Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

Ok, about 3 months ago I went out with this real pretty girl. She has a nice body and a pretty face and she's hardworking and smart. And she's kinda tall, like my same height of 5'11''

Now I usually like shorter girls, but she is tall and petite, so it didn't bother me that much, it's not like she's an Amazon or nothing.

So we were going out and everything seemed cool and then we were at her place and she took her shoes off and leaned over to turn some music on and I saw how huge her feet were. I mean, they were long as heII.

That really really turned me off and ever since then I kinda backed off. She still calls me and tries to go out with me, but I'm just not sexually attracted to her no more becuase she has those big azz feet.

Everyone is telling me I'm stupid, cause this girl is real pretty etc. Oh, in case you're wondering, I'm not gay. I'm just real picky when it comes to girls cause I'm a freak in bed and I can't be a freak with a girl I'm not attracted to sexually...

2007-06-11 06:29:48 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok the mother of my child is being a ***** she wont let me see him and i cant really get over there everyday of the week i live like an hour away and she expects me to be there all the time but she whats me to move on with my life i donr know what to do i need some kind of advise thanks

2007-06-11 06:29:42 · 9 answers · asked by Killer_Status 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my boyfriend and I love being with him but the whole idea of getting married makes me scared. I don't know why. I am pretty sure I have a fear of commitment, even in other adreas of my life, just not sure what to do about it. I also had a really bad breakup (a long time ago) that I think had a huge effect on me. I even took some time away from my relationship to figure things out but really just wanted him back. Anyone have some useful advice??? I just want to relax and get married without the anxiety!!

2007-06-11 06:29:14 · 7 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just curious because I have heard that women love southern accents and personalities, and I wanted to get a public opinion.

2007-06-11 06:28:47 · 1 answers · asked by BONE 1 in Singles & Dating

What does that mean? I want to do something for him, as he does for me.

2007-06-11 06:28:37 · 2 answers · asked by S20x07E 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not a normal person. I have cerebral palsy, but it isn't very severe. People just act like I am a friend, no one pays me any attention when it comes to relationships. I'm not very old, so I don't need a heavy relationship, but I would like some positive attention thrown my way. If I am as ugly as people act like i am, how do i get a positive vibe from society?

2007-06-11 06:27:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...but so much time has passed and you didn't. How would you feel?

2007-06-11 06:26:55 · 4 answers · asked by ~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello,
I have a question about my relationship. My partner and I have been together since December, and until the middle of March, the romance was amazing. Now, it has disappeared for them, but for me, it is still December. I`m still trying my best to be romantic, giving gifts, calling every night. If we are watching TV, and I say "I Love you", they will say it back in a tone that, bluntly, is something to just say... there is no feeling in it anymore. Sometimes there is, but not like before. We would stare at each other for hours and not look at anything else, and now, I find that I am still doing that, but not them as well. I understand this is a part of a relationship, but what can I do being that I`m not ready for it to fade away just yet?

2007-06-11 06:26:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with my wife's best friend in our house whe all of a sudden, she started to kiss me and said that she still wanted me. we used to date before, but just became friends. now all of a sudden shes forcing me to have sex with her. we made out on her couch for 5 minutes when my wife came in and saw us. i suddenly backed away cause i was embarrased and i tried to talk to my wife. i was shocked when she didn't get mad and said she was ok with it. she said that she really wanted us to do it with her friend, but i didn't think it was a good idea. they've been forcing me to do it for the past two days. im thinking of trying it with them, seeing as their both ok with it. what do i do?

2007-06-11 06:24:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend moved to another state a year ago. We didn't know each other v well before he moved but he has kept in touch by chatting..say once a mth. Sometimes he flirts a little and I've started having feelings for him. I'll be in his area for work soon and he said he'd love to meet up. Last time we chatted he asked if there's anything he should prepare before I arrive. I said 'just make sure you don't have a girlfriend!' as in reality, I don't know if he does or not. He seems too goodlooking for me! He replied 'come over here quickly!'. He also wrote that he had fallen for me. Now I'm worried, as I don't know if he's seeing anyone and I don't have the nerve to ask? Anyone got a view on this, especially guys!

2007-06-11 06:23:34 · 18 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 06:20:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 06:20:29 · 2 answers · asked by glen_loves_fun 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or considered "damaged" if she chooses not to? If there is no desire then why force something that is not there? The world is already over populated and divorce rates are ridiculous, why is there a need to join the bandwagon?

2007-06-11 06:13:41 · 4 answers · asked by Lucky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm feeling very weird, is it normal to not want to eat anything, and keep vomiting if in love? Anyone else experienced this?

2007-06-11 06:13:28 · 3 answers · asked by november 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 06:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are now 21 and married at 19 together sense 12. Before we married he devoted himself to God and for the first year things were great. Then we move on our own and he did a complete 360. He now thinks it's ok to chew and EAT his nails as well as dry skin and his wart. I explain to him how that makes it hard for me to be affectionate with me so he refuses to give me sex. It is nasty he is a cable guy so he is always dirty and this also makes me afraid to give him kids. He also see's no need for church and is just feeling invincible and no one can nock him down or tell him anything. I felt after so many years I knew him and after years of discussing marriage I understood there would be issues but not this. I want to stay with my husband but he says he doesn't want to mature, have responsabilities but be married and will play the dangle the string game if you tell him other wise. I swear this is not how it was before we got married. Any advice?

2007-06-11 06:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by maria_crittenden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I'm trying to work things out with ; we haven't had sex in 5 months and he says it's because he ain't all about sex and can go without with no problem. What yaw thank? NOTE: We aren't really boyfriend and girlfriend anymore so he could be doing anything, but he says he wants us to get back together. Oh he's 27 yrs old

2007-06-11 06:07:29 · 26 answers · asked by sharon b 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been doing that over the duration of our marraige, which is almost three years. I am 29 and he is 28. We have no kids. If we get into an argument he will up and leave the house without saying a word. He will come back hours later. When I tell him this is not okay, he will say he is going to leave the house to cool down regardless of what I think. He either leaves or goes into another room in the house and if I try to talk to him he will get upset. My tone of voice doesn't even matter. I can try to talk to him softly and gently and he still just wants me to shut the **** up and get out of his ear. What can I do if he won't talk this out. This has been going on for almost three years.

2007-06-11 06:04:27 · 23 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What physical feature on a girl mostly turns you on? What body part do you first look at on a girl's body when you first look at her?

2007-06-11 06:02:56 · 23 answers · asked by Ariel BB 2 in Singles & Dating

This boyfriend has never come over to meet me, has her come where he is and seems to treat her like he is already obsessed after only two weeks of dating her. He is a high school dropout and on probation for rape. (My daughter believes he is innocent.) The more I talk to her about him the worse my relationship gets with her. I don't know what to do about this. She stays out all hours of the night every night, doesn't get rest and is constantly tired. If she tries to rest he raises hell and send someone over to wake her up. He is becoming a real thorn in our lives. HELP

2007-06-11 06:02:43 · 19 answers · asked by staylor33823 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How and when will they catch my Ex-husband for not paying child support?

2007-06-11 06:02:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey frenz....
how do i cope up with people i dont like.....i hate them...but they are dear to my hubby....i wanna avoid them but i cannot....i get so angry that i end up speechless.....i dont wanna get angry or feel so negative like this.....
wat shud i do??

2007-06-11 06:02:31 · 4 answers · asked by libran_beauty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to do something specail for this gril she means alot, keep the limit no more then 150

2007-06-11 06:01:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys be dead honest....what would turn you? What would do the trick? I want him to want me soooo bad!!!

2007-06-11 05:58:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it's been 10 months. we went out for FIVE YEARS. the only excuse closest to a reason he gave me was he "would never love me as much as i love him". then i saw him about 7 months later, and he said he needed time. i keep dreaming about him, i haven't moved on, and it feels as though i never will. we literally have stopped contact for 10 months. it's freakin killing me, i don't know what to do. NO ONE understands my situation (he screwed me over several times). so people don't know why i even care. but i really do. I am just really upset about this whole situation.

Everywhere I go, i hear songs, see things and remember our times together, almost everyday. There is no reason i should feel like this after 10 months. But there's not a damn thing I can do. I left him a comment on myspace and got no response whatsoever. NO CONTACT.

PLEASE HELP ME. I NEED IT SO BADLY. THANKS.

2007-06-11 05:58:11 · 9 answers · asked by Confused86 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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I have short, dark, cropped pixie hair, my wedding is VERY informal and relaxed, registry office followed by a party at my sister in law's home. I've tried fascinators but they look too Moulin Rouge for me, and I want to wear SOMETHING, I'm just at a loss what to do, my hair looks better short so growing it is NOT an option, besides, I've only got 2 months to go.

2007-06-11 05:58:01 · 25 answers · asked by sparkleythings_4you 7 in Weddings

So I have a bf of 8 months and when i meet him i knew that he did soemthing i didnt like for him to be doing... but i let it go, well now afte rmonths of trying to get him to stop he is still doing it... and the "what" he is doing is not important... just know that when he is doing it I get put into a bad situation, that i shouldent have to be in .. what he does he calles a job but in reality its not a job he just gets money from it.... anyways my question. I asked him to get a real job a few months back and he has not. well i asked him again and he told me to "butt out of my job situation" ... well that really hurt because im his gf and we live together so i should be involved in his life and job.
Well after me telling him that in a few years i want to settle down and have kids and that i cant bring them into this situation he eneded up saying i was right and that he needs to get a job... so he is soposed to be starting in a few weeks... but he told me last time it was going to be

2007-06-11 05:57:12 · 4 answers · asked by Strawberrieswild 2 in Singles & Dating

maintain a friendship with a friend despite their hurtful actions and a sense of bitterness in my mind as a result?

2007-06-11 05:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-11 05:54:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-11 05:54:08 · 12 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce