see i am pregnacny and my boyfriend hit me one time out of no where but he has cacner...........i dont if i schold put my baby up for adoption i am staying way from my bf i broke up with him becusae i need to kno-and keep my baby safe from him....i am getting to started to love this baby in me i went to a a doctor i saw the baby and heard the babys heart beat and how i dont know what to do i am 16 teen years old in a foster home and i really dont know if i can keep this baby and i might can go back with my dad i am just hoping i can............bec. i do want to keep this baby but i dont know what to do i need help i dont know if i scould keep it
2007-06-14 09:59:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i do see my dad off and on he might can help me for the money
2007-06-14 10:02:18 · update #1
NEED HELP BAD
TKS ALOTS
2007-06-14 10:02:50 · update #2
ANY ANSWER WILL DO
2007-06-14 10:04:07 · update #3
see i really did love the farther of the baby so much he hit me one time and he has cacner and if i didnt have this baby i would have just been hurt anyway becuase he is dieing and this is his baby plus he told me he wanted to help but he hited me so i dont kno
2007-06-14 10:09:12 · update #4
You are NOT ready to be a parent. Sorry, kid. You are too young. You have too much yet to learn. Either abort or give it up for adoption and finish growing up before you attempt to raise a child. Having a kid now, when you lack the financial and emotional resources to take care of it, is cruel to the child. Keeping it is dooming it to a life of misery. Get your own life in order before you start bring new life into the world. It's harsh, and I'm sorry for that, but you need to hear it.
2007-06-14 10:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kayla,
Go talk with your father. But also take into consideration that you are in a foster home. Is it because your father was unable to take care of you? What about your mother. Are they both ready to help you? If not, then with your age, and the fact that there are many people out there who are trying to adopt, your child would have a better life if you gave it up. There are some families who are willing to let the mother know what has happened to the child. If this is possible, then you can still have a part of the child's life. But if not, then know that you are doing the right thing no matter what you decide.
2007-06-14 17:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by silverwhite_68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kayla, Sweety God bless you and keep you all the days of your life ! Keep away from the dude who hit you and if your daddy can help that would be very good ! Just remember that this baby will be your responsibility forever not just the first 18 years. There are alot of good people who will pay all bills just to get their own baby. Follow your heart. Jesus loves you and so do I .
2007-06-14 17:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to keep the baby maybe your dad could help but i dont know. You want to finish school so keep the baby
2007-06-14 17:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW 16 AND [REGENT SWEETIE THINK ABOUT YOU SCHOOL AND LIFE BEFOR ALL OF THAT MOST OF THE TIME THE BOY WILL LEAVE YOU ANYWAY YOU ARENT GOING TO STAY WITH HIM FOREVER
2007-06-14 17:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by KiaraMarie 1117x3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋