Family & Relationships - 11 June 2007

the man said there was feelings but he thinks it wasnt love. the feeling didnt grow.

2007-06-11 05:52:57 · 29 answers · asked by ORIN C 1 in Singles & Dating

accurate assesmant on this situation

My ex and i can't seem to be with each other(we argue alot)
But we can't be without each other( we miss each other alot)

this is not in my mind, it true, whenever we break things off, we stay so for a while but then we call and this has been going on for about 2 yrs now.
Can anyone help with this we need some closure but not sure what we need to do. i will accept any input. please and thank you

2007-06-11 05:51:09 · 20 answers · asked by jules 3 in Marriage & Divorce

On a recent ivillage message board that question was posted. The woman was saying she's been married for 10 yrs and the spark is gone even though her hubby looks better than ever.

I've never been in a relationship that lasted more than 4 yrs and that was my marriage and I'm divorced now. I'm afraid to get married again for fear of wanting to get out once I'm in it for some time.

On the ivillage message board every response was a "I'm on the same boat" type of answer. I would like to hear if anybody (ANYBODY!) has had a different experience. Can your spouse still do it for you after many years? Is that possible? How do you cope- deal with it?

2007-06-11 05:47:10 · 20 answers · asked by soda7nb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have found American women to be generally overweight, selfish and shallow. I am considering a mail order bride. Does anyone have experience in this? I am not really interested in all the feminist crap either.

2007-06-11 05:45:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in need of some ideas my husband loves the movies and I am kind of tired of watching them all the time what other things can we both do that will be fun and help bring us closer to one another. I love the out doors he dislikes it what can we both do with out it involving sitting in front of a tv all day? ughhh... I need him to do what i like to do as well, walking at the park, going to the beach, riding bikes etc. any ideas will help thanks.

2007-06-11 05:41:54 · 19 answers · asked by WhErE Do I BeGiN??? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are both 20. He now says he thinks we should have waited. We have been together for 4 years. I didn't force him into marriage and I was totally shocked when he proposed. I just don't know what to say or how I should feel about this. All I feel is hurt.

2007-06-11 05:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by myworldwillneverbewhatiexpected 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so this is yet another conversation between me and the guy I like-- before you read this, his friend's name is Nick. In the Hall about a week before this convo, his Nick was talking to him (Nick's locker is right by mine) and Nick said "Yea, he wants to go out with you Alison, say yes before he killls me please". Thats what this part of the convo is about.

(him) laxshoota: Oh yeah, Nick just wanted to see what you would say.
laxshoota: and waht would you say?
laxshoota: for future refferance?
Maneaterxinc123: I would probably say yes.
laxshoota: Oh.
laxshoota: Well I'm just not sure yet
laxshoota: I don't really know you as well as last year.
laxshoota: otherwise I would ask you out.

WTH??? What does ^^ that mean? "I'm just not sure yet"??? This school year is about to end and I really want to go out with him. What does he mean like he may ask me out this year or is it not going to happen this year or not going to happen @ all?
what can I do to get to know him more?

2007-06-11 05:39:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seem that society support the working woman who don't want to help inside the home too. Also don't help with the household expenses. What is your oponion.

2007-06-11 05:35:11 · 17 answers · asked by . 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We talk about having a threesome, but i am thinking more along the lines of another guy to play with both of us. I want to make sure she is not going to be freaked out when i ask her.

2007-06-11 05:34:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am in a relationship that has never been ideal or good, my man was incarcerated for awhile and has been out for about 5 months we don't really get along there is no spark there , he has hurt me ALOT in the past and is very insucure., but we have a son together ... i love him , but not sure i am in love with him, do not want to hurt him either...... i am stuck what to do ....

2007-06-11 05:34:04 · 15 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she promised the fire department she wouldnt do that again!!!!

2007-06-11 05:34:03 · 21 answers · asked by james l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are getting married in about six months. We are doing a destination wedding and only immediately family will attend. My parents bought us a washer/dryer for wedding gift and are paying for the ceremony (which is only $250) and they are paying for half the cost of our rooms for the honeymoon. My fiance's parents (who are of the same income bracket as my parents) have not offered to help with anything at all, and we are well into the planning stages. I do not think they are going to help and that hurts my fiance's feelings. It all goes back to a story from his past. WHen he was in high school, he wanted to take a girl to thr prom, but had just recently gotten a job. He wanted his parents to help with his tux rental, and they said "no." So what should I do? Do I have the right to be upset? I am really trying to downplay it--as I do not want my fiance to feel any worse about it because of something I say. Thanks for reading!

2007-06-11 05:33:48 · 12 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Weddings

Married 5 years, argued maybe 3 times. Had a small arguement about money. I chose to walk away to cool down, went into the bedroom and locked the door. I fell asleep. Woke up the next morning to her knocking. When i got home that evening, found a note on the desk. "By locking the door, you have demonstrated that you do not love me, i am going to stay with my family, i think we should get an attorney to finalize this." She told the Pastor i should have seen it coming. We are both Christians. I tried to call her to offer money, since she has none and I have control of the joint account, but no response, she is staying with her mother locally. I do not want a divorce, and i dont know what to do since she has shut down any communication.

2007-06-11 05:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Bill D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-11 05:31:55 · 27 answers · asked by hamthugger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My man to be still talks to his female friends on the phone and some are his ex's should I be mad and dump his *** or just get even and do something to make him mad or is it really a big deal and I'm blowing it out of porportion????

2007-06-11 05:31:10 · 5 answers · asked by MrsCAPTAIN !!! 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I were engaged to be married until 3 weeks ago, in which he broke it off because he has been seeing someone else. He owns the home that we live in. I have been paying 1/2 the house payment in lieu of rent, and we have been sharing utility bills. Now that he involved with someone else, he wants me to move out ASAP. The problem is, I live in a small community where rental properties are hard to come by. Also, there are very few houses for sale as well. My closest family member is 2 hours away, so staying with family is not an option. My question is can he force me to leave right now? My rent and utilities are paid thru July 1st. Can anyone give me any advice please?

2007-06-11 05:30:03 · 5 answers · asked by ann 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so this weekend i discovered that my fiance has in fact been speaking with his ex girlfriend again. it wasn"t only hidden from me that he was doing this, he also lied about who he was going to see when he went to see her and when he spoke with her on the phone. i had suspected this for a while. when the truth finally came out he still wasn"t being completely honest about the whole thing. it's complicated it also involves the custody battle of a dog they shared. i feel not only betrayed and lied to, but this girl also did not know that i was involved in his life. he swears it was jusy for the dog, which i could understand, but why not tell me about it then? i am very hurt, i don't know what to do.

2007-06-11 05:29:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need your guys help! i like this guy and i told him i liked him and he said he liked me too but i message him and he won't message back! i don't know if he is ignoring me or trying to make me jealous! please help me with my problem!

2007-06-11 05:28:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 05:28:03 · 5 answers · asked by living sad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-11 05:26:04 · 22 answers · asked by tommy 2 in Singles & Dating

My Wife & I have been separated for nearly a year, A couple of months ago she told me that after this time apart, even though we have actually been getting on well as a family ( we have 2 kids 5 & 2 yo) she does not want to try to get back together. I still love her & want to be with her & the children but she insists that she doesn't want that.

She has started dating again & is doing a fine job of 'moving on' much better than me anyway! My question is, now that we have been separated for this time & she has decided on her course of action, should we divorce & make it official? We are both equally to blame for the breakdown of the marriage so unfortunately this is more a question of 'what next?' than who deserves what.

2007-06-11 05:25:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

iam a teenager and i was brought up by my uncle, i was told my mother died when i was two weeks old.

2007-06-11 05:25:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do you get your family to stay out of your affais but they still keep own butting in. in grown with kids of my own and i do not like my family always putting me down iam sick and tired of my family

2007-06-11 05:25:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Someone told my husband a rumor about me and another man. What do I do now?

2007-06-11 05:24:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright this past year I have had my heartbroken 3 times. I thought I would be able to manage it, but I was wrong. During the last day of school I asked my best friend out and she turned me down saying that all she felt for me was a strong relationship. I have been doing my best not to show how broken I am, but its getting harder and harder every day. I feel that nobody wants me, and that no matter what I do it will stay that way, I know this makes me sound like I am going through depression, but who knows it very well might be. Any advice for what to do to try and fix my broken heart and to move on would be helpful.

2007-06-11 05:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

According to "ettiquet" which member of the grooms family should throw a bridal party?

2007-06-11 05:24:03 · 18 answers · asked by susan_s53051 1 in Weddings

How soon is too soon to tell them that you love them

2007-06-11 05:22:31 · 9 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

Recently left the SOB.....Now starting to have some feeling's for a GF of mine! Need some advice!

2007-06-11 05:21:23 · 4 answers · asked by jenny a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Guys,
Would u marry a girl ie an"Arrange Marriage",
IF that girl has Blood Pressure & also she had been operated in her past. ie (the surgery was coz of sum birth born problem & not her fault)......She is physically normal except her blood pressure & some little surgery marks......Also she has an average face & body.
But she has a beautiful heart & a sacrifising nature.....She is loving, caring, honest, simple, sweet, smart, friendly, a mind reader......I mean all those good qualities the guy look for.
Be practical & honest in ur answer... dont act to be a goody .......So wud u accept or reject her?????
(Its for my frnd, Sincere answers expected. Thnx for ur answers)

2007-06-11 05:20:47 · 32 answers · asked by simple 2 in Singles & Dating

I've stayed friends with all of mine, but some people find this odd. What about you?

2007-06-11 05:20:30 · 34 answers · asked by garik 5 in Friends