Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

I work full time at a good job w/ good pay, excellent benefits, paid insurance (life and health), retirement plans, etc etc. I go to PSU for my BSN. I am engaged to a computer programmer. We are working to build r nestegg (im 21 hes 28) We just put a bid in on an apartment building. We were discussing buying a house. Its a 4 bdrm 2 bath (we want a family someday) we decided if we get the apartment building we wont go after the house right now. Hes european and has an apartment and car kept there for when we visit. (After were married we plan to spend alot of holidays there eventually hoping to buy a home there). I feel lucky and im happy. I don't thro these things in ppls faces bc i no i could lose all of it very quickly. (it isnt y i marry him either) i work very hard. he works very hard. everyone is happy for us except my one friend. when seh married she told me she was w/ him bc he had some money and credit. she has a good life. whats the problem? is it bc mine isnt just based on $?

2007-06-11 15:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 15:38:36 · 55 answers · asked by sammi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 15:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by hannah g 1 in Family

I live in South Orange County right now, which is basically the "nice" safe part. I don't live in a mansion or anything, but it's safe in the part of O.C. where I live. Well, I'm 21 and I mentioned to my parents I'm going to move out in 2 months. My Dad was extremely adament and almost yelling about how he's not going to let me move to L.A.,

The problem is I can't just "move out." i NEED a cosigner, and I could have my brother do it, but my parents are going to find out where I'm living!! It's not as simple as taking my stuff and dashing in the middle of the night.

How can I make my Dad more open to the idea of me moving to L.A.? (this will be the first time I've ever moved out-I'm only 21...so that in itself is jarring to him, and L.A. is like "scary" "shootings" "Danger Danger Danger" in his eyes.

We don't exactly communicate well as it IS, let alone when humongous issues like this have to be discussed.

2007-06-11 15:38:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He needs a checkup and a pacemaker check ++++
I live 200 miles away and my sister who is local to him refuses
to arrange or transport. I saw him Sunday and he signed permission for me to intervene in addition to my sister in writing

But now what????
I cant drive him at 400 miles r/trip
I have no idea how to set up appts !

2007-06-11 15:35:53 · 6 answers · asked by fred6636 2 in Family

I mean lets just say you know the girl has interest in you however she keeps giving hints about having a boyfriend without me ever asking or mentioning if she had a bf. Does she just want to be truthful and upfront or is she playing games and wants me to chase her? Again this girl does have interest in me and isn't telling me she has a bf to push me away from her...

2007-06-11 15:27:23 · 13 answers · asked by ♫ I just crush alot ♫ 2 in Singles & Dating

a less fortunate, faithful spouse who loves you?

It all comes down to financial or emotional security. Which would you prefer?

2007-06-11 15:23:48 · 29 answers · asked by StarPower 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or anybody else's, for that matter...don't read them or respond like it's bothering you. You open that question, you know what's coming. And some of us find it slightly amusing. That isn't a question, but rather a request to quit complaining. Here's a question...can you acquire a sense of humor or once bland, always bland?

2007-06-11 15:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by Luvitall 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okk, so me and my boyfriend were great in the begening of High School, I matured a lot and he didn't. We fight at least once of twice a day. I'm giving him the summer to change. I told we should break up and start where we left off when school starts. I once thought that I wanted to live my life with him, but his imaturity ruined it. I know he can have it back if he were on the same level. He made a pack to break up if he fights or we get in a fight tomarrow. I really need a break from this stupid stuff again, how can I get him mad???
Really Mad?

2007-06-11 15:13:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boy anthony that i work with we always used to talk and we used to flirt to. but now that he is married he is acting weird when ever i see him he looks so depressed. and he doesnt talk to me anymore. he talks to everyone else. and i was even crying today and he didnt even come up today and ask if i was alright like he used to do.

2007-06-11 15:12:07 · 7 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

just to get a lot of answers? i have seen some really stupid questions on here [like this one].

2007-06-11 15:11:09 · 21 answers · asked by don 6 in Singles & Dating

people think a naked woman automatically meand p0rn. as a photographer, i look at this picture and say it is incredible art. Yes, shes naked, but the naked body is captured artistically and not pornographically or s3xual. I think this is an appreciable picture and is not innapropriate whatsoever. It starts from the center and goes out, which is a sign of art. The naked body captures your attention, but then you notice colors and the water effect. Its not just a naked body. agree or disagree?

http://img252.imageshack.us/img252/5742/89947amandabeardadultswig7.jpg

2007-06-11 15:08:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 15:04:58 · 45 answers · asked by Mz Ruiz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some signs that he likes me, he is the shy type.

2007-06-11 14:57:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would it be okay just to walk up to a girl who I find acttractive and say "I find you attractive, and I would like to get to know you..." ?

Because I know very few girls at the moment, and have no means of meeting any of them. I won't use an internet dating service, and I have no car... no money... but I'm not a bumb, I'm young enough for these things to be okay.

I have had no problem talking to girls in the past, but I have depleted my supply... (not to sound disrepsectful...)

2007-06-11 14:57:00 · 18 answers · asked by Roxasbhk 2 in Singles & Dating

I am sophmore in high school. I don't want a boyfriend, because you won't get serious. I have other priorities other than guys. Everyone gets up in my face about it. I am sorry I don't wanna waste my time on something that won't work. Why does everybody care?

2007-06-11 14:56:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dream wedding is to rent a house in orange county california somewhere with a rather large backyard for my wedding. There would be at least 150 guests. What are the requirements? Do i have to alert the city, the neighbors, would parking be a problem? Please someone advise. Thanks! Michelle

2007-06-11 14:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

here is my ultrasound photo at 18 weeks l was told its a girl, in my second scan l asked them to have a nother look at the gender l was told it looks like a girl but it might be a boy cuz the area between legs is tucked in, will love to hear from other mothers or sonographer cant wait to hear from you guys, thanks heaps.ah sorry here is the photo
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z202/reemon60/Picture546-1.jpg
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z202/reemon60/Picture546.jpg

2007-06-11 14:56:01 · 3 answers · asked by tara h 1 in Singles & Dating

today when i was working in a chip shop A girl came with a costmer ,i noticed her jeans ZIP was open and some people were looking at her ,i felt very bad i couldnt decide to tell her or leave it ,but finaly i took a long breath and i told her secretly,and she done it but i felt that i think she didnt like what i told her or she was a embarased i could tell from her face and this guilt is killing me .Can you tell me did i do wrong or right .. many thanks

2007-06-11 14:47:55 · 13 answers · asked by mmyy sseellff 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 14:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was group of about 8 of us that were having an early monring meeting that we thought was going to have coffee. When it didn't I said I need some coffee so a guy said "Do you want to get some coffee?" Then we went and he paid, is that considered a date or just hanging out?

2007-06-11 14:36:29 · 9 answers · asked by Elisabeth H 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean when a man comes home from work and his wife hugs him and tells him "I love you" etc-etc and then spends time talking to him, asking him how his day was etc-etc, do men like this type of "care and attention?" Yes/No. WHY or WHY NOT?
How do men want their wives to care for them when they come home from work?

2007-06-11 14:33:13 · 19 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is Muslim and we have been debating about sex only being for procreation. We love each other very much and I want to marry him and have babies with him. He has been very evasive about the whole procreation debate and I don't understand what the Quran says...could anyone explain that please??

2007-06-11 14:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by Deb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She hates my other friends, lies to me, and more. But whenever I even mention that she is mean to me, she gets even meaner and threatens me. I can't get out of this friendship!

2007-06-11 14:22:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My so called friend is trying to steal my boyfriend. She always does this to me. I liked this one guy for a really long time & she sat next to him so every day she would flirt with him on purpose because she knew I liked him. Now I have the most amazing boyfriend ever & she is doing the same thing she did with the last guy! What should I do?

2007-06-11 14:21:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of older women dating younger men? Anywhere from a year to ten years younger. Think it's okay? How many are in relationships like that?

2007-06-11 14:18:53 · 4 answers · asked by freedove06 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been on two dates with a guy. Already he is talking a lot about how he is looking to get married and have kids. He talks about what he wants in a wife, and even talks about what he wants his kids to look like and if he wants a boy or a girl, etc. He also asks me what I'm looking for. And when I said I don't think I'll be ready for marriage until a couple years, he said "Maybe I'll come back for you in a couple years then." He also talks about why he would be a good husband.

Do you think he is really wanting to get married? Does it sound like he wants to marry me?

PS He's 29.

2007-06-11 14:18:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a really hot wife she is from bombay india i want to please her and i know all the tricks when we do have sex i can only go for maybe 10 minuets but when we are doin our thing she loves it i always say to her lets have a quickie and she makes herself ***. wut can i do to get the length of our sessions longer? the sex is good and my procedure is good just the length can any one please help me?

2007-06-11 14:15:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If yes, what makes you so sure?
If no, Why?
I truly believe I am married to mine.

2007-06-11 14:11:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so guys how often do you like to see your girlfriend??? Im just really wondering!!

2007-06-11 14:09:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating