Really not had any contact with my ex since HE broke up with ME three months ago. Last week he called to tell me how much he missed me and we ended up sleeping together. The way we left things was great. Flash forward to this weekend....he had a party at his place that he invited me to after we slept together. When I got there he basically ignored me and barely said a word to me all night. So when he was alone and the party was clearing out, I went downstairs to ask him why he was acting sooo strangely...to which he responded that he hadn't wanted me there at all, and basically just started spewing really mean things. i told him that it wasn't right to do that because i had never done a mean thing to him. He ended up physically pushing me out of his apt and locking me out. I regret doing this at a party at his house, but I really feel like I needed to stick up for myself, and I really feel like he was out of line in his response, as I approached him calmly. Thoughts?
2007-06-11 01:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by SarahS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
another note - when he started freaking out i started fighting with him, so after a while we were both arguing pretty hard...didn't want to leave out that i wasn't calm the whole time at all.
2007-06-11 01:37:44 · update #1
I don't think you were out of line at all. He was the one who called you whining that he missed you, then slept with you, and invited you to the party. Pretty rude for him to treat you that way at the party. It's not like you barged in uninvited.
2007-06-11 01:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you, then you should have left him alone. Why in the world would you sleep with him? That's all he wanted, and you gave it to him. Hopefully next time you will tell him to kiss off. Don't ever go around him again because he put his hands on you, and next time might now be so pretty. He's a jerk and will always be a jerk. move on and don't except his phone calls anymore.
2007-06-11 01:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never slept with him after you broke up. He probably just said he missed you because that was his **** talking! Leave him alone and ignore his calls from now on.
2007-06-11 01:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. guys are weird like that sometimes and dont know what they want in life. but if he called you and told you all those things and just ended up sleeping with you then ditched you afterwards. honey im sorry to tell you but i think he was just horny and wanted some. dont go back to him or you will probably regret it.
2007-06-11 01:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Carmel Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 12:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget him FOREVER. He was obviously missing you when he called the first time, but this relationship sounds like endsville. Move on.
2007-06-11 01:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing, but you really should have opened a can of "Whoop @$$" on that pathetic idiot.
2007-06-11 01:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was using you for sex, he is not worth it find someone else and please dont dwell over him, you were not out of line! calm or not, i wouldnt be calm if my ex slept with me and then acted like he hated me, its not right at all.
2007-06-11 01:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go girl!!! but u really shouldn't sleep with ur Ex lol!!
Good luck and kick his *** 4 me!!
2007-06-11 01:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Fallin4FallOutBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋