it seems like whoever I love, doesnt love me back. and whoever loves me (mostly my relatives), I don't love. I mean I try to love back those who love me, but you just cant force yourself to love someone you really dont love.
and I'm in love with this girl but she wouldnt give me the time. and I don't care about anyone else. if she loves me back, I could care less if the entire world hates me.
I want it to be a mutal thing, it never is. I love someone and they dont love me. Somebody love me, and I dont love them. Not once in my life have I loved someone who loves me back.
I have never experienced what its like to be loved by someone who I also love. know what? I'm 20 years old, and I've never even HUGGED a girl before. ******* sad
2007-06-14 15:07:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that it seems like everyone else has someone to love, but that's not the case. You're still really young and you have lots of time to fall in love with someone who is right for you and not just whatever girl is around. Spend this time doing the things that you want to do and don't worry about the relationship. It will come when the time is right.
2007-06-14 15:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by raspberrytart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think you don't love the ones that love you but you do. They are the ones that appreciate who you are and love you. The girl who you say you love is just a waste of time. She'll never really love you if you force her to. Just have patients and one day you'll find your soul mate.
2007-06-14 15:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by silvcubo1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got a messed up sense of what love is dude. Love is not an emotion. Love is an act of your will. Don't get me wrong, love CAN be emotional, but when those emotions fade it is up to your strength of will to commit to loving the person anyway. That is how love can last through hate, anger, jealousy, grief, envy, joy, arrogance... you name it. The kind of love you're describing is selfish. You take what you want, give what you want when you want to give it, but it ain't love. You got some serious soul searching to do.
2007-06-14 15:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense your pain, frustration, and desire.To love and be loved in return has been the goal of men and women since the birth of time.It has also been one of the most fruitless searches not to mention ironies.I would ask you not to give up.you're only 20years and have your whole world ahead of you.You mention this girl you feel wouldn't give you the time of day.Do you just suppose this or do you know it from asking her and being rejected. Pick yourself up,look around youand youwill notice alot of very beautifulgirls.One of them is just waiting for your smilel and your name.So smile and introduce yourself. You might be pleasantly surprised.
2007-06-14 15:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start loving people who love you; maybe then someone outside of your family will love you back. The girl may have seen how you acted with your family; it can be a turn off for her.
2007-06-14 15:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a problem there if you don't love the realatives who love you!
I want to know why no one loves me either,but I haven't found the answer to that one.
I love my realatives wheather they love me or not & it is easy to love those who love you too,but as far as a mate,after i got divorced from the first loser i married,I haven't even found a loser who I would even want to date!& all the good guys are taken or don't feel like i do about them either.
Just like you,I am in limbo with that!
2007-06-14 15:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur to you that you're maybe loving the wrong girls? Do you try to get girls that are out of your class of people? Try to get one that is in your class and I'm not talking about school classes either. If you shop in the store that was meant for you i think you will find true romance.
2007-06-14 15:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by roy40371 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad you'll find someone. I'm 21 and never hugged a guy or had a boyfriend so youre not the only one.
2007-06-14 15:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by meeko6811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like me. i like this guy but he thinks i'm ugly. he even sad that to my face. i have tried to go out with 9 guys in the past 6 years but all them say that i'm ugly and they would never go out with me. also, i have a big family. all of my family on my dad's side, hates me but loves my other siblings. they say that since im a dancer, they hate me. all of them are doctors.
i'm really sorry. maybe you should have a myspace or go onto match.com. i'm 19 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i have hugged my boy friends. just my friends. i'm really sorry. hey maybe u can email me and maybe we might be good for each other.
here it is:
acmas_best_dancer@yahoo.com
2007-06-14 15:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by dancer 4evera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just haven't found the right girl yet.Generally when you're not looking is when you'll find her.Your young and have plenty of time.Don't be in such a rush.
2007-06-14 15:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋