last time I've been here, I asked , Am I making a mistake by leaving him or shall I give him a second chance, and you all have been so wonderful with your support and opinions.
So, I gave him a second chance, chance to tell me what is wrong, after all we've been planning to get married and start a new life together, but his ex was still howering around,.
He was always saying that he loves me so much, but last 10 days he was doing everything for me to start hating him, but I couldn't, knowing that he is not like that. You know when someboy is acting
Finally we had a talk said that I love him so much, but don't understand his behaviour, and need to hurt me, he started to cry, he loves me
I realized that if I love him and he for some reason is changing must let him go, no matter how it hurts, His tiers broke my hart but our love obviously wasn't ment to be, wished him all love and luck in the world but that would be without me
I'm healing now, wondering if I've made a huge mistake
2007-06-14 09:15:25 · 13 answers · asked by mermaid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he truly loved you, he would not do things that hurt you so. He may say he loves you, but the word and the deed go hand in hand.
You are being strong by letting go someone who is not being honest and true to you. You can only go through so much hurt, and in this case I don't think it would get any better.
In time you will heal. Keep your self busy, and give your self time to heal. Before long, this will all just be a memory and a lesson learned.
2007-06-14 09:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sadly you did not make a mistake. he would go back to his other person and it would break the marriage uup for you and you dnt want that. why would you want to be with someone that is n't with you? well its good and keep thinking good thoughts it willcome your turn some day and you will see how much for the best this is. it takes time to find someone and you can just wait and see its not good when one party is here and there and sometimes not in marriage you have to be as one and this isn't it. sorry
2007-06-18 18:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only mistake you made was not learning how to spell simple words like 'heart' or 'tears'. It seems like he realized that it's time to be with someone who can use a spell check function and knows how to present themselves in a good way, rather than someone clinging to something that is long over.
2007-06-22 06:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by Betsy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you did not make a mistake. If his behavior changes and it is not to treat you like the queen you should be treated as, then he is not the right one for you.
If his ex is still around, then this is another reason to move away from him.
Listen to your heart. It is telling you what to do and it is right.
2007-06-14 09:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by silverwhite_68 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mistake is in how you handle this scar afterwards. If you learn, grow and gain strength from this reality check you did wonderful. If you forget your lesson, stop growing, and become weaker for yourself because of it, you've made a huge mistake. Kudos on letting go, I've found myself in the same situation.... damn ex's......
2007-06-14 09:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. You were thrown clear by the blast. Thank your lucky stars.
Take a break. Leave men alone for two or three months. Be more careful about who you take into your life.
2007-06-14 09:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you're healing, get out and date a lot! You'll be amazed how much it adds to the healing, even if you can't understand that now.
2007-06-21 18:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt make a mistake, if he couldnt treat you with respect and how you should be treated then you did the right thing, dont second guess yourself, you will be a stronger person because of this...
2007-06-15 15:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?!?! You couldnt talk through this? You were gonna marry the guy and then hit some rough patches and just gave up?
2007-06-22 06:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by karalinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing you only got to see his true color the second time around they would only let you get away with what you let them get away with and to me he acting out to get back with his ex he will realize that she just wanted what she coudnt have and the end.
2007-06-22 05:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by lilmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋