virginity?

Question

do guys/girls get turned off from a girl when the girl is still a virgin and they want to have sex?

im 18 and even though i get crap from guys about being a virgin. i really like it and think its something worth saving for someone special. so thanks to the people who agree

Answer 1

Thank heavens....I was beginning to wonder if there was any one left out ther in answer land with any morels.....bless you .....and hang on to it until your married .....NOW HERE'S A GIRL WORTH SOME GOOD CLEAN GUY HAVING AS A WIFE ONE DAY ........... way to go ..... your a good girl and I'm proud of you......stay that Way and don't listen to anyone that tells you different.

Answer 2

Some guys wouldn't believe you if you told then you were a virgin waiting for marriage or something they would just think you are a prude or something. But if you are saving your self for someone special They will love you giving yourself to them for the first time.

Answer 3

Well, for one I don't think its completely terrible for someone to be a virgin. It you are with someone who genuinely cares for you and your relationship with them it shouldn't matter that you have no idea at all what so ever of what you are doing. Plus, if you think about it, virgins are better because they are typically STD free.

I dated a virgin. When we broke up it was extremely hard on them. It happens like that though... You share something special like that with someone and then you take it away... Its rough. Just be careful whatever you do or whatever someone else does to you. You need to not only protect your health but your heart as well.

Answer 4

I think guys are turned on that it's your first time..
I would wait to find a special person to share it with. You will remember that time for the rest of your life.. make it someone you love and care about so when you look back it's not a negative memory.

Answer 5

No. It seems like some guys still want to marry a virgin if they get the chance. After having a go at a couple of sluts.
I know some jerk who has a virging gf he cant wait to marry, yet he has a lot of hos on the side.

Answer 6

I think it turns guys on. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend that I'm with now and it's a special bond that you'll have with him forever. Being a virgin is a good thing...tight = good! in so many guys minds

Answer 7

Maybe I am missing something. In your part of the world are some people born who are not ever virgins?

If I am more experienced, and my lover is completely inexperienced, then I have a responsibility to let her decide what happens when, with gentle guidance and tuteledge.

By the way, having a dry erase board right next to your bed will help with the instruction!

In my case, I was always the less experienced, and the girl/woman was leading me. Maybe that is why I like women on top!

Answer 8

no, actually guys luv virgins!
if you go to college a virgin, they'll be all over you.
but careful, if you're in college and a lot of people know,
you'll end going to a party, getting drunk and then raped.
that's how much they want you.

i think being a virgin means you have respect for yourself.
don't blow that off.

Answer 9

Check out this My Space group ( Virgin to marriage crew) http://groups.myspace.com/xvtmcx

Answer 10

You are super smart to make such a wise decision...the guys you are dealing with are obviously are immature...and dont realize that sex confuses relationships../what they could be gaining is so much more than what sex has to offer...