she said she wanted to "go further" in our relationship. i agreed to it. next "date" we were on everything was going fine and we were kissing (like normal, this is not "going further"). next morning she says we should slow down... i agree to it, thats fine. (i have done absolutely nothing wrong) - now out of nowhere i ask a simple question and get a snippy answer. dosent respond to most text messages, picks up the phone sometimes. (used to be always). and when I do talk to her it dosent seem like she cares like she used to. she says shell call me in an hour, then dosent. is she trying to get me to chase her? does she really not care anymore? is this just a game shes playing with me? She wont tell me... maby someone else can?
2007-06-14 12:01:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
play her game...don't call, don't text...try really hard not to answer her calls, and if she does text, wait a couple hours to respond...that should get her attention.
2007-06-14 12:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jason,
No one can tell you what is going on in her mind, but what I would tell you to do, is to send her a text or a voicemail and say that it will be the last time you contact her, that you have tried and that you want more than she is willing to give. Let her contact you next, if she doesnt then you know where she stands, if she does then you can go from there.
No one likes a doormat, so make a stand. Good Luck
2007-06-14 12:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by akgoddess39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you describe it it is really shitty behavior. now i always give people the benefit of the doubt and believe that i too can make mistakes and not notice it. so first off try get out of her if she thinks you did something wrong that sparked that behavior. it may be something silly and then you get to apologise buy her flowers and keep rolling. it may be something very important to her, in which case you apologise sincerely. but if youre positive you did nothing, make sure the next phonecall is from her to you. good luck!
2007-06-14 12:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing with you... and the more she does it, the less you should be invovled with her... let her know that your feelings towards her are based on how she treats you more than any other quality or intrinsic property that she possess and that her actions will determine her value in the relationship and not her body or her charm.
2007-06-14 12:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by think_of_the_bubble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's just playing with you.
2007-06-14 12:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Emileee. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is full of beautiful girls. I know there is one that will treat you better. Explore!
2007-06-14 12:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HER! She's playing games with you emotions.
2007-06-14 12:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing with you. Do something worthwhile and forget her.
2007-06-14 12:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lost interest and doesn't know how to tell you... sorry
2007-06-14 12:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her...
2007-06-14 12:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by Rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋