My friend is really mean and I don't want to be her friend anymore.?

Question

She hates my other friends, lies to me, and more. But whenever I even mention that she is mean to me, she gets even meaner and threatens me. I can't get out of this friendship!

Answer 1

Defy her threats once to see if her threats are empty.

If they're not, tell your parents or complain to her parents. Threatening is not like ordinary bullying. It's a punishable offense. This is a serious case. Don't think complaining to your or her folks is childish. It is what you must do. A true friend corrects you when you go wrong. Your role is to correct her. If there is no change, tell the police, it's the only way. Some time at the Juvenile home should help her.

If her threats are empty after all, do this:
Anyone who lies to you and can't get along with the rest of your bunch cannot be called a 'friend'. Just say, "Look, you've been too bad to me and the rest of my pals. I'm very disappointed in you. I feel very sorry that you turned out to be like this" and walk away. This will make her feel sorry. Make sure you tell others to stay away from her too. A bit of loneliness can knock into anybody that they're doing something people don't like. She WILL change.

Answer 2

You don't deserve that kind of treatment from anyone, and I don't think anyone who would do those things to you could be considered a friend. I would just suggest giving her a wide berth. It sounds like she is a lot of drama, and life is too short for drama. If you are going to tell her that you don't want to be friends anymore, make sure you have someone with you so that they can be a witness if she does threaten you.

good luck

Answer 3

tell her right this moment as much as stay faraway from you and if she does not or if she tries to touch you're saying you will call the law enforcement officers on her. She's probable basically being like this in view which you do no longer stick up for your self as much as you ought to. you ought to start. sturdy success! :)

Answer 4

There could be more than one reason why she is that way, but first, one question..."Has she always been that way?" If so, it just might be time to become aquaintances, you know, hi, bye, type of relationship. If not and she has just change her behavior recently, than there may be something else that is bothering her and she is taking out on you, and you might want to ask her point blank, plain and simple, "What's Up With YOU?" and than wait and see if she gives you an honest answer. If she is a truly "real friend" she will be honest with you and if it is time to end the relationship, it is time, but definately don't put up with the Abuse!!
Much LUV!!

Answer 5

just tell her that u dont want to be her friend if she is going to act like that but befor u do that make sure that u are redy to end this friendship and if u dont want to not be her friend than maby u should ask her what is wrong and ask her what she is feeling then u dont halp to lose a friend

Good luck

Answer 6

talk to her about it. If she doesn't listen, she's not worth being friends with. If she threatens you than put your foot own, tell her you're not going to be threatened or stepped over the way.

Answer 7

Sit down and talk to her about the issue to get her views on the issue at hand and then take action from there, as to where the friendship can and will go.

Answer 8

You need to go to a school counselor or a principal........maybe consider getting a restraining order against this friend.

Answer 9

Does she have problems?
will i would not want to be hurt all the time......
but of couse i am buff
jk
i had a friend who did that to me and now we just say hi in the halls
but y would a friend hit you?
bye bye
good luck