from an extremely conservative/old-fashioned family. I have 3 older sisters & all of them didn't move out until they got married. The oldest was 33 yrs old when she moved out & got married (I know). That is the family rule- period. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years & will be engaged soon. I am planning on moving out within 2 weeks but have not spoken to my family. This is going to completely break my mom's heart. I am getting married in one year. Does anyone think I should wait it out or just move out?

2007-06-14 12:06:36 · 11 answers · asked by Erica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Mine was 2 years ago, when I was 12, for getting a motorcycle ride with a 15 yo boy. We had an accident, no one get hurt but I could have died. I just wanted some fun, didn't realize how dangerous that was. My parents weren't harsh, I was grounded for a weekend and had to do some extra chores. But there was a happy end, sunday by 4 pm they lifted the grounding, I apologized, promised to be wiser, got hugs and kisses and was forgive. I remeber that punishment w/ love.

About you? Did you think it was fair? Disd it have a happy end or did you get resentful? Did theta harm your relationship with your parents?

2007-06-14 12:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family

Some place that is good and not expensive but relaxing and comforting

help please

2007-06-14 12:02:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now of course this is a touchy and still taboo subject, i know and understand most every an all reasons,feelings,an the morals of why it is wrong"interracial dating" etc etc.everything from dating, marriage,"fooling around" having kids basically race mixing,stepping over the line..so i wont get into that..right now.

But i would like to know are there any man in Oklahoma who actually really love them some black women,that's who they like, that who they know,that's who they date, an that's just it.NOT talking about the men out there that want to exsplore a "sexaulfantasy" or in terms of trying a new "exsperiment" because they've never been with a black woman before. i'm talking about the men who love us an can't get enough of us..also if there are any black women out here who have dated white men before or love them some white men..go ahead an speak up to.. in general this conversation is pretty much open for anybody an everybody.

of course people from other states can answer also.

2007-06-14 12:02:04 · 3 answers · asked by cutecatdirty 2 in Singles & Dating

ive only kissed a guy once but i dont know if im a good kisser. how does any 1 know if they r or not ?

2007-06-14 12:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by @PRiL c 2 in Singles & Dating

she said she wanted to "go further" in our relationship. i agreed to it. next "date" we were on everything was going fine and we were kissing (like normal, this is not "going further"). next morning she says we should slow down... i agree to it, thats fine. (i have done absolutely nothing wrong) - now out of nowhere i ask a simple question and get a snippy answer. dosent respond to most text messages, picks up the phone sometimes. (used to be always). and when I do talk to her it dosent seem like she cares like she used to. she says shell call me in an hour, then dosent. is she trying to get me to chase her? does she really not care anymore? is this just a game shes playing with me? She wont tell me... maby someone else can?

2007-06-14 12:01:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do men like thick girls? Im not skinny and Im not fat, im between. I really present myself well. Always dressed nice, hair and nails done, fresh make up, etc. Do guys pay attention to that or do they still see a "thick" girl?

2007-06-14 11:59:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me bf and i just did the dirty deed(My first time and his third)But he told his best friend that it was the best sex any guy could ever get and now his best friend wants to try and do it with me. Then he(my bfs friend) told like everybody today in school and all the boys are like coming to my locker and grabbing me and some really rude kid stuck his hand down my shirt. Now I don't know what to do about it! I have told them to stop and my boyfrind has stuck up for me he stays with me everywhere I go and evrytime one of the boys does smething like this he says "lay off shes mine" then they just say something rude like "not for long". HELP!!!!!

2007-06-14 11:56:31 · 27 answers · asked by hotnrich14 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 11:54:44 · 57 answers · asked by Julie 5 in Singles & Dating

What do you guys do when your feeling blue or can someone say something to cheer me up?

2007-06-14 11:52:57 · 13 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

What do you think about this?
I was just wondering.... I have a friend who was my former teacher and ever since the semester ended, we have talked through email all the time. We have also gone to lunch a couple of times since then. She is pregnant and married. She told me to call her by her first name by implying she wants to be friends and she actually got me and my b/f started on a hobby that her and her husband do. Well anyway.. I think she she is a really good person and I would really like our friendshipto progress into where we become better friends as in that I mean talking on the phone and visiting each other at our houses and stuff like that. Well I am unsure if she wants to be friends like I do but I guess time will tell. I am planning on asking her if it were ok if I brought a meal to her house after the baby is born for her and her husband but I dont know what she would say. Does it seem like if i kept on.. we might become good friends? i need more answers

2007-06-14 11:52:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriends mother has destroyed our relationship. He left me but I still love him. What if any should I do to get hime back. Are all gemini men strange?

2007-06-14 11:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are not really the adventurous type but we like to have fun. My Fience really likes gambeling but I want a romantic type of honeymoon. Any suggestions on where I can meet the best of both worlds? Like an All - Inclusive with a Casino and preferable a Private Plunge Pool still with in my budget?

2007-06-14 11:52:06 · 15 answers · asked by saveit99 1 in Weddings

My girlfriend says that my eyes are what attracted her to me. What about you girls?

2007-06-14 11:51:07 · 29 answers · asked by PoiNtBlaNk23 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom and I haven't got a long for a years. She always puts me down. Doesn't like anything I do it seems. I don't feel comfortable around her because of this. I want to write her a letter about how she makes me feel. I don't want to talk to her face to face. What should I do?

2007-06-14 11:50:45 · 6 answers · asked by C007 5 in Family

wil not be unfaithful

2007-06-14 11:46:24 · 14 answers · asked by Busybee yep! 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 11:44:31 · 4 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Singles & Dating

He's gone away for 3 weeks for some training then home for a week. We're able to text and have quick phone conversations, but im getting a vibe that he doesn't care and isn't concerned about how I am. I always tell him I miss him and i love him, and I ask him how his days been. Then I ask him more questions. With him, he tells me he loves me and misses me but I dont believe it over the phone like I did in person. Hes only been gone less than a week and Im depressed and lonely and getting paranoid about his intentions. I feel like I have something to say but I dont know what. I want him to know I love and miss him but I also want him to know Im a mess without him without actually bluntly saying it. I dont need him to worry about me. Oh god, just help me.please

2007-06-14 11:44:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 2 years and his ex girlfriend is a psycho. I pay his phone bill, so I feel I have the right to see who he is calling. He's promised me over and over that he won't call her anymore, but he still does once or twice a week. I know there isn't anything going on romantically, but I do not want her talking to her period. She's the "ex" for a reason. Is it just me?

2007-06-14 11:41:57 · 16 answers · asked by alyciah33 1 in Singles & Dating

All the time?

2007-06-14 11:40:30 · 25 answers · asked by TBECK 4 in Marriage & Divorce