u need to go to court its your child too u hav as much responsibility as she does!!!! tell her that if she doesnt let u see him u will take her to court and file against her!!!!!!!!! i hope this helps and good luck with your kid!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-11 06:34:05
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answered by Anonymous
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When a relationship fails, some people can really take offense and make problems just because they can. You both need to grow up and be responsible. It is important to remember the welfare of the child is the most important concern. You need to get an attorney and get your times to see your child settled and establish child support. My niece had two out of wedlock children with this man and after they broke up she played all kinds of games with him and her children suffered because they ended up not seeing their father. Even tho they are older now and understand what happened, they hate their father for not being there. That isn't fair to him because he tried but eventually gave up because of all the games. You need to remember to not fight, keep your patience with your ex because your child is important. You will need to sit down with her and perhaps her parents and get her to understand you need a schedule. Don't argue, discuss - no matter how provoked. Once she realizes she can't jerk you around, maybe she will let up. Don't forget to tell your child you love her/him lots and if you can't be there, call and call often. Counseling can help too. When you can move a bit closer.
2007-06-11 06:43:33
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answered by towanda 7
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Are you two in a relationship? If you are then maybe you can resolve things and if not then you need to talk to her about sharing equal time with ur son because that's not fair. That's both of u guys child together. If u don't want to be with her u can still work things out. Maybe have her keep the child a few days a week and you the rest. OR switch every week. He'll get used to it and it gives you time to spend with ur son and get to know him.
If she still won't let u see him then u should get the law involved because you have your rights.
2007-06-11 06:33:10
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answered by Lisa Valdez 3
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If you are going to see your child and she is preventing that from happening, in my opinion, you need to seek an attorney. She is not suppose to keep you from your child. I don't understand in that situation, why the mother can't be more mature about the entire situation even if the two of you are no longer together. I would say do the right thing for your child. It is all about the child and no one else. Do what is right for your child and leave the rest in god's hands!!!! Good luck to ya.
2007-06-11 06:34:55
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answered by jetta 3
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can you move closer so you can see your baby often, or take her to court so they will let you take ur baby with you once a week or something. if your scared about money support wich i doubght i have a child my self and they are worth every cent.
and she is very inmuture. what the baby has to do with the problems between you and her. good luck!!! and fight for your rights. that baby is part of you too
2007-06-11 06:35:24
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-09-05 12:49:30
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answered by ? 3
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umm well she does have a point to be protective over her child ..but then again we dont really know your situation.....did u go to court to work out the rights of seeing the child?....a lot of couples do that ....or try some family counceling
hope everything works out
2007-06-11 06:33:56
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answered by LaLa 2
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most problems in life can be solved by setting your ego aside for a few moments and talking it over... if that's not an option, go all legal.....
if your kid's mother still won't budge, meet your child secretly and win his heart over.... that way, he'll stick to you when he grows up.....
2007-06-11 06:33:22
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answered by Answering Machine 2
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if you really want to be a part of your child's life and she is no cooperating at all, maybe you need to get a lawyer to make sure you can be a part of your son's life.
2007-06-11 06:33:11
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answered by AD 2
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