Me bf and i just did the dirty deed(My first time and his third)But he told his best friend that it was the best sex any guy could ever get and now his best friend wants to try and do it with me. Then he(my bfs friend) told like everybody today in school and all the boys are like coming to my locker and grabbing me and some really rude kid stuck his hand down my shirt. Now I don't know what to do about it! I have told them to stop and my boyfrind has stuck up for me he stays with me everywhere I go and evrytime one of the boys does smething like this he says "lay off shes mine" then they just say something rude like "not for long". HELP!!!!!
2007-06-14 11:56:31 · 27 answers · asked by hotnrich14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 18 (almost) and he is 18 and 4 months.
2007-06-14 12:18:13 · update #1
Those boys are violating you and taking advantage of you. You need to put a stop to it immediately
2007-06-14 12:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by YouAsked4it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just learned a very hard lesson. Your bf is bragging about having bagged you. Now you have a reputation for being easy and putting out. If he was a good bf, he would have kept his mouth shut. The boys that are grabbing at you need to be reported to the school (if on school grounds) or to the police. This is not only sexual harassment but an assault on your person.
If necessary (and I know you don't want your parents to know), but if the boys get aggressive enough that it looks like a rape may be eminent, please get your parents involved before you get hurt.
2007-06-14 12:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, DUMP HIM...even if he is sticking up for you, if he felt anything at all for you he would have respected you and kept his stupid mouth shut. Unfortunately you are gonna get the raw end of this deal and basically hon your name is gonna be mud, cause I can guarrantee that the girls are already talking about you.
Best thing to do is keep your head up, and your own mouth shut. Don't put up with any crap from any of the boys, deny EVERYTHING. Don't give them any ammunition to use against you, and if it gets too bad, go to the teachers, principal someone you trust and ask for help in the situation.
Good luck sweetie
2007-06-14 12:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by akgoddess39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be hot, i wish i had that attention. in a good kinda way.
But seriously thats so wrong.
you shouldnt have had sex with that guy he sounds like a man whore!.. and chances are things arent going to last with him.
I hate this kind of situation cause it gives you a bad reputation, and usually girls like you only find out what a guy is really like after something bad happens to you. And to the average guy like me you become less attractive cause you've had sex with almost some random. Everybody makes mistakes but its what you do now.. which will make the difference.
2007-06-14 17:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy pepper spray. Next time some jerk grabs you spray it all over his face and start kicking him in the testicles. You think I am kidding? I am not. No one has the right to touch you unless you give that person permission. So remember...pepper spray and aim for something soft on his body (eyes, genitals, nose, etc). You can buy pepper spray in a little cartridge that attaches to your keychain.
I would also complain to the dean or the principal or whoever you complain to and, as for the boyfriend...DTMFA. His friends are buttholes and so is he. Get away from them pronto.
2007-06-14 12:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by joanby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First if your boyfriend hasn't he should simply apologize to you because it was his bragging and boasting that started all of your trouble even if he had not intention of causing such a thing to happen.
Next you should report these boys behavior and especially the one that put his hands down your shirt to your teacher or principal for sexual harrassment.Because that is what they are doing and they can get punished for that.
2007-06-14 12:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell school officials that you are being physically harassed by male student. This could escalate to something bad with guys trying to attack you and and other students starting rumors about you. Your bf (a dumb@*** by the way) can't always protect you.
2007-06-14 12:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is what boys do. sex is just a toy for most of them. unfortunately, after the word is out, there is not much that you can do except to wait it out. a gentleman never tells. boys have to brag. ignore it while you wait it out. and be careful who you choose in the future.
I know this will sound like the grandpa that I am but if you are sexually active use good condoms.
2007-06-14 12:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by brotherlove@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone at your school about the guys messing you and the one that put his hand down your shirt that is just not right n what in the world was your bf thinking you dont tell people that i would kick my bf butt if they told someone what we did n hopefully he told you he was sorry for doing that but really tell someone or it may just get worse with the guys
2007-06-14 12:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by SHELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend told his best mate is confidence so although you may resent him for it you have to understand. the boy your boyfriend told was rather immature and selfish, the boys in your school are been rather patheti but doht worry it will die down, meanwhile speak to a trusted adult about thier behaviour. your bouyfriend is clearly feeling guilty anfd trying to protect you, just remember what doesnt split you up will only make you stronger x
2007-06-14 12:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u go to school with some nasty people u should tell people to back off and no madder what they do u wont have sex with them EVER not even if they were the last boy on earth then walk away
2007-06-14 15:48:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋