2007-06-14 09:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by *her* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so i fell for my manager at work...turned out he liked me to...i was going to quit anyways because my car was not working and we were moving to another town but this way it worked out cause it meant that i could date him or talk to him whatever you wanna call it...we hung out a couple of times till we heard that there was a rumor going around at work that i quit because i was sleeping with him...it wasnt true and we both knew it besides nobody knew why i quit so he said he would handle it...he had a meeting with his bosses over all of this and he told me that he needed time to think and figure stuff out so i should wait till my 18th birthday which is in a week and then we will see what happens. i got scared because everytime something good happens to me it gets screwed up. so i didnt want to lose him...he is the guy i know it in my heart i know i am not 18 so i am still young but i know how i feel...i just want to know if he told different people that he likes me alot will he choose me
2007-06-14 10:11:20 · update #1
ok what is all of this...all of this was well is...he told me not to call him till i turned 18 but i couldnt help it so i called him but he didnt answer...i went by mcdonalds hoping to just catch a glimpse of him even though i dont live there anymore...i guess i freaked him out since i was there like every other day so he sent one of our friends a message about me it said "i like her she is a wonderful girl but i dont want to lose my job either besides i can tell you that this accessive visits freak me out like fatal attraction (the movie)...after i found this out i stopped going to mcds and i have decided to wait another week without freakin him out...however before i decided to do all of this (which is what he wanted in the beginning n e ways) i sent him a message on his myspace telling him how i felt and that i wasnt a stalker just a bit scared to lose him and that i would stop and he could just call me when i turn 18 and let me know what he decided....
2007-06-14 10:22:12 · update #2
now that i have left him alone i want to know if he will give me a second chance to prove that i am not a crazy teenager and that i really do care...i know i screwed up cuz i should have listened to him....do you think he will call and tell me that he still wants to see if we work out together or do you think i just majorily ****** my self.
2007-06-14 10:24:17 · update #3
If it's meant to be it will. You are young and have plenty of time. Let him come after you...don't stock him or chase him or let him know how DESPERATE you are. Men like strong women but they act like they don't.. and being younger then him ( seems alot younger since he is the manager and you are 17) you have to act real mature and strong..
And if he's way older girl...you need to move on...when you get his age he'll be looking for a newer model
2007-06-22 09:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by SisterSister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that I can try to help you if I don't know what happened...or if anything happened...at this point you should maybe ask a mind reader or an eight ball...
2007-06-14 17:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by blue moon lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be ok just take it easy. your still young and there will be plenty of guys but if you are hard up for this guy then you should listen to him and wait till you are of age and one more thing. act mature about it.. guys dont like little girls..
2007-06-22 11:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by jason l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stalk don't go to his work place............. don't smother a living thing has to breathe.
Under 18 is jail bait you could cost him his job...............
read boundaries in dating by john macloud and loving smart by dr phil............... he will if you dont scare him off and if he dont oh well there are other nice guys out there.
2007-06-22 06:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what am i? a magic 8 ball? what's the situation maybe I can help....
2007-06-14 17:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by .BAM! =]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. move on. he is doesn't' want to loose his job. your obviously too young for him.
2007-06-22 15:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Georgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....... Details?
2007-06-14 17:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mongo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to know more info
2007-06-14 17:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Amry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, he will not chose you because you did not ask anything that can be aswered!
2007-06-14 17:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dk where is the info?
2007-06-14 17:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋