should i stay with a boy who curses and yells at me a lot???

Question

he yells and curses constantly and i met a new boy thats really nice &&& very religious && we met @ church but when he asked me out i said i have a boyfriend but i think i fell in love wit the boy frm church but i still love my current boyfriend but he dont treat good @ all unles hes in front of my parents who should i be with should i stay with my current boyfriend r brake up with him &&& go out wit the boy i met @ church&&& have been talkin to everyday??? HELP!!!

Answer 1

Leave your current boyfriend and go with the boy from church. He sounds like a better match for you.

Answer 2

NO< NO< NO LEAVE THE JERK WITH THE POTTY MOUTH !!!!

First off here's what conserns me. Based on what you said it is blaitantly obvious that the young man with the potty mouth doesn't respect you. Second is the fact that his "manners" change depending on weather or not there is an authority figure around. That makes me think that the potty mouth may have some "Insecurity Issues" that may need to be resolved.
He may also have some home related problems that may require professional attention. Either way you deserve to be treated with the utmost respect, and potty mouth cant respect his self right now, so how could he possibly respect you???
My advise: Dump Potty mouth and safely, maybe over the phone, suggest that he get some help for his anger and respect isues. Go out with anyone that your parents approve of that treats you with respect even when no one else is around. I would also talk to one of your parents, which ever one you feel the most comfortable talking to, keep them informed as to why your dumping potty mouth. Trust me when I tell you in males any abnormal behaviour that goes untreated only gets worse. And remember, even if you really love the potty mouth, through that love you can let him go and if he gets help and changes his disrespectful ways, 6 months down the line maybe you can go to a movie together and see where it goes from there. Good Luck !! and remember people will only treat you the way you let them, if you don't like it .........STOP IT !!! You have that power.

Answer 3

I agree with what a lot of people have said. I won't put up with a guy cursing and yelling. No one deserves to be treated that way no matter what you do wrong. He's only dragging you down and making you have low self esteem. Get out and go on a date with the one that you met at church. He'll most likely treat you better. If you stay with the current on then your only hurting yourself and you don't deserve that. Get out of your relationship now.

Answer 4

Hey,
Yelling and curseing at u constantly is not a sign of respect.
U should be treated like a lady at all times, parents there or not. U should definitely dismiss his disrespectfull ***.
Hate to tell u. but what comes after yelling and cursing is usually violence. Don't let herself be somebody's bashing or punching bag. If u do dismiss ur boyfriend, give urself sometime before u jump into another relationship.
Good Luck! Let me know what happens

Answer 5

Be with the one who will treat you the way you want to be treated.

Just remember this, if you stick with the guy who constantly yells and curses at you, you will NOT be happy in the long run. Why would u want to be with someone who treats you like crap?

I say, go for the guy from the church.

Remember this my friend...people want to be treated the same way they treat people. If you aren't down with that, well then you got major self-esteem issues...

Church guy = Winner. Good luck.

Answer 6

wow girl its sounds like you have a bit of a problem on your hands. However, judging on the info you have given, i would say that i would go for the new boy. does your current boyfriend have relationship issues with his family. If your boyfriend is yelling and screaming at you, it may lead to something more ( such as abuse ) if you don't get out.
It seems like you are really attracted to the church boy, and if you have been spending a lot of time with him, maybe it is meant to be. you will never know if you don't go for it, you know?

i hope i have helped you decide a little bit

good luck!

Answer 7

This old boyfriend isn't worth your time. He treats you like crap, and I think you're more into the idea of what the two of you had before he started treating you badly than how he treats you now. I'd break up with this boy immediatly, and wait to see what happens iwth the next boy. I don't htink this new boy will be fond of the fact that you're dating someone. Be honest about it if he asks though. Good luck!

Answer 8

Don’t go out with a guy who talks to you like this. You don’t deserve to be yelled at and cursed at, it shows lack of respect. Sure there are times when you get very mad at someone and worked up but that doesn’t give you the right to talk to them how ever you want to. You should try to speak to the person you are with about the problem at hand without talking down to them. I think you should go for a man who will speak to you properly.

Answer 9

Not to be mean, but you need to leave the dating scene completely alone if this is rudimentary situation is a question for you.

This is a no brainer. Tell me which one would I rather have.

--A boy that treats me like crap OR
--A boy that treats me like a queen.

You sound young. I personally would tell you NOT to date at all. Just because the boy is in church doesn't mean that he is not worse than the boy that you're with. Guys always treat you nice at first, they need something to hook you with.

Why do you want to date in the first place? Is it to feel more adult? To fit in with other girls? Because you're not getting enough love at home?

Conclusion: You are not ready for dating.

Answer 10

Look I dated a guy for six yrs that cussed and yelled at me all the time. He would out of the blue start telling my that I was fat and ugly and that he would be the only one that could stand being with me. He also wouldn't let me be intimate with him, Im not talking about s*x, Im talking about cuddiling and kissing and hugging. It got to the point that I was very miserable and unhappy. I didn't feel that there was any love between us. SO, yes break up with him and date the sweeter guy. You'll regret it if you don't.