I'm really lost in life. I feel like no one loves me. What should i do?

Question

I sometimes get in these moods where everything that comes out of my mouth is negative. I don't make much friends because i'm different in some kind of way. I always try to enjoy life but nothing makes me happy. I'm always serious and quiet so i don't try to bother anyone or get myself embarassed. I ask God for help but i don't get much answers. I feel like i can't trust anybody. Not even my parents. I'm so lonely and don't know who can help me in life. I'm always asking myself why i exist in life if it's only to suffer and hide from people who don't understand me. If only i can get some type of answer from God.

Answer 1

God works in mysterious ways-and he has the ultimate love-yet you got to be found and hook up to His love

this is how I hooked up to Jesus love as a Jew=according to Jesus the Word of God made flesh (John 1:1&14) "Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word of God." Romans 11:17
If ones faith is in anything else they are trusting in error and will fail
this is what brought me as a Jew to the true faith in Jesus my savior best friend and joy and inner peace of my life and heavens promise too!=may I suggest true love that never ends and gets better every day-worked for me to come to true faith &=Love is the salutation of the angel to the stars.
For God so loved the world, He gave His only begotten son, that whoever believes in him wont go to hell tormented forever perised from God, but have the more abundant and everlasting life. John 3 & 10 and dont forget
Revelation 3:19&20 Jesus saith "I love you and ask you to repent from your sins (even one lie) and ask me in to be your friend."

how I got this true love that lasts-I prayed "Jesus thank you that you love me unconditionally, I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."

Revelation is a key -and Romans 1 said when we are unthankful and chose to worship the created instead of the creator-we need a new beginning in our life.

praying for you to find the true faith too, in amazing grace that saved me. David

Answer 2

These are some of the symptoms I have had throughout my life. I have been diagnosed with social anxiety disorder. I also struggle with depression. I have found a couple of things help:
1. Learn more about yourself by taking a personality inventory. I like the book, Please Understand Me II. You can get it at just about any bookstore. You may find you have a melancholy personality type, but the descriptions can help you see the positive aspects of how your brain thinks.

2. God does answer prayer, but God also gave us the Bible to learn more about who he is and how we can deal with life situations. I would suggest reading the book of John first--then perhaps Colossians or 1 John.

3. You didn't really say if you have any hobbies or activities. Many times finding some kind of physical activity really helps. Exercise releases endorphines, which improve moods. If you have had these symptoms for more than 6 months, you may want to make an appointment with a doctor or psychologist for some help in dealing with depression.

Hang in there!! Jesus loves you--he even died and rose again for you. I'll join you in praying for God to answer your plea for friendship and joy.

Answer 3

I am sure somone loves you.. The first one who should love you is you urself! Remember that.. Does not matter wht others have to say or think about you. As long as you love urself you will be happy! Keep praying to god. The reply isnt far away. Do not give up hope. And enjoy ur life to the fullest. You are passing by each day with no happiness and take note you cant rewind time... So Just make sure everyday is made full use of.. And happiness will be ur shadow....

Answer 4

If you want to know what God says, get your self a New Living translation of the Holy Bible it is written in plain modern English. Read it for your self.

Treat others as you would like to be treated, no matter what they act like. Do something for someone else with out expecting anything in return. Be kind, giving, loving, forgiving patient and kind to every one you meet. You will like yourself and other people will just naturally like you. If some one doesn't like you leave them behind you don't need them anyway.

You would be surprised to know there a lot of people who feel that they don't fit in anywhere. You don't have to fit in to do good things. Happiness is a choice not a gift from others. You can choose to be happy. Don't worry about what you think other people think of you, what's important is what you know is true about yourself, so start doing good things and happiness and everything else will be added to you.

Only you can change what you are doing and how you feel. Feelings are a choice. You are in control of them no one else. That is a life lesson that will benefit you the rest of your life, you own your own feelings.

Answer 5

Hopelessness is a very real feeling that many of us experience others much deeper than others, you are not alone..Loniliness we create you isolate yourself from the outside world because you feel and think if your family and loved ones cant understand you why would the outside world understand who you really are..

This and many things you will continue to fight intermally and externally..l have been in this place and it was so hard l wanted to give up and asked God to just end my life because there was no hope all l saw day in day out is darkness the people most close to me never saw me go under they though it was by choice yet l had energy for life before..You are the only one who can change this state you are in right now...the best way l know how is to continue to have faith in god especially when it seems worse thats is when things are usually about to change you have to equip yourself with God's word..find a pastor on TV or a local church where you can commit too.. and one who inspires you..for me TD Jakes worked well for me to date..l watched him everyday in that moment of despair and God used him am what lm because of his word...You will have moments you dont want to even believe God is Love or he cares you will continually struggle with this until he finds it fit to reveal your purpose that is what we all search for..so you have to look to him..step by step let him know you are searching for him...he will find you..

May God's peace find you

Answer 6

Dude, I've felt like that sometimes. i know the feeling. But like his last girl says...there's always someone there that loves you. Maybe you don't feel that even from your parents because maybe you don't let them in? try, they're always gonna love you no matter what.
As far as God goes.....I'm a strong believer. I've learned that he does have a purpose for everyone. He wants us to be happy he cares...If you ever get a chance to talk to a Jehovah's Witness do it. That's the best advice I can give. There's so much out there...

Answer 7

Get out of your comfort zone! Sittin' there and wait for God's answers will not help you at all! God is there to protect you, if only you know how to protect yourself. By just depending on God instead of your own, that is not what I call life. You seriously gotta leave your comfort zone behind as there are many other things out there for you to discover and face with! Life is a journey, where obstacles lurk everywhere. Like it or not, we gotta go through such journey since we are living in this planet! Do not give up easily just because you feel that life is not perfect as you expected it to be. Life will never be perfect, and there will be no one out there that is perfect. Only God that guide us through our journey is the ONE that I consider as perfect. Socialise frequently, get to know more friends, learn to trust others as they deserve to gain your trust for they did not betray you or backstab you all the time. God will not help you if you do not have the effort and courage to help yourself! As for your temper problem, I suggest you to control them and must not spit acidic and negative words to others. This will DEFINITELY give them a bad impression towards you. So, good luck in changing yourself today to be a better person tomorrow.

Answer 8

U should talk to Jaymee from ''i just need some kind words'' u two sound like ur having the same feelings . maybe it's a wound from something that once happened ? if u feel u can't trust anyone then how will ur problem be fixed u should open up more to people around you at least try too.

Answer 9

God helps those who help themselves, friend.
And the first way you can help yourself is, admit that you have a problem at the moment and seek help from a professional. It sounds as if you'd benefit from having a conversation or two with a psychologist. There's medicine that can help you get through this (up to 50% of all depressions stem from biochemical issues corrected by medicine.) And the psychologist is a friendly face you can count on to actually give you answers.

Answer 10

u just need to realize that u are loved, by god and that just because he cant instanlty fix all ur problems, that doenst mean he doenst love u i would also try and break out of your shell, try and make friends and when u start to feel like this talk to those friends and i bet u wont feel so alone, and dont worry u will meet someone who appreciates u, there is someone special out there for everyone, how can anyone help u if u keep it all inside let it out talk to people continue to pray, i think this is just a temporary feeling u will be fine
Good luck