I have never given my husband a reason to believe that I am jealous or insecure. I don't question him about his where abouts and I don't give him a hard time about going anywhere. But recently he received a graduation invitation from someone that he did not recognize and when I asked him who it was he told me he didn't know. I left it at that. He went all out trying to find out who it was and later told me it was one of his cousins. Then he made a comment about how cute it was that I was jealous. To me that's not jealousy, that's just asking a question and I think anyone would have asked. What do you think?
2007-06-14 05:27:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell him that was cute of you to think I was being jealous when I really wasn't.
2007-06-14 05:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by imacutie2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was an honest question and normal question that I would have asked as well, but if it makes him feel good to think you were a bit jealous...let him have the compliment.
2007-06-14 12:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to worry about, it was nothing and I don't think your asking was jealousy at all. He's your husband, your life partner, you have a right to know all.
2007-06-14 12:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um..so how is saying "I don't know" considered respect? I don't even think its jealousy. Actually...it sounds rather petty to me.
How about just saying to him "Hey..i asked a simple queston..which I point out that you couldn't answer...so can you tell me how in Christ's name you think my question stems from jealousy?".
Lets see what he say to that.
2007-06-14 12:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not the jealousy but, some men like to see their wives or girlfriends feel it, or show it to them.
2007-06-14 12:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mirabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say he was HOPING you were jealous.
2007-06-14 12:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋