Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

I just seperated from a woman that I have been with for more than a year. But, I have known her for more than 3 years now. 6 Months ago she told me she was married but we would always be together either on the phone or physically. So I never questioned if she was or not.

Her husband found out about me because her phone rang and I picked up the phone a few months back. He didn't say anything to me, he wasn't upset nor shocked. But, now he is trying to win her back.

She told me the scary thing about their marriage is that she just stopped loving him and she doesn't know the reason why. It just stopped! Luckily there are no kids involved and they have been married for 3 years. She stopped loving him a year after that but they have known each other for so many years.

before all this, I send her flowers every week, write her letters, and talk to her about anything. But, now she needed some time to think and I decided to back away for a very long time!

2007-06-11 11:54:17 · 40 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and i have been married for 3 years now. she is disabled and no longer gets her money from the government because of the marriage. this makes it very difficult to pay the bills and put a little away for a rainy day.we have a thirteen year old boy and would like to be able to take him places and do things as a family but the money is too tight to be able to plan anything like this...we're talking about getting a divorce so we can get her money back. what is the best route to go remembering there's not much money to fork over for this situation..........please give input

2007-06-11 11:52:07 · 2 answers · asked by garyc1970 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 11:51:41 · 19 answers · asked by laciarlene89 3 in Singles & Dating

There was this guy at school whom I had a brief sexual realtionship with.We were laying about and talking and I told him how a few if HIS friends didn't like me and how one of them called me an outcast..he said you know what "You try to hard when you don't even have too"...how would you take something like that?

2007-06-11 11:48:26 · 13 answers · asked by Drea B 1 in Singles & Dating

my brother and me were really close (he is 21 and im 16). but for the past few years things have changed and we fight like crazy. and i think he has anger issues. and he always lowers my self esteem a lot. but i have never told him this because i was too scared i guess. then last night we got into a huge fight and then i sent a really nasty email to him and said how he took my self esteem away and how he has anger problems. today he is acting weird, like really guilty and feels bad about everything and he has had a headache all day. by sending this email i think i changed everything. i also sent him this link:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiiZ4tL1cBS4u.9K5fWQUnzsy6IX?qid=20070611003322AA2tVY8

it is a question that i posted on yahoo answers about his behavior. i dont even know if he read the email and saw the website but im sure whenever he sees it he will be hurt. the problem is i told him the truth about himself and it hurt him, and now i think i made a mistake.

2007-06-11 11:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by Sunshine 4 in Family

well..i'm going into a public high school next year for the first time and i'm kinda clueless in fashion. i shop at like ae, abercrombie, and hollister. what are some really popular clothes now? and what are some must haves? what jean brand is most popular???

2007-06-11 11:47:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a very bad relationship and to make a long story short I left him and when I did he had the ring and he gave it back to me I said no you keep it and he said no I bought it for you, you keep it. Now its about 6 months later and he is demanding it back. Do you think I should keep it (maybe trade it in for something for me) or give it back. This was a physical and very extremely verbal absive relationship.

2007-06-11 11:45:01 · 25 answers · asked by Jessie M 1 in Singles & Dating

he's seven and adorable.

2007-06-11 11:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by Sarizzle 1 in Family

You know those ones that are silver and go around your neck? My boyfriends mom laughed in front of my face because I had on his hooker beads! Should I be mad at her? Was that her way of saying I was a hooker? Someone help, because I need some clarity!

2007-06-11 11:42:40 · 3 answers · asked by auntbee_liciaheald_21 1 in Singles & Dating

i have green eyes brown hair.

2007-06-11 11:41:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, well me and him have been goin out for a month and we havnen't kissed yet, so I am deciding to make teh first move, how should i kiss him? I dont think hes ever kissed anyone before, and should i let him know, or just be sponatneous. oh yeah, and make-out or just kiss. any suggestions?

2007-06-11 11:40:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 11:39:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Buscemi


Many people pronounce it like
Boo Cem eee

We pronounce it like
Bu Shay Mee

Do people miss pronounce your familys last name?

2007-06-11 11:38:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband cheated on me about a year ago. I forgave him coz i didnt want to hurt myself by holding a grudge. It has taken me this long to make the decision to divorce him. I guess i just don't trust him. More than that i do not feel secure in our marriage becoz he put my life at risk when he had unprotected sex with her. And he still insisted on not using a condom for our greater intimacy even after the affair. Luckily we had always used condoms becoz i was not ready for kids. I'm in my 20s. i lost some respect for him. I just cannot see this man as the father of my future kids. So i decided divorce would be best for both of us, coz he can find someone to start fresh with. And i can find the man I'm truly passionate about whom i respect, admire and love. But it's so hard! I've told him about my decision, and he broke down. He said he won't get the chance to make it up to me now. We were both crying. I feel I'm losing my best friend and my husband!

2007-06-11 11:35:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy, and i think im being really clear that i have a cush on him, which is bad b/c i dont want him to find out...yet. so, what do you think makes it obvious that someone is interestd in you??

2007-06-11 11:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by BWaldorf 3 in Singles & Dating

on him being my fiance (KI). I was lead to a site about this and have found out that it could take up to a year for approval. Has any american citizen gotten married in Morocco and then applied for a VISA for their spouse to come to USA and if so was it easier than trying to get a VISA for approval for a fiance? Thanks for any help you can give me.

2007-06-11 11:33:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Personally I don't feel that way, I think there are more important things to marriage than sex,

2007-06-11 11:31:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My last name is Bones nd . . . of corse when i type it in on google images . . . pics of dead peeps come up!!! nd when i type it in on the internet i can never seem 2 find it. I know my family is from Irlend nd my great grand ma r sum1 like dat came over 2 america by herself when she was about 13 or 14 and worked as a maid never seeing her parents again. But thats like ALL!!! i know nd i think it would b rele intresting 2 learn more about my families history!!! sooo . . . if ur not doing nething else . . . COULD U PLZ!!!! TRY 2 FIND MY FAMILY TREE ME OR ATLEAST GIVE ME A GOOD WEBSITE TO FIND IT ON . . . PLZ???????
^^thanxxx lotzzz^^ huz n kissezzz >>>> **luvmehateme**

2007-06-11 11:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by Colleen! 2 in Family

we have been goin out for about a mounth and he says iam to boering she says i dont do stuff?? I mean we walk around talk kiss and all that but what else?

2007-06-11 11:23:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my wife dearly! However, whenever I even touch her breasts, she says they hurt, and pushes me away. If I try to gently rub her lower region, she pushes me away sometimes, saying I am too rough, but I cannot be any softer. I just don't know what to do, I have talked to her, and she just seem to think I need to be gentler, but I am being as gentle as I can, and I happen to like rough, and wild sex, so even though our sex is great ( no sex is bad) It isn't what I desire I guess. Looking for sex elsewhere is NOT an option, I am not like that, I am faithful, I just would like some of my desires met. Am I wrong for asking this? I just kinda feel let down in the sex department sometimes you know? The only thing we do is just the old in out in out, and maybe sometimes I can orally please her, yet I rarely ever get orally pleased myself. I think about her before myself, and I try to please her, but can't I have needs also, and how do I go about it? Thanks everyone

2007-06-11 11:22:44 · 25 answers · asked by ironman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

husbund does not want me to hang out with her. They used to be friends so he know how she is. I don't do what she does, we just go to the clubs together maybe once amonth. Im my own person and I know what I can or should'nt do when im out. He does't mind when I go out with other girls to the club so why does he not want me to go out with her.

2007-06-11 11:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do guys/girls get turned off from a girl when the girl is still a virgin and they want to have sex?

2007-06-11 11:16:06 · 34 answers · asked by allison 2 in Singles & Dating

As a young black man in white America, we can all agree that I am owed A LOT. Not just for my heroic survival of slavery, but also for my survival of slavery. What are some ways that this can be made up to me? Keep in mind that I am already rich, so I don't care about your little money. Also, I get plenty of hot young white girls so don't bother offering me them either, I already own them! So, does anybody have any ideas?

2007-06-11 11:14:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what my problem is. i cant stand my friends. lately...actually, for awhile now, i've felt that they dont really care about ME. all they ever do is talk about themselves. when i try to tell them my problems, they brush me off. If i like a guy, they call be paranoid and go on about themselves and their bf. then, when i needed my friend most (something happened in my family) i tried to call them, left them several texts, and they have yet to ask what was wrong. i cant talk to anyone about it but my mom! i've been super depresed and my friends dont know. whenever i see them, i put a smile on and act like a happy, carefree blonde. my mom's starting to worry about me, and i dont know what to do. is it time to call it quits, and get new friends? How do i make new friends? How do i let them know? I just want a true friend...

2007-06-11 11:07:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-11 10:53:18 · 8 answers · asked by mowsermae 3 in Family

Okay so this guy i think is really cute only we dont have any classes 2gether and but i know him from the class next 2 mine which is w/ 2 of myh close freinds...i really wantt us to work out...what kinda flirty stuff should i do

2007-06-11 10:53:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they want gender equality but when it comes to making money, they are horrible at it and expect the "man" to support them. Why don't women admit that gender equality is a myth ? If you all are so independent then be responsible for half your crap.
(oh and please show your immaturity with negative comments..it helps build my case)

2007-06-11 10:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by twarner81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 10:32:25 · 19 answers · asked by Antoine J 5 in Weddings

My friend has been faithfully married for 20 years, despite her husband 's frequent neglect and careless treatment. Recently, she had a brief emotional affair with another man. Of course, her husband found out. They are working now to rebuild their marriage. But she tells me that now he watches absolutely everything she does, checking her phone records, insisting on reading all emails, keeping close record on where she is at all times. Even though she can sympathize with him, she is going mad with the lack of privacy. Suggestions from anyone who has gone through this on how she can deal with this?
Also, he continually confronts her about whether she is still in love with the other man. She does still love him, but that relationship is over, and she is working steadily at her marriage. How to set her husband's mind at ease without tearing her heart apart any further?

2007-06-11 10:23:43 · 16 answers · asked by heaven eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Explain your feeling about it for me !
Thanx

2007-06-11 10:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by BMA 1 in Singles & Dating