Ok, so I'm really colse (best) friends with this one guy. I'm gay, and he's bi (to silence further questions). I love him, and he knows, and I would like to try a relationship with him out, but he said not yet, not unless he starts to get more than friend feelings for me. He also said it would be awkward, but I don't understand how. >_>; And we also tried a FWB thing out... and we messed around sexually and such, but a short time after that he asked if we could cut the FWB thing, as he said it just didn't feel right to him. He enjoyed it, but could it have been the friendship that made it feel weird to him? Should I ask him out? Help please?
2007-06-14 09:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Gokai Okuzuko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's bisexual; and he know it for a fact.
Yeah, I guess it'd be a good idea not to push; last time I asked him he liked me (as more than a friend) on a scale of 1-10, he said 3 or 4, but this was before we became as close as we are now, and before the FWB thing. See, I'm also afraid about ruining the friendship...
2007-06-14 09:36:57 · update #1
@ Consti: What do you mean when I know he's ready?
2007-06-14 09:37:55 · update #2
Well, ok...
Although when I next talk to him, I will ask how much he likes me again... because I'm curious...
And ok, I'll just not say anything to the effect of going out with him...thanks for the help though!
2007-06-14 10:00:26 · update #3
I would not do it. If you value your friendship, dont do it. I fell in love with my best friend and we dated for a few weeks until it just got to wierd and we both decided that we were better off friends then lovers. We knew each others deepest and darkest secrets, and that played a major role in us ending the relationship. That was almost 12 years ago, and we are still the best of friends.
2007-06-21 16:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by beckybounce226 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ask him out since he told you he wasnt ready to start a relationship yet.He probably felt weird about the fwb thing because he knows that you have feelings for him and you two messing around sexually speaking wouldn't help.Just stay friend with him and see how things evolves with the time
2007-06-14 09:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone. You have certainly let him know where you stand and what your feelings are and if you push it, he will back away even further and if you leave it alone, he just may make a decision that is not provoked and you will be better off in the end.
2007-06-14 09:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Frank L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been told that the relationship is not something that the other doesn't want to have move forward. Don't push.
2007-06-14 09:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably don't want to mess up the friendship, or maybe he's not gay. just ask him
2007-06-14 09:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till u know hes ready
THENN ask him out
2007-06-14 09:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Consti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋