Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

2007-06-11 19:48:06 · 14 answers · asked by Cherno C 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so every time I talk to a male via my MySpace e-mail, my husband gets really upset acting, as if for no reason, and says things like, "I bet you're chatting to guys online". These guys are just old friends, or if they are ex's, they are either guys I was friends with for a long time also, or I want to rub it in their face that I got married. But the main thing here is, HOW IS HE CHECKING MY E-MAIL? He doesn't know my password, which I constantly change anyway, to discourage spammers. Could he have some sort of "parental control" or "master operator" thing going, where he doesn't need my password to check my accounts? How can I disable this? I don't read HIS e-mails, number one because I don't know how, but number two, because it's his private correspondence, and not my business. Please, no advice on the larger issue here of why is he being a crapsack and snooping around in my e-mail. Someone just tell me how he's doing it, please.

2007-06-11 19:46:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when your ex-bf tell you that he wants a "break", then clarifies a week later that it is a "break up", then clarifies "he might want to meet other girs", then calls u drunk and says he wants to get back together, only to "forget" what he said the next day...BUT he calls everyday and says he wants to see you (me) (we live 3.5 hrs away)?

p.s. I thought he was the one
p.p.s. he claims he wants me to have his children...
p.p.p.s. I'm heartbroken, and feel like my entire future has been ripped from underneath me

2007-06-11 19:45:24 · 22 answers · asked by zz 4 in Singles & Dating

found your mom standing out on the corner for money? what should i do?

2007-06-11 19:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in such situation. Pls help me. My father is very much conservative and giving threat to commit suicide if i marry my gf. He is denying becoz she is having diabetes and she is lower in education than me. I love my family very much.
And as i know my fathers nature, he does what he says. Right now, i and her are mutually agreed to not to go ahead. She is very understanding gal.We are friend now.

2007-06-11 19:40:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband likes me to get rough with him when we are having you know what. He likes me slap him and punch him during, It really turns him on. My bestfriend says he may have r@pe fantasies, should I be worried?

2007-06-11 19:40:18 · 27 answers · asked by misswannano 2 in Marriage & Divorce

can two platonic male and female roommates shower together in interest of conservation?

2007-06-11 19:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So, I know this may seem really shallow but I was talking with some friends of mine and they said that since my friend asked me to take a trip with him that he should pay. I dont know how I feel about this since he has a child and has bills to pay. They said that that wasnt my problem and I that if he asked me to go the bill should be on him or I shouldnt go because he will expect something. We used to date in highschool and broke up for dumb reasons but now that we are older (7 years) things have changed and we are mature now. I like him a lot and we absolutely have chemistry. Everytime we go out he pays so I am not sure on how to ask him how we would do things?

Please no mean or negative responses...just wanted to see what others would think.

2007-06-11 19:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a responsible woman with sound health and fair personality, can i found a good match?

2007-06-11 19:34:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband's family is having a reunion in 3 wks. Over the last 20 years my husband has been disabled and unable to work. I have worked two jobs and established a nice home for us. This does not leave much for extras. In that time his family did nothing to support us, some of them not even a phone call or a "can we help." I want to take him back to see his roots but costs are exhorbitant. I feel so guilty by not going and yet recognize that we have been "abandoned" for a long time by these people with the exception of two sister in laws (married to his brothers) who keep in touch. Should we go and see his family one last time or stay home and save for a cruise of something we would both enjoy. I feel like a B****. Help me....please.aaaaagggghhhh

2007-06-11 19:31:07 · 4 answers · asked by yellowskiing 2 in Family

its my boyfriends birthday on the weekend, and since we live together, we pretty much have everything we need, but i'd like to get him a nice jacket, since winter is coming on.
any places in brisbane that sell really nice jackets. he is 24.

2007-06-11 19:30:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 19:30:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 19:29:56 · 8 answers · asked by sheena jones 1 in Singles & Dating

i want a divorce but i dont know how to tell my hubby of 3 year help me plz

2007-06-11 19:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by joshygirl_692000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's a long story.... But I'll try to give it the Readers Digest treatment...

1. Daughter lived in another state, got pregnant, boyfriend left her, moved back home and had baby #1.
2. Lived at home for 2 years, she got a good job, wife and I helped raise granddaughter. Gave daughter 6 months to save money to get a place of her own. We told her to save as much as she could and that we didn’t want rent or anything, so she could max out saving.
3. Six months pass, daughter didn’t attempt to save money, told to start paying $300.00 per month to cover expenses for utilities, food, etc. Daughter agreed to pay but was usually late paying and complained a lot about paying the $300.00.
4. Tensions got high off / on about raising granddaughter, meal preps, her $300.00 rent, etc.
5. Daughter meets guy, gets pregnant again and gets wife to side with her to let him move in. This is because daughter says she doesn’t want to be alone for this pregnancy. Husband foolishly caves in to request.
6. Six months into pregnancy they get married, but still live with us.
7. Second grandchild born brought into my home, and parents aren’t saving money.
8. Husband has had it and tells wife, the daughter, her husband and the two grandkids leave by the end of 8 months (or he does), that gives them almost a year to save.
9. Son in laws parents let them move into one of his rental houses. They’ve lived there almost a year. But now they’re getting a divorce and she wants to move back home.
10. Now looking at this brief history, what would you do? I mean I really and truly love my daughter and my grandchildren, but past experiences don’t exactly salt my fries, if you know what I mean.

Please, give me some pointers or ideas. Thanks to all who answer this tough one

2007-06-11 19:24:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had problems with my car, took it to the dealrship, they wanted money up front just for inspection even though my car was covered under warranty. They quoted the repars at thousands and I was devastated.

I brought it to another dealership, the service guy was sympathetic and friendly. He took the car in the same day, gave me a loaner & fixed the problem. He even went as far as to fix all the things that I didn't complain about. He said it was all covered under warranty and he charged less than $200.

While I was talking to him, he kind of blushed when he mixed up his words and he did a double take when I brought the car in.

I picked up the car while he was gone, and he left a message the next day. He said I must've picked up the car after he got off work, he was checking up on the repars and to bring it back if there are any problems, he also added "take care of yourself and I'll see you next time you come in".

Was he flirting or is this good service -what are the signs?

2007-06-11 19:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

through Yahoo Answers. I'm not saying anybody is. But, you can never be too careful on here. I've never used my real name, never given my location. I'll say my age, but there are a million people in my age with my name. But, do you think people can find out who and where you are. I don't let people contact me through e-mail.

What do you think? You can never be too careful online.

2007-06-11 19:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 19:17:41 · 11 answers · asked by hey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

wen she says she feels fat you say:::::

a> "well you do look a little bigger"
b> "your crazy !.........i actually thought you lost your weight"
c> 'i know the feelings...how about we take up kickboxing
together????????"

2007-06-11 19:15:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i got 1 gold 3 silvers my family is very very happy about me
and i.m happy myself to and thank you for answer this ok? see
ya

2007-06-11 19:15:09 · 2 answers · asked by johnnycagedapp1987 2 in Friends

Recently my daughter (18mos.) has pulled a Tyson (bit) my younger half brother several times. This last time my mother was very angry and refered to my daughter as a "savage." I was so angry!! But what suprises me is that my daughter has never taken a bit out of her other playmates. She plays well w/ her older and younger cousins and w/ my other toddler brother (father's son). So why does my daughter only bit my older brother? Also, everytime we both go to my mother's my brother is on her case constantly, raising his voice and always being negative towards her. Demanding that she leave everything alone, and don't touch that, and don't get this..... I feel like bitting him myself. Should I stay away from my mom, and demand that if she wants to see my daughter she can come to my house???

Please Help, Thanks!!!

2007-06-11 19:10:52 · 9 answers · asked by Don't play w/ me 1 in Family

Well right now I realy want to go to Warped Tour. My dad will let me but he kind of doesent like teh music so he makes fun of me. He wants to take me to Ozzfest. I like Ozzfest but I have never been to Warped and I have been wanting to go for a long time now. But the thing is he got a few beers in him and we were outside and he started sayin that its retard music in front of his friends and caling me a retard. I just walk in and locked myself in my room. Later he comes and trys to tell me that he gives me everything I could ever want. How he is just trying to give me a better life than his. How he works hard. But I know that. The thing that bothers me is when he starts making fun of me. Or he will call me cuss words out of nowhere. But then he tells me he loves me I know he does. But then he brought up my best gilfriend calling her an idiot because she didnt get out out of the street when we were driving by. It ticked me off since I care for her to just hear him sayit.what shall i do?

2007-06-11 19:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 19:01:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we are always confused in case of personal or external relationships.sometimes I feel everydbody is good & the other time I feel they are bad.Is because of human behaviour or something else?how to judge a person?

2007-06-11 18:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by laxmi v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are very good parents. We have a young child who is growing up smart, capable and confident. We both adore the child and the child adores us.
My husband and I are also very good roommates. We have a good division of household labor, a compatible arrangement of schedules so we can both work and take care of our child with minimal outside child care, and an efficient way of having conversations to plan things and get things done.
But after we put our child to bed every night, he falls asleep in front of the TV. I go to bed alone.
In a recent conversation, he said, "I'm sorry I disappoint you, but I'm doing the best I can." I interpret this to mean he isn't interested in any changes. We have been married over 20 years. The gradual disappearance of physical affection began a long time ago. I'm not sure physical affection is what I want anymore. I've grown used to having quiet, solitary evenings while he snoozes.
Is this a marriage or just an organized household?

2007-06-11 18:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Red 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 18:56:37 · 3 answers · asked by honeybee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 18:54:24 · 14 answers · asked by Boogie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A big conversation went on at work about age. I stayed quiet. Somebody blurts out to me "how old are you"? I said 25. I'm the youngest one to work at this corporate company(at least in my department). They needed people to work on a Saturday and said it was ok to bring your kids. So I did it and brought my kids. All three of them. They are 10yrs,3yrs, and 5 months. Somebody was like your daughter is big. How old is she? I told them 10. They were like I thought you were 25? I said I am. They had a look on their face like it was hard math and they said OH you were a REAL young mom weren't you?...... Duh ppl. There was a group of ppl around and they looked at each other. I feel like I was being judged at that moment. I have always worked to take care of my kids. I'm married. I have owned my own home for 5 yrs. Do you think I was being judged or am I just being paranoid?

2007-06-11 18:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by thinkinkat1234 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I sometimes get in these moods where everything that comes out of my mouth is negative. I don't make much friends because i'm different in some kind of way. I always try to enjoy life but nothing makes me happy. I'm always serious and quiet so i don't try to bother anyone or get myself embarassed. I ask God for help but i don't get much answers. I feel like i can't trust anybody. Not even my parents. I'm so lonely and don't know who can help me in life. I'm always asking myself why i exist in life if it's only to suffer and hide from people who don't understand me. If only i can get some type of answer from God.

2007-06-11 18:41:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She has picked up smoking and hanging out with other girls that their parents don't care if they sleep over at their boyfriends all weekend. But, her home life is really great she just wants to believe that its the worst, like her friends lives. We gave up the option of me working so I could be a stay at home mom and raise them right. She feels we dont hear her or care for her feelings. When that is so far from the truth. Help and very concerned dad and mom.
Thank you any answers could hold a little glimmer of hope. If not for us maybe some other family with our same problem.

2007-06-11 18:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family