Ok.here i go. Hi im caley ,im a boy and truthfuly im 12 but i need your help. It may not not see major or the top of your priorities to help a lil boy like me,but i would soooooo appreiciate it.i go to a secondary which may seem normal but its a all boy school.dont worry though.there is a girls school right next door and we share some facilitys. the question i ask is can you help me get a girl friend. how can i flirt, im not to good, i like quiet kind girls, not loud mouthy people so its hard to get to know some1 if they keep there head down. how do i approach them without seeming like a complete fool thats nervous.please help me!!!!
2007-06-14 09:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go up to them with a KIND smile, not a stalker- creepy smile, and introduce urself like hey im caley and she'll obviously say hi, so u can say so hey wats up? (if u c her wearing a certain shirt i guess u can start convo with that or sumthin) she might say nothin much and u can say well yea same here im just ___insert wat ur doin after school here___...then it will pick up from there, so thats ur first phase, gettting to know her and all that good stuff, then u can talk to her more but dont annoy her till bloody heck...get her email or screen name or watevs so u can talk out of skool...second phase is over...then its up to u if u feel u guys have enough between u that she can b ur grl friend!! g'luck
2007-06-14 09:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Baba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try happening specific nights - you would be surprised the change happening a weeknight makes in a few golf equipment. Many areas are inconceivable to fulfill individuals in on weekends cos they're stuffed with cliques, and also you ought to have connections, however on weeknights the group is completely specific and by and large extra sociable. Look for men in companies of two, or three on the so much, and make sure there may be an identical quantity on your get together and theirs (except its a crowd, which I wouldnt suggest) then dance the night time away and do soiled dancing and so forth, SO FUN! :)
2016-09-05 16:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all a girl is a person. She makes mistakes too!!! So don't be nervous dummy!!!! The funniest pick up line i've ever heard was do you have a library card, cause i wanna check you out!!! Try this ine on the gurl if you have the guts and if it doesn't work then you have a serious problem!!!
2007-06-14 09:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident in your game. She's probably as nervous as you are. Go up to her and introduce yourself....forexample.....hi my name is caley, and you are? There are many ways...usually theyll respond with there name hopefully for you. Then just say you think she is pretty...and would like to see if she would like to go do something this weekend. There are alot of ways and i cant list them all for you, but those are some easy and basic ones. You'll eventually get better...and be a smooth talker.
2007-06-14 09:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by blkhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their heads are down and they are not making eye contact it is probably because they are more scared then you. Just start with a simple compliment and then ask a question. And have a second followup question up your sleeve. You might say I really like that shade of green on you. Would you like a piece of gum? And then ask her what her favorite sport is.
2007-06-14 09:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok that was adorable, here goes...
first you have to practice talking with a girl, but girls are shy too, they dont like talking to boys alone, at 12 at least, next time you see a girl, go up and ask her what time it is, when she brings out the cellphone, comment something nice on it, once you get her to smile, get outta there and see if she pays attention to you later on, k? and try not to hit on the shy girls, they're like that for a reason...
2007-06-14 09:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh dont worry bout it ur 12 u dont need to think bout girls....the time will come and u will get a g.f i dont see y 12 yr olds need a b/f or g/f..thats y there r 13yr olds havin kids becuase they think they need sumone and they have sex and have kids...just think bout school and not girls!...
2007-06-14 09:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by **Wishing For A 2010 Baby** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be scared. The girls will like it.
2007-06-14 09:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Yeknomboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make friends first. once you have done that its all downhill from there.
2007-06-14 09:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by codereesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋