Family & Relationships - 14 June 2007

how do u get an ex to leave you alone. We broke up 5 months ago and once called my parents and told them all this bad stuff about me. Now he is threatening to do it again if I do not go back with him....I do not want to go back to this, but I do not want my family involved. How can I tell him to back off without him threatning me????

2007-06-14 09:57:17 · 21 answers · asked by blondey18 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 09:56:51 · 23 answers · asked by Curious1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-14 09:55:16 · 14 answers · asked by briansipesucks 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 09:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by MysteriouslyMisty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-14 09:53:09 · 22 answers · asked by Duanerschnitzel 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband want to renew our wedding vows.He wants to do it this year because it will be our 10 years.But I say we don not have the money right now because of vacations and the kids birthdays and christmas.So I want to wait and plan.I say on our 15 year anniversary.I would like to do it in three years so then it would be our 13th anniversary and the number 3 is our lucky number.What do you think?I know people renew their weddind vows on 5 marks such as 5,10 ,15 etc.Would it be ok to not do it on a 5 mark?

2007-06-14 09:53:07 · 20 answers · asked by shadowmonkeyblue 3 in Weddings

as opposed to simply desiring it? example: If your house was on fire... all you would think about would be saving your own life you wouldn't care that you've lost everything that you've worked so hard to gain because none of that matters... please I have been thinking about this for months...

2007-06-14 09:50:58 · 3 answers · asked by think_of_the_bubble 3 in Singles & Dating

if you didn't grow up with your dad and he's pretty much worthless lol would you send a cardjust to be the bigger person.

damn that's a dumb question

2007-06-14 09:50:32 · 29 answers · asked by auroa26 3 in Friends

I don't know how to be a wife. I leave messes all the time, and I find myself pms-ing all the time. I'm afraid my husband is going to get sick of me sooner or later. What can I do besides the obvious (cleaning more and taking midol) to make my husband happy?

2007-06-14 09:46:50 · 41 answers · asked by sdgirljen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

First, Please don't reply with "just get out there and meet someone". That's simplistic and won't help me.

I was dumped by my long term G/F last winter. It was devastating and has really tested my faith in almost everything. I've worked very hard to restore myself on my own. I've got faith in myself and I do look forward to a lot of good things that are and will happen in my life.

However, I get very lonely, especially when I have free time. I'm still not ready for a realtionship becasue I still can't imagine anybody but my ex g/f. Also I'm not exactly a looker and because I've had to start all over, I don't have a lot of free cash to spend on a woman.

I'm trying really hard to not blame all of this on my ex and I'm hanging on tight to my dignity and feel like I'm just fine all on my own for now.

What do a I do when it's just me and I'm lonely?

2007-06-14 09:43:01 · 19 answers · asked by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

when ur dating, how long does it take to know if that guy/girl is the one...9 dates havent done it for me and i was wondering if giving it time is what i should do??

2007-06-14 09:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by kera 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok.here i go. Hi im caley ,im a boy and truthfuly im 12 but i need your help. It may not not see major or the top of your priorities to help a lil boy like me,but i would soooooo appreiciate it.i go to a secondary which may seem normal but its a all boy school.dont worry though.there is a girls school right next door and we share some facilitys. the question i ask is can you help me get a girl friend. how can i flirt, im not to good, i like quiet kind girls, not loud mouthy people so its hard to get to know some1 if they keep there head down. how do i approach them without seeming like a complete fool thats nervous.please help me!!!!

2007-06-14 09:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having issues with this as she wants to act them same around each other while we are at work. I am going to be working will really small kids all the way to middle school kids and we will both be together all day. She is mad at me that i say i want to treat her as a co-worker around the kids and other workers rather than my girlfriend? Am i doing the right the or am i insane?

2007-06-14 09:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm really colse (best) friends with this one guy. I'm gay, and he's bi (to silence further questions). I love him, and he knows, and I would like to try a relationship with him out, but he said not yet, not unless he starts to get more than friend feelings for me. He also said it would be awkward, but I don't understand how. >_>; And we also tried a FWB thing out... and we messed around sexually and such, but a short time after that he asked if we could cut the FWB thing, as he said it just didn't feel right to him. He enjoyed it, but could it have been the friendship that made it feel weird to him? Should I ask him out? Help please?

2007-06-14 09:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Gokai Okuzuko 1 in Friends

My husband and I married in '98 divorced in '99 & reconciled 6 months later.We got RE-married last year & I wish I'd never done it.I just found out that he's been talking to another woman on the phn anywhere from 5-10 times/day.He's also text messaging her, but absolutely swears they're just friends.I tell him this is not normal & not acceptable for a married man,but he refuses to end all contact w/her.We have 2 little boys and I am miserable in my marriage.He also likes to drink.He used to go out AT LEAST once a week & come home drunk anywhere from 2to8 am (did that a couple times).I told him about a month ago that I was leaving, but haven't been able to find an apt yet so am still there.Since then he hasn't gone out much & hasn't come home drunk,but is still talking to this woman.She supposedly has a boyfriend of 8 years, but they don't live together&aren't married.He's cheated b/f(that's y we divorced)and I can't trust him.Should i leave?Don't want to hurt our kids, but can't stay.

2007-06-14 09:29:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that other people have asked something similar to this before, but I wanted some new responses. Why do girls deliberately put a guy into a catch-22 situation that she KNOWS is going to cause a fight either way? For example, asking "Do I look fat in this?" (or "Is that other girl prettier than me?") is a stupid question, because you know that it would have never occurred to you to have asked -- unless you have seen yourself in the mirror and already know what the truthful answer is. If he lies to you, you know that he is lying, and you argue with him over his lie; if he tells the truth, that is another argument. Why encourage a guy to lie to you to save your feelings anyway? Isn't that teaching him bad habits? Why ask these kid of questions?

2007-06-14 09:28:04 · 30 answers · asked by Randy G 7 in Singles & Dating

ok...this really amazing guy that i like...REALLY REALLY like lives 3 hours away. :'( we talk on the phone ALL the time and text each other nonstop. when i talk to him i am fine and perfectly comfortable. but when i'm alone and i think about him and how i miss him i get really nervous. like scared nervous. i dont know why...is it bad?

2007-06-14 09:26:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with him now for 8 1/2 years, we have two children, and now for the past couple of years i have caught him in lies that to the average person might seem meaningless, but overall to me its a lie. I find it hard to trust him and things he tells me now. What do I do? Overall he is a really great guy.

2007-06-14 09:25:08 · 23 answers · asked by bmm1183 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-14 09:24:18 · 5 answers · asked by Amy K 5 in Family

2007-06-14 09:24:06 · 17 answers · asked by bluntman 1 in Family

all day...damn he looks good. suntan oil and tight abs...the whole package...turns out that you just so happen to have parked next to him in the parking lot...as you get in ur car u notice he's beating away...if you can watch him do it without being seen..would you?

2007-06-14 09:21:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out a married ex-coworker had a crush on me about a year ago. I was very attracted to her but married woman are off limits.

She is now seperated and divorcing her husband.

Should I try and contact her? What should I say?

2007-06-14 09:20:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 09:19:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-14 09:18:17 · 9 answers · asked by Rhiannon 6 in Singles & Dating

I just started dating this girl a lil over a week and i really enijoy her company.I have already told her i love her and she said it back.The thing is that i havent been with anyone one in years and it really freaks me out how fast things are moving.She just got out of a 7 year relationship with her baby;s father and im afraid she is looking for a quick fix.I love everything about her i love her kid and i will so anything for her.she wont introduce to to her dad for fear its a short term thing.I waited this long to find the right person because i wanted the next person i was with to be my wife and mother of my children.But i dont want to tell her so soon.We come from opposite side of life Im A Take no **** from nobody hard *** mofo and she is a spirtual hippie type chick.we are the perfect balance im cancer she is scorpio.I dont have time in life to doubt anything i do.Thats why i ask for ur help should i be straight forward and tell her how ifell or should i give it time to grow.

2007-06-14 09:18:15 · 7 answers · asked by B-Eazy 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for about 5 moths now and i love every bit of him, i am only 15 and i have alredy consederd spending the rest of my life with him. i have had meny boy friends befor but have never felt this way abot any of thim .. His dad is the one making him move , he also hase a sister. He lost his mom at a very young age and has been throu so mutch, i know this is going to kill him to! Does any buddy know a way too keep this love going ?

2007-06-14 09:16:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Best talent gets best answer

2007-06-14 09:16:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

last time I've been here, I asked , Am I making a mistake by leaving him or shall I give him a second chance, and you all have been so wonderful with your support and opinions.
So, I gave him a second chance, chance to tell me what is wrong, after all we've been planning to get married and start a new life together, but his ex was still howering around,.
He was always saying that he loves me so much, but last 10 days he was doing everything for me to start hating him, but I couldn't, knowing that he is not like that. You know when someboy is acting
Finally we had a talk said that I love him so much, but don't understand his behaviour, and need to hurt me, he started to cry, he loves me
I realized that if I love him and he for some reason is changing must let him go, no matter how it hurts, His tiers broke my hart but our love obviously wasn't ment to be, wished him all love and luck in the world but that would be without me
I'm healing now, wondering if I've made a huge mistake

2007-06-14 09:15:25 · 13 answers · asked by mermaid 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-14 09:15:02 · 38 answers · asked by Packer Fan 1 in Singles & Dating

can me and my boyfriend adopt his baby from a previous short relationship? we already have 2 kids and we both work and have a home! is it possible?

2007-06-14 09:14:22 · 3 answers · asked by CRYSTAL 1 in Family