I just started dating this girl a lil over a week and i really enijoy her company.I have already told her i love her and she said it back.The thing is that i havent been with anyone one in years and it really freaks me out how fast things are moving.She just got out of a 7 year relationship with her baby;s father and im afraid she is looking for a quick fix.I love everything about her i love her kid and i will so anything for her.she wont introduce to to her dad for fear its a short term thing.I waited this long to find the right person because i wanted the next person i was with to be my wife and mother of my children.But i dont want to tell her so soon.We come from opposite side of life Im A Take no **** from nobody hard *** mofo and she is a spirtual hippie type chick.we are the perfect balance im cancer she is scorpio.I dont have time in life to doubt anything i do.Thats why i ask for ur help should i be straight forward and tell her how ifell or should i give it time to grow.
2007-06-14 09:18:15 · 7 answers · asked by B-Eazy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you waited this long to find the right woman what is the rush? Not saying love can't happen that quickly it can because it happened to me. But both my husband and I moved at the same speed (which was fast) but it seems like she's not ready just yet for the whole nine yards as you are. Her reluctance to introduce you to her dad is understandable -though oddly enough she let you into her child's life in just a week which is a little too fast to be prudent, even for me. I was in love with my now husband after two weeks but he didn't meet my children until after 2 months. Anyway, if she wants to take it slow, then do that for her. You'll know when she's ready to hear the "you are the woman I want to marry" speech. Until then just hang tight. If it's meant to be, she won't be going anywhere. The key to success here is to be on the same page about everything, until then, you may scare her off a little. Chilax and have fun. Good luck.
2007-06-14 09:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell her your feelings. Let her know that you want a long meaninful relationship that will lead to a huge commitment and that if shes not looking for that, youre probably not the right guy for her. At least at this point in time. Nothing can go wrong and hurt you in the long run as long as you let her know what youre thinking and feeling. Good luck. I hope everything works out for you :]
2007-06-14 09:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have only been dating her for little over a week you need to let things chill a bit and let your relationship grow. You don't really know who someone is for a while so just relax and if its meant to be then it will happen.
2007-06-14 09:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on developing the friendship part, and getting to know her. Take the physical slowly. If its meant to be it will be better with the other parts in place.
2007-06-14 09:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously. It sounds like you both need to slow down a bit and see how committed you really are to each other.
2007-06-14 09:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur npt really for a quick relatetion the n tell her that its going to fast for u tell her u want to take it slow
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2007-06-14 09:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sinead W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give time, don't scare her off
2007-06-14 09:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by mark r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋