Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

You decide to return to school full time to change careers, and you will work full time while completing the program. You talk it over with your spouse, and they say they will be supportive.

If you are the one returning to school, what do you expect from your supportive spouse? If you are the one who agrees to be supportive, how will you be supportive?

2007-06-11 02:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by Pink Denial 6 in Marriage & Divorce

One day we were just walking along and he just asked if i had a boyfriend.no other conversation,just this question.
.Teases me about this guy and tell me when this guys been flirting with me.
.We talk a bit about similar interests.
.I told him something unimportant and when he asked me about it a few weeks later,i didn't know what he was talking about until he reminded me.
.he's always asking me which music,movies i like and don't like.
i actually like someone else.but am curious to know if theres anything there.

2007-06-11 02:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever i catch him with a woman it becomes a great problem am turned into a boxing bag i feel so bitter and so confused plz advice

2007-06-11 02:28:35 · 33 answers · asked by ma pi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was on my bussiness trip to europe and australia for a couple of month.and my fiance is livin in Paris.im livin L.A.her parents home is in L.A.So L.A is our homebase.The last time we met is on March. When i went to Paris to see her for 2 nite and also for my job.She have a apartment there,and that nite,she wanted me to stay there.But my client,already gave me a free night on a great hotel,and i told him okay,When my fiance knew about that,she is really mad!and im tryin to explain to her.We've a fight on that nite!i left her in her aprtment.I felt so guilty!In the next mornin ,i flied to Rome,and started my buss.trip.Because of that things,for this couple of month we didnt really have a good conversation.Last week i came back home to L.A and so does she.We still dont talk too much,while we hang in the same spot and the same friends.
What should i do?
HELP ME!
in the next 2 month we're goin to the altar

2007-06-11 02:24:06 · 3 answers · asked by PARTTIMEROCKER 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a 21 year old guy and he became friends with my 7 year old son. Then one night he, out of nowhere, kissed me. And then we had sex. The thing is I'm 36. Is it ok to date such a younger guy?

2007-06-11 02:22:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would be some good songs to include in a slideshow we are making for everyone?

2007-06-11 02:21:19 · 17 answers · asked by heathermichelle9 5 in Friends

I am just curious, does MA recognize common law marriage. I haven't been able to find out any thing on the .gov websites.

2007-06-11 02:18:37 · 7 answers · asked by New England Babe 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My 2 best friends are kind of leaving me out all the time, even when we hang out. i love them, but they are really confusing me. we used to be so close, but im just drifting. i know this sounds stupid but i used to be 1st and second on both of their myspaces, now im ten, or not even on it! i think their mad or something. HELP!

2007-06-11 02:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

AND You have never dated nor seen each other for a year...

2007-06-11 02:17:42 · 4 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My (almost 3 year old) daughter was the flower girl in my brother`s wedding last week and everyone thought she was adorable..we tried to teach her to drop the pedals, but she ended up picking them up instead! Other than that (and it was really more cute than anything), I thought she did an excellent job. She didn`t scream or cry for one thing. Some of my relatives complained that she was "stealing the show" and distracting everyone from the wedding vows as she kept accidentaly dropping the pedals and picking them up again. I left her alone, as she was being quiet and at least had something to do to keep her busy! My aunt told me I should have gone up there and snatched her out of the spotlight. My brother and SIL really didn`t even notice. Wouldn`t it have even been more distracting for me to snatch her away (probalby would have really made her kick and scream!)?

2007-06-11 02:16:07 · 26 answers · asked by Smiley 6 in Weddings

please help me figure this out. my husband of 9 months has been constantly moody for the last 6 months. he has a chip on his shoulder and says that it isn't me and maybe he needs to change jobs. but i can't help but take it personally when we don't een have sex anymore. when i try to initalte it i get turned down. i have even tried to be understanding, upbeat, very positive, come home make dinner, and keep the house nice... i didn't know how bad this was hurting my selfesteeme until i dyed my hair yesterday in hopes of attracting him more. the women he gives "double takes" to have dark hair. when i tried t o initiate some physical activity he continued to play solitare! i have steadily started t ogain weight (15 lbs) over the last 6 months b/c of this, i was an active, out going indep. women before i got married... not i am an emotion self consious mess.. we are sleeping in seperate rooms now after i told him all of this and how i was feeling last night after the solitare incident...

2007-06-11 02:02:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sorry, I know I will get yelled at for this one by all those of you who have gotten 'promise rings' but to me they are BS! I mean if you are in high school or even in college a promise ring is cool but once you are an adult...say late 20's, early 30's, promise rings are a waste of money. Give me an engagement ring...fk a promise. Promise to marry me...someday....LMAO! I don't think so. Does anyone agree that promise rings are for puppy love? To me, it doesn't make sense to give a promise ring to someone you been in a relationship for 7 years and are going into your 30's and have kids together. Is this just a way for the men to keep the women happy and quiet? Trick her into thinking you are going to marry her with some promise ring? "Yes, I love you but instead of an engagement ring, I'm giving you this promise ring so that you know that I promise to one day marry you" HA HA! BTW ~ I am not the one who got a promise ring, a few of my friends have gotten them.

2007-06-11 01:58:43 · 25 answers · asked by SexyMommy2B 4 in Weddings

My ex was nice,warm,caring,nurturing,compassionet and loving woman i had ever met. We went through a non contested divorce,i gave her everything she wanted.She wanted the divorce,not me.I wanted to work it out and seek counseling etc. But she just wanted out,i think she had been planning it for some time looking back.The papers are signed,i moved out and she has turned into this cold,mean,bit..ch. I don't understand why she has to be this way,we never argued about anything,i just gave her what she wanted dispite how much it hurt me.I wanted her to be happy.I was hoping we could remain friends at some level but its like she never existed.Is this her way of dealing with divorce even though she wanted it.Im confused as to why she has turned against me.Im a nice guy and she knows it.Is this some kinda pay back to make herself feel good. She seems so evil now

2007-06-11 01:56:03 · 17 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so what do u girls want to see in a guy
i mean im a good listener ,always respected girls,never hit a girl in my life,i had 3 girlfriends in middle school but i didn't get any my freshman high school year ,can u ladies hepl?

2007-06-11 01:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 24 honest and sincere guy from India. Unfortunately/ or what but I made a heart's relationship with a girl Sherry from US who works for the company I used to work but after few months she left me because she opted for some one there who is rich then me, she thinks that its common, may be in US people don't have real heart but I loved more than that I cared her heartly and still I am caring her. When I said I can't go away from here she takes professional help and try to hurt me, when CEO of that company who lives in Canada supporting her and warn me he would file a case, but my side story is completely different. I told here I am not against her she can marry any number of people and she can have any relationship with any one but just let me "Care you for lifetime" but she doesn't agree and punishing me continuously, so I also want to file a legal case against her. I don't want to punish her but I want her back or else I may die, please help me and save a valuable life of me

2007-06-11 01:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by Vision4heart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a rather large family for my age; but I can provide for them as I earn good money.

Whenever I am at general meeting and I get talking to women, when I tell them I have eight kids they seem to split out whatever is in their mouth. Would it shock you? I know I started a little too early but my wife was good with children so I got a lot of time to study.

Am I one of my kind or do you get people like me?

2007-06-11 01:43:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

actually i lived in kolkata for 16 yrs and had great friends there both boys and girls . they were modern , cool and were sort of like a gang , even a few turned out to like bros and sis but then i had to shift to chennai, now i am studying at gil adarsh but have'nt found anyone who coulds be a good friend to just hang out with or who clicks with me i need a group of friends who like music all styles from metal to rap, can speak english and hindi(cause i don't know tamil), watch movies both hollywood and bollywood be a little mordern and not too over religious and don't spend a lot of their fathers money to show off but be frinds cause they gotta a bond to be good friends if not best, so if you think you are upto make a stranger your friend answer this i' ll get in touch with you
PLS(i need only friends and must be 17 or 18.)

2007-06-11 01:41:56 · 3 answers · asked by samir 2 in Friends

Is it not living together? But if you are living together, do you not talk to your spouse? Or do you ignore each other when the two of you are in the same room? Do you avoid each other?

2007-06-11 01:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking of becoming a male escort.
I dont want to risk my health in any way, can someone give me some tips or suggestions.

2007-06-11 01:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by aliuk28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a stay at home mother of three beautiful children aged 8, 6 and 3. My husband works long hours and earns a good income. We cannot afford luxuries such as holidays, and nights out at restaurants etc however we always pay our bills on time and we are able to provide essentials such as clothing and food without any problems. We are paying off our own home and we own our cars etc and have no other debt. My husband would like for me to go back to work within the next year or so as we are starting to outgrow our current home. My dilemma is that I had no intention of going back to work ever as I believe that my place is at home raising our children. I dont know how I could juggle both home and work and give them the same level of care as they are receiving now. They are all very happy, very well adjusted children and I am very happy being a stay at home Mum. Am I being selfish in not wanting to return to work?

2007-06-11 01:34:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Really not had any contact with my ex since HE broke up with ME three months ago. Last week he called to tell me how much he missed me and we ended up sleeping together. The way we left things was great. Flash forward to this weekend....he had a party at his place that he invited me to after we slept together. When I got there he basically ignored me and barely said a word to me all night. So when he was alone and the party was clearing out, I went downstairs to ask him why he was acting sooo strangely...to which he responded that he hadn't wanted me there at all, and basically just started spewing really mean things. i told him that it wasn't right to do that because i had never done a mean thing to him. He ended up physically pushing me out of his apt and locking me out. I regret doing this at a party at his house, but I really feel like I needed to stick up for myself, and I really feel like he was out of line in his response, as I approached him calmly. Thoughts?

2007-06-11 01:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by SarahS 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you catch a cheating spouse who has hidden e-mail accounts? I know the user ids but not the passwords? Help?

2007-06-11 01:33:46 · 22 answers · asked by gritsgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this lad i like, he looks at me but when i look back he turns away, is he shy, does he like me?
Sometimes he smiles.

2007-06-11 01:32:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You have the home the kids the pet the spouse. You are a stay at home parent who does all the work while other spouse is at work. You have come to a place where you still feel like some thing is missing in your life, but you don't what it is. you never lived on your own before marriage and only dated once seriuoly relationship before you get married to number two seriouly relationship. you try to find what is missing but noluck prevails. What do you do? what can you do to fill this viod in your heart?

2007-06-11 01:27:56 · 25 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im single and trying t oo find out if single is better.

2007-06-11 01:19:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your spouse or partner cheats on you, do you believe it is fair to cheat on them to get even? I do not, but does that make you feel justified instead of guilty if you are the one getting even? Does it ever come around and bite you and you finally feel bad? I am not the one getting even and as far as cheating, it was over 5 years ago, we were split up and NOT married. We finally married last July and then I think he waited to cheat after we were legally wed. In his heart we have been married the whole 12 years that we have been together. By the way, he will NOT admit he has cheated, but several things do not add up and I do not know if i believe him or not. When I accused him of cheating last December, he was so angry he wanted out and we did not speak for 5 months even living in the same house and sleeping in the same bed. He treated me as if I did not exist and did not care at all, cried alot and drank alot. Now, he is ready but still blames it all on me, my insecuriteis.

2007-06-11 01:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by peaches8866 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Thats dumb. The relationships only last 10 minutes then the whore-like girlfriend "doesn't feel a connection" and is off with a new boyfriend...

2007-06-11 00:55:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She knows how to do them,but takes her weeks to clean a fork,do laundry or sweep the floors or tables.Usually when she has used and made all dirty.If it is not me,the House starts to look like a homeless makeshift.I hate to impose my values on another and less on my love...but I refuse to turn myself or live as a slob.Shall I move out?

2007-06-11 00:44:23 · 15 answers · asked by Lucy,I'm honry! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have found out he has lied to me about everything in his past and I have all the paper work on it and he won't admite the truth even if it's on black and white.I have sent he the devorce paper's because I can not take it anymore. The thing is I have some of his thing's here all packed up and don't no what to do with it. I ask the police what to do but no one can give me an answer on it. I don't want him at the house, and he does not belong here, everything is in my name, and he is not on the lease. I found out he is a to time sex afender, and raped two people in the past, one a 14 year old boy. The Police has been no help to me. Is there anyone out there have and answer to this.HELP>

2007-06-11 00:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 00:17:31 · 9 answers · asked by ahunners 1 in Marriage & Divorce