Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

he isn't a slob, by far, however its the little things. Im eight months pregnant and lately i've been keeping things really clean, i just cleaned house top to bottem and i've been keeping it that way.

he has always complained about little things, like me leaving my make up on the counter, or a bra on the floor, putting a new roll of toilet paper on the counter instead of where it goes on the roll. since ive been keeping things really clean (which came out of nowhere these last two weeks) ive noticed that he does everything he complains about! i've been doing his dishes, picking up his work clothes off the ground, putting up his shaving stuff and 3 times ive caught him leaving the roll of toilet paper on the counter. :) when i bring it up, he denies it, so how do i get him to fess up and clean up??

2007-06-14 10:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When having sex for the first time with a new guy, what are some pointers of what to do and not to do? Any ideas/ tips on how to make it the most memorable and unforgettable first time experience for the guy?

2007-06-14 10:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by ker86 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 10:31:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy who rides on my bus. It seems like we have a lot in common because we're both always listening to our iPods and like some of the same music. I want to start a conversation about music but how? Whenever I sit near him I chicken out and freeze. He seems really quiet, too but he responds when people talk to him. I'm just scared of rejection. Any ideas?

2007-06-14 10:31:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you like your man to be rough or gentle? tall or short? dominating etc...

2007-06-14 10:30:58 · 42 answers · asked by villa_mad_lad 1 in Singles & Dating

I have . because i wasnt happy and yes i would do it again.

2007-06-14 10:25:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dieing i and i have 1yrd baby i and i am fraid to leave him?
i have my family and everything but its very hard for me to let him go i cry when i see him playing and everything i tried my best to past time with him please dont judge me please i need somebody to help me in motional i am very dipress right now i just i dont want to die right now i want to see my baby growth in my side god please give me time.to all the people how is going to read this thank you for you time and god bless you and your family.

2007-06-14 10:22:27 · 38 answers · asked by yuster18 1 in Singles & Dating

is it odd seeing two young people kiss in the theater during the movie?

2007-06-14 10:21:10 · 10 answers · asked by BeccaToThe10thPower 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this is wrong.The Gynecologist is not married and no kids. He is very hot.I know what you are thinking(what if he is sleeping with other patients but i don't think so because i have access to his homes, money as in all his accounts).

yes i'm married and i have been for 6 years now. I only saw this guy i'm sleeping with once as my doctor and i changed doctors because i fell for him. We waited 18 months before we started dating.

I know i was wrong but my husband was not taking care of me at home.. He(husband) gained so much weight that he could not have s*e*x anymore. My husband and i stopped having sex 2 years after our marriage because of weight gain. whenever i cooked healthy foods. he picked up the phone and ordered pizza. I talked to my husband about our sex life and his reply was "if you want sex, go get it where you can find". he didn't care. My husband does not work bcos of his weight.I had not had sex for 4 years when i started sleeping with the OB/GYN.

2007-06-14 10:19:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend keeps crying and saying that she is ugly, but i keep telling her she is not, but she does not believe me! she asked me to post this. Do you guys think she is that ugly? (honestly)

http://i196.photobucket.com/albums/aa4/J_D012/CURLY_.jpg

2007-06-14 10:17:24 · 29 answers · asked by [blahh] ™ 5 in Friends

2007-06-14 10:13:56 · 30 answers · asked by Brynn 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating a year and 5 days. I love him so much! I am a senior this year and so is he. I want to be successful in life and have a great job, a great amount of money, n u know the rest. Well my boyfriend doesnt have any goals in life he just wants to slip on by, he doesnt want to go to college and he just wants to be average! But I want to go beyond the limit! The problem is I really love him with all my heart and I dont want this to change but i dont want him to bring me down and be average!

HELP PLEASE!

2007-06-14 10:12:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have slept in separate bedrooms for seven years. We have have sex only 11 or 12 times in that seven years. The last time was two years ago. He hasn't held my hand in eight years, said "I love you" in seven years, or hugged me in seven years. I was so lonely and starving for affection that I slept with my best guy friend. My husband had the audacity to call me a "sl*t".
We have spoken about getting divorced for the past year, but neither of us has seen a lawyer. He doesn't want one because he's afraid of losing our daughter, plus he's Catholic. I told him adultery (mine) would allow him to continue receiving Communion. We still live in the same house, separate bedrooms, as we have for the past seven years. Why would he want to stay married, knowing I am lonely and unhappy, after not having touched me in seven years?
In my mind, this is not normal...he isn't gay, and he isn't seeing anyone else.
What should I do?

2007-06-14 10:10:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 10:06:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay a week ago i was bored so i called my cuzin at 10 :30pm
adn she was like "god why did u call me i was going to sleep?" and i was like "normall people dont go to sleep at 10 during summer" and it was like watever and we talked for like and hour and then i went to sleep and at 5 am i got a call from her !!!! and now she keeps calling me bettween 5-7 everyday !and its annoying i tell her to stop but she wont . and now shes mad at me cuz i left her a voice message and i said " god what the heck people are trying to go to sleep . stop calling at 5 am .......................***** ( that was this morning wen i was mad ........she called me even earlier!4 30)


is she over reacting ? or i am i ?

2007-06-14 10:06:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-14 10:05:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I was with this guy for 4 months. One weekend my friend was having her birthday party at a bar, I invited him to go but he didnt want to so I ended up going with two of my girlfriends and two of my cousins. Well the second that I walk in the door at this bar one of my cousins tells me that she saw another ex of mine and I dont pay any mind to him cause we broke up like 2 years ago. Well the next day my BF somehow finds out that my ex was at the bar BEFORE I could even tell him. Like he literally called me and asked what was I doing at the same bar as my ex and before I could even give an explanation he completely over reacts and breaks up with me.
Is that a stupid reason for a break up?
The trouble is we have been broken up for six months now and still want to be back with him. What should I do?
So what do you think?

2007-06-14 10:03:40 · 15 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

So I got married at an early age 19 almost 20 and my wife was 25. We've been married for 4 years now, but it has been really hard. She is a great woman and is completely loyal, loving and hard working, but she is constantly treating me as though she is the "boss" and has to keep tabs on me. She is very clingy and doesn't have very many friends. Because of this I feel suffocated and am not allowed to hang out with the guys or have some "me" time. I love her but I constantly think about being single and enjoying my early years. I just like space and freedom. It's very hard to cut the ties. I moved out 2 times already, she knows the 3rd time is it, but she still pushes the buttons and limits. If I could just settle down things might work, but I can't control my wants and desires for fun, guy time,freedom. I always loved getting to know new people as friends. I always got along really well with woman, but being married cuts that all out. I just want to make the right choice.

2007-06-14 10:03:09 · 15 answers · asked by 1life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 10:02:59 · 32 answers · asked by Alejandra M 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just always snuck out, i'm only 11 and i've snuck for 2 years and I got caught once and didn't get in trouble.

2007-06-14 10:02:52 · 18 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥ In Love ♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Neither of us get along with my husbands family. Every day there is a fight, and hubby has said he doesnt want to see them except for big functions and holidays. And even then, he says we will spend very little time there.
His uncles are all coming into town next week, and guess what? His thoughts changed. Now he wants to go over there and stay most of the night. We have an 8 month old baby that would be going, and my inlaws cant be trusted to care for her, so its all on us. Her bedtime is 7:30, and he wants to stay till 1am?
Now he's turning it around on me, saying that I just never want to do anything, and that I just wont deal with anything that isnt about me?!? (I do nothing for myself, ever!)
How do I get him to realize that he's falling back into his family's tricks?
If I cant do that, how can I deal with him?
By the way, I have to go and I have to bring the baby. If not I get my drunken father in law calling me and telling me what a horrible mom I am.

2007-06-14 10:02:49 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She leaves me for a coworker 8 months ago only saying I need my space and I will always love you but not in love with you. 16 year relationship three kids. She is in her car with her new lover yesterday and he is driving. They had a car pull into them and she yelled my name not his. She told me this last night on the phone when talking about our kids. She thought it was funny. Why did she yell my name????

2007-06-14 10:01:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy, but he says he is only my frend

2007-06-14 10:01:05 · 27 answers · asked by mbee 3 in Singles & Dating

Tell me what you think is a 'normal' amount of sex for partners who have been living together for several years. I would like to see if the answer I get is similar to what is published in magazines like Cosmo.

2007-06-14 10:00:47 · 18 answers · asked by CuriousRed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

no details.

2007-06-14 10:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by buddyhowerin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 09:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by *her* 2 in Singles & Dating

see i am pregnacny and my boyfriend hit me one time out of no where but he has cacner...........i dont if i schold put my baby up for adoption i am staying way from my bf i broke up with him becusae i need to kno-and keep my baby safe from him....i am getting to started to love this baby in me i went to a a doctor i saw the baby and heard the babys heart beat and how i dont know what to do i am 16 teen years old in a foster home and i really dont know if i can keep this baby and i might can go back with my dad i am just hoping i can............bec. i do want to keep this baby but i dont know what to do i need help i dont know if i scould keep it

2007-06-14 09:59:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are now legally separated and we have 4 year old twins together. The reason we split is b/c he has a drug problem and is now in rehab. I am really angry at him and hurt for detroying our marriage, etc...BUT, I am wondering if I should buy a father's day card for my twins and let them send it to him?

2007-06-14 09:59:07 · 25 answers · asked by giantzfanjen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If there are any landlords/ex-landlords out there, I 'd love to hear from you of if you have ever been in a similar situation, please give me any insight you can. I signed a 6 month lease with a friend who said after a couple months, would I mind if her boyfriend moved in too? Would I be okay with that? yeah, especially since she said we'd then be splitting the rent/bills 3 ways. Only my name and hers are on the lease and her boyfriend moved in on the first day! I had never met him before and he was pretty nice and all but now I'm getting to know him (and her) a lot more.The bf got a job a month ago and got only one paycheck of about $500 and spent $530 on a stereo! The worst part is I think he quit the job now because he hasn't been going to work for a couple days and before he went the same days every week. We're still splitting the rent only 2 ways because she said he only got paid once a month so could I wait until he got paid? I want to move out but no one'd take my place!

2007-06-14 09:58:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 09:58:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating