Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

Or do you think they just want affirmation on what they have already decided on doing? I think few people fall into the first category, but most fall into the last. That is my honest opinion. What is yours?

2007-06-11 22:15:31 · 4 answers · asked by tigger 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend with benefits who I talk to on the phone about once a week or so, but we don't see each other all that often. We've known each other for over a year now and he has always asked me since day the day I met him "Do you have a boyfriend?" "Are you sure you don't have a boyfriend?" or "Anybody you're 'talking' to?" etc. And recently he started calling me "baby". Not sure what this means, but I hope this means that he likes me. What do you think?

2007-06-11 22:12:29 · 6 answers · asked by ßỰŦŤΣЯ§! Guess who's back...for now! 6 in Singles & Dating

and the cancer already spread to his/her neck,lungs etc...

2007-06-11 22:11:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to let him go on dates with me. like double dates and stuff like that. we are both 13..we had to talk his parents into letting us go to the movies. is it that his parents may not like me or wat is it? its summer time and i really want to see him again!! =[
thank you

2007-06-11 22:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by just_like_you132 2 in Singles & Dating

My mate asked if he can borrow my car tomorrow, that was yesterday. And I said yes to him. We both knew the car needed engine oil and he asked me if it needed oil, I said yes and I will have a look.
After a while he changed his mind and came back to me and asked me if he can have the car today. Because I didnt have to use the car I said yes, BUT forgot about the oil. And my mate did not bother checking the oil. He just drove it off. Guess what happened, the engine blew up.
He came back, told me the story, I didnt blame him as we both knew it needed oil. But this morning, he had the cheek to tell me it was my fault giving him a car without oil.. I was absolutely gutted as its THE DRIVERS responsibility to check the engine oil. Do you think he was fair to put the blame on me? The car was given to him at no charge ,just as a friend.

2007-06-11 22:09:24 · 25 answers · asked by Olderwiser 4 in Friends

Hi, I wanted to know if A loves B with all her heart and B does not, what should A do?

1. Is it becasue A is lacking something and A must ask B what is lacking?

2. Is it destiny?

3. A does not deserve B?

4. A's love for B is not true enough?

Lastly, any other reason?

2007-06-11 22:06:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 22:02:08 · 8 answers · asked by Toves 1 in Singles & Dating

i make love with my husband to be. After we finishes he then told me that he has make me pregnant or i got pregnant at that time & he take it as he was joking but i dont know whether he was serious or not. What i use to believe is that some other man dont want to tell their women when they make them pregnant, they want women to tell them if they find that they are preg. so i thougt that he dont want to tell me if he did so or he want to see how honest i am my question is? do man can feel if they make a women pregnant. and me am i pregnant, i have not go to the doctor yet bcos it happens 3 days ago, i will see the doctor after 2 weeks please help by your own opinion what may be it please please

2007-06-11 22:00:52 · 11 answers · asked by CHINAEYEZ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i've been hanging out with this guy for a while and he wants to be just friends with benefits...i like him and normally wouldnt agree to something like this but the sex is amazing and i really dont wanna miss out on that haha!...what do u guys think of that kind of relationship? you think the fact that i liked him is gonna end up being a problem? FOR GUYS!...WHEN A GUY SAYS HE WANTS A FWB WHAT IS HE SAYING ABOUT THAT GIRL??... like could he end up likeing her, or does he just think shes hott, or etc??

btw we're both 19 if that makes any difference...

2007-06-11 22:00:46 · 13 answers · asked by fini 2 in Singles & Dating

sometimes get in these moods where everything that comes out of my mouth is negative. I don't make much friends because i'm different in some kind of way. I always try to enjoy life but nothing makes me happy. I'm always serious and quiet so i don't try to bother anyone or get myself embarassed. I ask God for help but i don't get much answers. I feel like i can't trust anybody. Not even my parents. I'm so lonely and don't know who can help me in life. I'm always asking myself why i exist in life if it's only to suffer and hide from people who don't understand me. If only i can get some type of answer from God.

2007-06-11 21:59:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does it matter to a girl if a guy is circumcised or not?

2007-06-11 21:57:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

At first my son who has a daughter who is 8 from a previous relationship made every effort to involve her and all his family in his new relationship, things went well and soon they were living together and his daughter stayed with them at the weekends. His partner then became pregnant and then started to sever all connections with his side of the family including his daughter who was devasted. Its now 2 years down the line and things have steadily got worse, I now have 2 grandchildren who I never see, after months of trying to keep her happy by visiting in the evening when my son was at home with a check phone call to make sure it was convienient to go over. My current situation is now that I feel i have lost a son, a grandson and grandaughter and they have lost one half of a family who love them unconditionally.

2007-06-11 21:53:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We're just acquiantances,but we wentn back and forth on and off for months being abrasive to each other.I finally had a conversation with her where i put the attention on her,asked her how her year was going,i also restrained my temper in front of her,was as gentle as possible and also gave her the space she needed when she needed it.Shortly therafter,she walked by me slowly with a warm peaceful happy look and also a bit of a smile on her face.What did i do to make her react this way,and is it a good thing?

2007-06-11 21:52:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got in a fight this morning. He refuse to let me go out of town with friends tonight. I said I wished he was dead and he was in shock.Then he left. Im not sure but I think he was crying. All I could think of was I wanted to knock him on the ground and beat him in the pavement.
If u want to know why? Watch the character of "Jack" on Will and Grace (TV show) That's what my dad looks and acts like exactly except my dad is a little shorter and wears glasses.
He also teaches philosophy. He is drama coach at our local theatre of arts. My mom tries to make me feel bad by saying things like just once I should hug my father n say I love him. She said she is worried about my dad because he is becoming DEPRESSED. My sister makes me sick every freakin day she goes hugging and kissing my dad and goes through the "love u daddee have a nice day!!" CRAP!
Its a conspiracy to make me look like the bad guy!

2007-06-11 21:46:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

can i marriage some1 that i never seen b4?

2007-06-11 21:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by EJECT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i lost my virginity the other day, everyone said it would be brilliant, but it wasnt. he kept losing his erection and i just layed there. was kinda dull... is it like this for everyone 1st tiime or am i just werid?

2007-06-11 21:46:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what to do

2007-06-11 21:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jammy 1 in Friends

again my bf likes my best friend and my bestfriend likes my bf i know he likes me but i think he is only going to go out with me because he cant go out with her or to make her jealous i really do not want to dump him i like him alot so what can i do besides dumping him??

2007-06-11 21:29:54 · 8 answers · asked by nightflie 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a first date tonight with a girl i 'met' online. known her two months... one month on match, one month on myspace.. in which she requested me on and sent me a msg first. i mentioned meeting up few weeks ago, just saying we should sometime, and that i enjoy talking to her. she said ' i like talking to you too' and agreed we should meet up. a week later she brought it up.. i asked her what shes doing that next week, she said, 'hanging out with you silly.' i was on vacation, which she knew about, so i replied 3/4 days later, to find a good time to meet up. she said she was getting over a cold... 3 days later she emails me saying shes all better and says "maybe we could talk on the phone. what do you think? and arrange to meet up."
i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulled

2007-06-11 21:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a divorce case about a christian couple governed under the Indian succession Act. Wife is living seapartely from her husband for nearly 10 years now following a suit filed by her for return of money given at the time of marriage. The case was decreed and the decretal amount has been paid..
The wife is a cruel type of a person and one who has a sadistic upbringing and one who doesnot like to be a mother. She is an abusive type and wants to take revenge against her husband by not giving consent for divorce in a joint petition proposed to be filed. Her advocate is demanding huge sums for a compromise. Anything possible in this case?

2007-06-11 21:28:46 · 4 answers · asked by jos c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We only went out twice but he got me flowers on our second date. Whats a good gift that will show that i care?

2007-06-11 21:28:39 · 9 answers · asked by koliver1973 2 in Singles & Dating

A 'friend' of mine who I have financial dealings with sometimes 'forgets' to bring cash with him when he buys things from me. He never seems to remember to pay me unless I remind him. Then he remembers.

"Oh yeah sorry"

I think I've seen a pattern emerging! This guys is not short of cash. I am!

What should I do about this guy?

2007-06-11 21:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by tuthutop 2 in Friends

I know practically all girls have done this... where you try out signing your name with your crush's last name a million times - pretending that you're married. Well, I was curious if guys ever put any thought into this. Like, did you guys ever attach your last name to the girl's first name and see how it would look?

Just curious - thanks :)

2007-06-11 21:19:55 · 6 answers · asked by Cedar 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 21:19:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whenever someone asks me to help them with something, i give them all my energy and time. i love to help because it makes me feel like i'm not useless, and also i feel that if i help everyone, they will have a positive view toward me. however, when it comes to me needing something, some of these people do not reciprocate. they would be "busy" or have some excuse of not being able to help me. yet, the next time they ask me to do something for them, i still agree to help them. my roommate uses and abuses my car like it's her own, and i still let her use it without saying anything. i think i spend too much time trying to make everyone happy. but then i end up being the one getting frustrated with myself because of how i'm being treated. how do i stop this? thank you for your answers.

2007-06-11 21:04:29 · 15 answers · asked by lil3 2 in Friends

My bf and I have been together for almost 3 years. I love him a lot but sometimes I question whether we could really be together forever and get married and all that. We have been arguing more lately over stupid stuff. Plus, he always tells me that he feels like i have a strong chemistry with a guy I work with (who we happen to have a lot in common and are like best friends). My bf always says that I should be with my friend, not him. The friend likes me too and I can see myself being with him too. My question is, I don't know what to do so do I stay with my current bf or say i need some time and try things out with someone else?

2007-06-11 21:00:39 · 14 answers · asked by Wishing on a Dream 4 in Singles & Dating

He always talks about sex, and I have done this in the past when I was younger, but I forgot how. I know not to have sex with him, but how can I get him to see me as a woman instead of a sex object?

I plan to take any good advice I get and if he's still a dirty *** then I'll just forget him.

Thanks

2007-06-11 20:57:24 · 8 answers · asked by purpleacoustic 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my bf and it kind of hurt, we have been going out for a while and i got real attached to him well when we broke up he acted like he didnt even care, he didnt ask why or anything and he was the main one being insecure about me. well now he dosent really talk to me and he change his profile name to "Imma free man now" I know that he isn't messing with another girl and i feel like he just trying to make me jealous but im not sure but i dont know what to do leave him alone or try to talk to him

2007-06-11 20:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm overwhelmed with child support and bills. I'm stuck living with my dad and everytime my kids visit they hate him because he's so grouchy. I feel like my only alternative is to go back to a job I hate, but better money! I'm confused!

2007-06-11 20:47:10 · 11 answers · asked by Parercut Faint 7 in Family

My boyfriend came over tonight for dinner. Well here at my house we can't fool around like we do at his place. 2 different households. After dinner we were watching tv n' he started hinting that he wanted us to take a drive & have a "quickie". I didn't want 2. Not that I'm a prude & wouldn't, but because I simply didn't feel like it & just felt it could wait a day or so for when I go to his house . Its not like we never do it. So anyway, I told him no I didn't want to. He kind of gave me an attitude, like this grouchy expression. So a bit later he left to go home. He didn't call me which was fine, but he'll usually if not almost always text me just to say I love you, or whatever. Well, I didn't hear from him at all since he left. I can only interpret it as he was mad because I didn't give in. We just spent this past Thurs-Sunday 2gether at his house. I wanted to just relax today n' chill. So am I wrong? Or is he being selfish? We see eachother all the time and ALWAYS have sex.

2007-06-11 20:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by itsbeautybaby 1 in Singles & Dating