She say's she feels the same, but I dont know I'm actually scared to lose her and unsure about meeting her family wondering what will they think, I dont have kid's or anything and my life is very comfortable can this really work?
2007-06-14 14:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by mista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No!!!!! Your not crazy at all, if she's a really good person and she feels the same way about you, then it's perfectly fine!!
2007-06-14 14:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥surf lika girl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy...to not go for it!!! It may be a rough ride, as family tends to dislike that type thing, but if you are serious and have marriage plans, youll win them over. If its a fling, dont even bother with the parent thing. They're your age anyway.
It can really work, but the 23 year old is the unknown here. If she is mature, and serious about you, then yes. Are You ready to take on a younger woman? Mood swings, needs, partying, omg what color should I change my hair to, lets go dancing all night.... that type thing you need to consider carefully.
And best wishes to you both, I hope it works for you!!
2007-06-14 14:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the grand daddy. I'm 10 yrs. difference with mine. Man, if the sex is good, and everything else. Why not be happy? And when you are around her family and they make fun or say something stop the show, no one should make you feel that you are a perv or something, i mean come on she is over 18. And girls that age love sex. If you have a problem with the family you had better fix it at the beginning. My dad is 18yrs older. Now that is a trip. Have fun man!
2007-06-14 14:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am 41, and have dated bot younger and older women, and I gotta tell ya, 23 year old women have no idea what they want. They'll tell you they do, but sooner or later, something comes along to turn them around. Another problem is that their friends will always be telling them they need to find some one thier own age and will always be trying to fix them up with someone. It's constant pressure. Who can blame her? She's young. But hey, maybe you found an angel. Good Luck.
2007-06-14 15:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by hookerln 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can work as long as you understand that she is much younger than you, and probably not as mature as you either. If you really love her, do not be worried about meeting her family,. I think they will eventually get over the fact that you are much older once they see how much you guys care for each other. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-06-14 14:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Katie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey u may b crazy n she might leave u for a younger man soon but just remember this ( take lots of photos) n enjoy that time with her now then brag to ur friends lata. they might say " well she dumped u" but u can say so what at least I had her ..lol seriously it might work for awhile but not for ever
2007-06-14 14:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could work. it all depends . where are the both of you in your lives? if its love between the both of you it doesnt hurt to try. though i think the age diffrence could cause some seroius problmes but then ago i dont know either of you personally .
2007-06-14 14:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive heard more bizarre and yes it probably will, good chap...i believe in you and i think that that family will accept you...usually its the family that always follows their daughter about the feelings of another person
2007-06-14 14:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Samuel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work if you stop worrying and giving off vibes that you feel it's wrong:)
2007-06-14 14:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you think its crazy?
I think its normal and it doesnt matter whats your age - if you feel good together than thats all than matters.
2007-06-14 14:53:51 · answer #10 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋