Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

We're both around 17. My off and on boyfriend of 1 year and 3 months is saying that he would break up with me if I didn't move in with him when we go to college or whatever and that he wouldn't wait any longer than 5 years to move in with me. I have told him that I don't feel comfortable, my concerns about it and that I'm not ready to take that big of a step in our relationship just yet because I think it would be getting too serious for me. Even after 5 years in our relationship I'd still be pretty young (20 or 21) and not wanting to settle down for a life time. Don't get me wrong I love him and care about him a lot but I just think it's a bit too much.

2007-06-11 12:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by hearts99992000 5 in Singles & Dating

The man I was dating for 6 months, just stopped calling me.. He ignores my calls, texts and any attempts of communicating w/him, so ultimately I stopped trying. I'm heartbroken..

..but mind you this happened a month ago.. and I still can't get over him. This has brought me down so much.. I attempted to drive from Miami to Naples to try and talk to him but I got a blow out midway and just headed back home..

I never thought that i'd feel this way for someone in such a short time.

I can't get this man out of my head.. I always think of him and w/e I do, thoughts of him pop into my head. Every stupid little love song reminds me of him and I get really bummed out to the point where I start to cry.. I don't know what to do anymore..

Why is it so hard to let go when he clearly wants nothing to do with me any longer???

2007-06-11 12:40:47 · 18 answers · asked by Are we done yet? 2 in Singles & Dating

i guess that is all,

2007-06-11 12:38:54 · 8 answers · asked by farhad 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy for fifteen years, he's my younger brother's friend. He had a crush on me when he was 8 (I was fourteen) and it lasted until he was about fifteen, I was already well off at college, but everytime I came back he'd give little hints about his feelings. I never paid attention to it because he was fifteen and I was twenty one. Now he's older and he wants to have a relationship with me. He says that the age difference doesn't matter, but I don't know, I've never dated a younger man before. The maturity level isn't the problem, he's always been mature for his age, and I know he'll have his moments. I know this is asked frequently, but am I too old for him( six year difference)??

2007-06-11 12:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I was friends with stopped talking to me because I was very sick the day of her birthday party and couldn't make it out. I called her and let her know earlier in the day, and I told her I would make it up to her. SHe responded with she was disappointed in me and that I am not a friend and that I dont respect our friendship. All becuase I was sick the night of her party. Should I be upset about this? I feel like if she was my friend in the first place, she would have understood. SHe literally has NOT talked to me since then, didnt invite me to her wedding or housewarming or anything! Any input?

2007-06-11 12:36:39 · 17 answers · asked by BrunetteAmbition 2 in Friends

I have a 3 month old baby and my fiance of 4.5 years and I havent had sex since I got pregnant. I'm 31 and he's 29. He treats me very badly and I asked him to leave 5 days ago and he gladly did. Now I found out he's been talking to a 17 years old girl for almost a year. (I found out when I was pregnant but he says she is a client/friend).He calls all the time. I confronted both of them and they are saying they are friends. I can't stop agonizing and don't know what to do.What do I do?

2007-06-11 12:35:39 · 33 answers · asked by lori b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the thing that gets you mad, or u just can't stand or u hardly bare about ur woman?

2007-06-11 12:35:36 · 4 answers · asked by Dobbie 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this girl have been talking alot. we would talk 4 or 5 times a day for hours sometimes. she told me she really liked me and i told her i really liked her. she told me i didnt have any other competition. well the last few days she hasnt said maybe just 3 sentances to me. im trying to figure out if she is playing games or if she just doesnt want anything to do with me anymore? she did get mad at me for buying her a stuffed monkey for getting this new job position she said she hates when people buy her things when she doesnt deserve it. i like her and i thought she liked me but i dont know whats going on someone help me please then saturday i called her crying because i had just found out my cousin who was my best friend died and i told her i really needed someone to talk to and she hasnt said a word to me

2007-06-11 12:34:53 · 8 answers · asked by gossamer1999g 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it because they are unhappy with their spouse? because they are unhappy with themselfs? like the attention? what is your take on why people cheat........no i'm not cheating nor is my hubby just a general question. I did once live ith a cheater i think he did it because he was a retard and immature.

2007-06-11 12:33:54 · 15 answers · asked by ally'smom 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i met this girl like 3 months ago..we talked a couple of times ok conversations...i finally had the courage to ask her to lunch and she took a rain check but then resheduled for the next day.it was a ok lunch....one of my friends had told her that i liked her but she preffered hearing it from my words....i told her and she blusshed...i called her the next day and i saw her sittin down in her office and didnt pick up...i didnt want to pressure her so i didnt go by her office for like 1 day...when she finally saw me she was like"ohh my god where you been havent seen you all day?"i went and said hi...in the end of the day i walked her to the train station and asked her if she had a boyfriend...she told me and i quote"yea hes somewhere"gave me the impression like he aint that important.....but i could be wrong..does she like me? or should i just give up and let her be happy??what should i do??? pllllllleeeeaasssee help

2007-06-11 12:32:28 · 18 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 12:28:44 · 16 answers · asked by tabitha 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for two years, i love him sooo much. He's perfect, sweet, kind, loving understanding and a genius in Columbia law school currently going at 20. He is goreuous 6'9, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. One problem he is a virgin, by choice philosophical/religous reasons.I lied to him and said i was. He is Catholic, doesn't act holier than thou and very understanding. A friend of mine dated him for a while she told him that she wasn't a virgin from the start, they were together for awhile. Anyway he was at a bar and bumped into an exboyfriend whom told him i slept with him and others, I didnt know this happened. He asked me, he never has, and I lied. Then I said i did it because i loved him "No you dont, you want to be with me, you though it would hurt you chances so you lied, you dont care about me. I hate this it happens my whole life i though you were different. how can i trust you, i dont know" How can make it better

2007-06-11 12:26:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the thought has been in my head for years. ever since high school.peer preasure and im failing gradesare the main reasons i want to do this . and i know my mom or dad wont miss me if im gone they barely even want me now.say if my sister does something i get blammed and punushed for it and its not fair. im doing stuff i never would have thought of doing before like drugs (extacy, weed), trouble with the law and i nowhave alot of enimes. im very depressed my best friend commited suiside and after that my other friend was stabbed to death my girl friend broke up with me (she was cheating) and its too much to go through with. i have tried 2 do it many times and i just couldnt do it but i know one time i will and i will kill myself as i said before my mom and dad wont miss me when im gone they dont care that im here they are always mad at me and yell at me.im not a very open person so i have not told anyone about it ever since it started 2 years ago.im 16 years old and need help b4 2 late

2007-06-11 12:25:59 · 20 answers · asked by jake w 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

um dating this guy and he's not circumsized just wondering if its safe to have sex with him....or if any body has did it with a person dats not circumsized.....how is it?????

2007-06-11 12:25:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 12:23:22 · 21 answers · asked by Rico Tubbs 2 in Singles & Dating

signs to see if a very shy guy is interested in you

2007-06-11 12:21:58 · 2 answers · asked by aleandria 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is a senior in high school and on wednesday is his last day. in the student parking lot his car is parked there.

any good ideas on pranks we call pull on his car? we have to be careful cause classes nearby with windows are there.

any kind of prank. i want some good, even crazy but plausible ideas.

2007-06-11 12:19:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So my friend set me up with this girl's email address, but she told me nothing about her, except that she's single. How should I break the ice?

2007-06-11 12:18:47 · 21 answers · asked by i♥sf 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 12:18:16 · 8 answers · asked by J G 1 in Singles & Dating

he had a sex change previously. he was once a woman.

2007-06-11 12:17:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This women who works in our office is having an affair with a coworker. She told him how her husband ignores her and is no longer affectionate. She also told him that he has no respect for her and sometimes verbally abuses her. I know this man her husband and I can't imagine him like that he seems like a great guy. She is thinking of leaving him for her new lover and its kinda sad for there 3 kids. Her husband from what I understand has no idea of the affair and I know it will crush him. Could she be bending the truth to get her lover?

2007-06-11 12:15:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have lived together for 2 years, he is 30 and I am 24. He is the one I want to marry, except he is incredibly irresponsible whn it comes to money. He has terrible credit, has lots of debt and spends friviously. I on the other hand have no debt, emergency savings and already started saving for retirement. When I try to talk to him or help him with his situation he gets very upset and refuses to talk about it anymore. Should I be worried to marry someone who may put me at risk for financial instability later in life? Or can I be a good influence and help him mature a little?

2007-06-11 12:11:51 · 5 answers · asked by Snarf 3 in Singles & Dating

HOW DO I FIND OUT IF I'M CUTE? NONE OF THE BOYS HAVE ASKED ME OUT BUT THEY HAVE ASKED OTHER GIRL DOES THAT MEAN I'M UGILY?

2007-06-11 12:10:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 12:06:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is getting married and I don't like the guy she is marring! Please Help me!

2007-06-11 12:03:06 · 37 answers · asked by lilsis_890 1 in Weddings

guy gont even talk no more what to do cause i dont love this guy i work with i love the one im with

2007-06-11 12:00:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

av been with two girls and they have both cheated on me!! why are sum girls a bunch of u know wa!! i havent been this upest since me grandad died 4 years ago sum one help me b4 i do sumthin stupid

2007-06-11 11:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by an146442 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a male. i am farely skinny. so what are the changes i am about to endure? i am really gettin the hot's for girls now. what are the changes? i need to know! i wake up with a, (dont report me) stiffy every morning now and it hurts. what is a stiffy? i know your coc*k gets stiff, but why?

2007-06-11 11:58:28 · 5 answers · asked by crapface mcghee 1 in Singles & Dating

do u have a gf/bf
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is there still cool single people like me out there??

2007-06-11 11:56:45 · 20 answers · asked by star 5 in Singles & Dating

my xwife needed me to come and get the kids early and that messed up my girlfriends plans for the day so she got mad at me and was very cold and hateful when she left she when and got with her sister and they went to a bar and she told me she was going over the phone and i ask her not to go witho me we are supppost to be getting married. she goes and flirts with some guys and shoots some pool calling me every now and then to let me know what shes doing she meets her (cussin) so she said and they act like there on a date so the guys in the bar would leave her alone. she said that he had got jumped on by these other guys so she was going to let him and her sister and her boyfriend follower her back home about 20 miles to give hime a stick so he could get even so he follows her back to her house and stays to about 2:30am. she says that she don't want our relationship any more but nothing happen with them 2. is she trying to hurt me for spite and did she cheat. i love her but i am confusse

2007-06-11 11:55:07 · 7 answers · asked by J.M.H. 1 in Singles & Dating