Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

was wanting to cheat if you found out that your hubby had profiles on several dating websites? I found out my hubby has accounts on several dating sites and he even says on there he is seaking someone within a 50 mile radius!!!

We have been married for 12 years and I am pretty upset!!! We have had a few minor problems, just like all marriages. But I thought things were fine, then I find all this. Thinking about him leaving me just kills me, I mean I was 15 when we met and have never even dated anyone else.

What would you do? Confront him? Please help!!!

2007-06-11 16:55:47 · 33 answers · asked by messijessi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am taking my fiance's name and I know the basics like driver lic. but what about my birth certificate? I know that sounds stupid but I am really curious. Thanks!

2007-06-11 16:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by Me, again 6 in Weddings

2007-06-11 16:47:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is having a wedding and said that she thought it was called a money purse... I have never heard of it and thought someone on here might have.

2007-06-11 16:44:46 · 18 answers · asked by tiffanimani 2 in Weddings

I have 8 kids, The Problem is that 3 of them dont like them. swhat should i do. and also a single father. all 8 of them live with me in a i live in a govt house because i have no time to work. because i need to take care of my babys who are 20,18,16,14,13,11,10,8
the 22 year old is in jail will come back soon

2007-06-11 16:27:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am going to court with my baby daddy fighting over custody. i have little money for an attorney so i hired one through ks legal services for like 70$ hr. every time i talk to her i have to tell her what issues i have like she never talked to me before and i can rarely ever make contact with her. she is telling me that pretty much all i can get is shared custody 50/50 even though i have had my daughter to myself for the 2 years i have had her. he has been in the pic on and off dating me. he has a 10 yr old and provides little or no stability for her or himself till these last couple months since he finally got a place to live. i want residential custody and visitations for him, not 50/50! would a different lawyer make a difference or do i need to accept these terms he wants because it seems like he is getting everything he wants and they dont take into consideration my issues with sharing her with him like he wants. hes not a bad person but hes not a very stabile person

2007-06-11 16:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by thats me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dreamnt a past lover on Sunday and woke up from it around 6AM Sunday morning... I went back to sleep and woke up later. I checked my email to find that my former lover had emailed me around 6AM!! Guess what his email said? That he dreamnt about me!!!

Does this mean anything

P.S,, I'm already married with a 9 month old baby..

2007-06-11 16:24:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend that talks like she have money stacked, but yet she can barely afford to fix her car. she always want to go out, but there are days when I cant go out because im short on cash, she make remarks like I need a man that can lavish and take care of me.(it cost me $26 every time to go see her shes like 40min from me so gas and toll adds up and to go out it adds up )
the sad thing is I'm taking care of my debt first so I can get nice things myself later on in life. she has a graduation coming up she want me to go, I told her I'll watch her walk but i cant go out and eat with the rest of her and her friends. because I may not have enough. but my birthday is coming up I would like to try and do a little something for myself.
even tho I tell her my being broke is just for the moment but I don't think she seeing my goal of clearing up my past. so should i just cut her off and run because she is selfish with a hint of gold dinging or just don't pay her no mind
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2007-06-11 16:16:21 · 3 answers · asked by Byte_this 3 in Friends

2007-06-11 16:15:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh god i know this is stupid but please....i like rly insecure i need to know.....1-10...........?
http://sigatopragma.blogspot.com/

Also, what ethnicity do i look?
what age?

2007-06-11 16:12:29 · 34 answers · asked by Siga_toPragma 1 in Singles & Dating

I know it must be much harder on children when parents split...

But what are some of the ways you dealt with this as an adult. I feel a lot of resentment toward one parent. Some advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-06-11 16:11:13 · 6 answers · asked by KS 7 in Marriage & Divorce

This senior boy asked me for my number before graduating, he and I texted each other today and had fun. We have only spoken since February and already he's on my myspace and he has my number. Is he a player. or are we just moving too fast?

2007-06-11 16:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello It's Me Again Asking For More Help. I Have Tried Talking With Respect and Talking To My Girlfriend With Respect Yet Nothing Has Happend, Her Dad Still Doesn't Approve Of Me. Is There Any Way That Both My Girlfriend and I Can Talk Him Into Letting Me Date Her? Any Suggestions On What To Say To Him?

2007-06-11 16:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by Edgar H 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for year and share such a close bond. We never fight, and I honestly see no reason at all why I should breakup with him now. I have always followed my mother's rules. She's decided that after getting to know him for the past year that he is not the one for me because: he is of a different race, religion, she feels as though he is unattractive and a momma's boy. She expects me to end things with him as soon as possible when in relaity that will simply break my heart. I do not want to choose between her and him, and when I explained to her that i respect her opinion but want to stay with him she just becomes more infuriated with me and says how she's given her life to raising me (single parent) and that I am basically awful for not listening to her wishes.

I'm typically quite good at debating her, but this time is just too much for me. Anyone have any advice?

2007-06-11 16:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i got my self in to a bad place/ a girl i like is about to have a kid but shes still with the dad though . ive been friends with this girl for 2 years and i love her i want to go out with her after she has the kid but i dont know how to make this work/ if it means any thing shes 17 please help this sucks and i dont know what to do

2007-06-11 15:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well finally here u can expess anger from your inside and ged awarded for it....how cool is that....by the way i assure u that there would b no "abuse restrictions"...so hav fun freely expressing your anger....

2007-06-11 15:56:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 15:56:33 · 20 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He really likes me but i dont like him at all and i dont wanna breakup with him so how do i get him to break up with me?

2007-06-11 15:55:34 · 20 answers · asked by Lindsey 1 in Singles & Dating

so he would ignore my e-mails and then reply back one of my messages with roses and gifts online and calls me sweetie. i gave him my number and he didn't call me and so i asked for his number. so i call him and he doesn't answer but then calls me back. we talk for 15 minutes and he told me he's gonna call me back. he didn't call. i don't know if he likes me or not but he knows i talk to lots of guys and he thinks i'm cute. what should i do? wait for him to call or should i call him.

2007-06-11 15:51:37 · 24 answers · asked by yennay 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend hung out with someone and said that she would only hang with them until she tired of them. It almost feels like she is doing the same to me. She, another friend of mine, and me were really close at the beginning of the year, but now my other friend and I don't really want to hang out with her. She is rude to the people she doesn't like, she is even worse to her parents, and if u r at her house she asks you to help with her chores that she only was asked to do. idk if I should drop her or give her a chance.

2007-06-11 15:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean the couple. Not fiances. As if you were going to say the ________________ are looking at... The engaged? The fiancees? The...????

2007-06-11 15:51:27 · 12 answers · asked by JesusLovesMe! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 15:50:16 · 22 answers · asked by bimshire 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 16 and I really love my boyfriend (he is 18) just the other day he asked me about sex I told him maybe he said "If your worried about getting pergnat don't worry cause I'm going to marry you anyway." I had been dating him scince I was 11 and we just had a three month break up where I got together with 1 kid and this other guy I never really liked just felt sorry for then he begged to get back together. Yes this a repost but I was talking to my boyfriend and he said that in August when I turn 17 he is going to propose and he said that if we do it now by the time we have the baby we'll be married. Do you think that he is for real or not?

2007-06-11 15:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and i are really close i can tell when she is upset but i cant help here this time. i have been homeschooled for 3 years and know she is sending my brothers and me to a public/ private school. i am the only girl and i have 3 really annoying brothers. My dads Buiessness is not working well we are living on every sent we have in the bank. My mom cantget us in to schools. She is really depressed she almost quit on us a few time but we begged her to stay she wasnt wearing her wedding ring. She says no one cares I help the best i can im only 13 and i have every negative thig about marrige possible. Can you please pray for me??
I need you to pray for my mom and my dads marrige. my oldest brother he is not on a Christian path and if he doen't chang my parents will surely divorce. my dads buisness will fail and we will be on the street. pray that it works out. pray that my mom is helped so she can get us into schools and is not depressed anymore.

2007-06-11 15:47:08 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Unperfect 3 in Family

well, i have this "friend" and i was over at her house with 2 guys and well my friend went w/ the other guy and left me w/ him... and i gave him a bj, i dont like him, i dont no why i did what i did, i dont talk 2 him! now every time i see him in the hallway its so wierd!! now that girl i was w/ will tell the entire school about that night if i dont hang out w/ her!! i dont like ther any more b/c she left me alone!
how do i get over it i no it was a mistake and now i cant stop thinking about it! what should i do about her?? i really dont want 2 hang out w/ her! help plus i really dont want my parents 2 find out im only 16!!

2007-06-11 15:45:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm attracted to my doctor. He's a loving caring kind giving man. The problem is I have a fear of rejection, and would feel not ony embarrassed but crushed if he told me he was in a relationship. I feel our energies are in sync and sometimes I feel he wants to say something to me but is holding back. He is also my surgeon(I recently had surgery) and I have one more post-op appt. with him. I thought I could send him a thank you card and put my phone number under my name. Do you think I could use the card to ask him out or would my phone number convey the message? Please let me know if you have any advice or tips I could use. Thank you.

2007-06-11 15:44:09 · 16 answers · asked by D m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a commited relationship for the past couple of years, I am very comfortable knowing that I am not legally bonded to him. Even though we have to children together, I sometimes consider marriage for there benefit. Is something wrong w/ me or am I just one of those gals.

2007-06-11 15:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by Kadija T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 15:43:16 · 5 answers · asked by tryitallx1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you suggest I look for in a potential groom? Feel free to say anything you feel like.

( P. S. this question is meant for the Indian audience ).

Thanks

2007-06-11 15:42:48 · 10 answers · asked by M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother left our house a few years ago, and he won't take my calls, it's odd. I don't think he hates me, but I'm not sure why he won't answer when I call. I mean, even talking to him in person seems like a chore to him, when I do see him. He barely speaks! Maybe he's just self conscious because he stutters a bit, and is depressed.
My problem with him, is that when he left, he went to go live with our abusive alcoholic father, who spoiled him rotten after the divorce, to literally buy his favor. He still does it because he bought my brother a house! The kid's never had a job in his life, and he has a house already. Mind you, his Dad still drinks like a fish so he's gonna die one of these days and this kid has no real life experience at all, and he's gonna have to deal with all of that. I think he's expecting our Mom to help him with it, which she probably will. Sorry, Im ranting again. I am gripey about some things with my brother, but he's still my brother, I wish he would pick up

2007-06-11 15:42:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family